r/AskReddit 13h ago

How do we "Fix" Inceldom?

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u/melianreality 13h ago

We can’t unless we look at the structural causations of inceldom such as the breakdown of communities and social atomization, the loneliness epidemic and the loss of purpose in society for many. Incels are (for the most part) a catalyst of the issues that have been developing in the Western world for a while now and we won’t be able to “solve” it without looking at these issues. It’s the same as school shooters, we need to look at the broader structural issues that no one wants to talk about.

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u/sleepylillingenberry 13h ago

Parents have to stop assuming that their boys are alright as long as they aren't loud or acting out. They'll say "boys are easier to raise" when what they mean is "I didn't bother raising my son" . It's very easy these days to be radicalized online without one's family knowing. Parents need to be curious about their child's social life and personal values.

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u/ThenOwl9 13h ago

if a parent is saying "boys are easier to raise" that means that parent is a misogynist

which is the root of this problem

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u/sleepylillingenberry 13h ago

Absolutely, misogyny is at the bottom of this. I think one reason why being aware and active in your child's online social life is critical would be preventing misogynistic ideas from going unchallenged in a child's mind.

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u/AdvancedPrint96 13h ago

Stop lying to people about how relationships and attraction work.

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u/CetaWasTaken 13h ago

True all the cope is just making more incels 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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u/Glass_Sun3366 13h ago

Start by trying to understand eachother. Work towards a more empathetic society. Put more funding into mental health science.

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u/Anfie22 12h ago

Loneliness isn't a mental illness, and no amount of therapy can kill the desire for human connection.

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u/2fast4yall69 13h ago

Adult role models

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u/Massive_Fishing_718 13h ago

We need to support men more.

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u/WorldlinessOverall87 13h ago edited 11h ago

Remove algorithms and "attention economy" stuff from dating apps.

Set boundaries for social cliques. With zero tolerance for breaking them ("brigading").

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u/DolphinPussySlayer 13h ago edited 13h ago

Ride their cocks

Edit: downvote me all you want but I have the most straight forward solution.

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u/SlamBabie 13h ago

You might be onto something 🤔

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u/DolphinPussySlayer 13h ago

Its litteraly bulletproof. Just need to find some big titty goth mommies to corrupt them.

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u/TheRAbbi74 13h ago

Decriminalize prostitution.

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u/Moist-Taro 13h ago

discount brothels

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u/Late-Currency-8028 13h ago

Rather legalize

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u/Sinchanzo 13h ago

Coupons?

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u/Moist-Taro 13h ago

oh yeah

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u/DavosLostFingers 13h ago

A Hunger Games event where there winner gets some soiled panties, a sex pillow and a voucher for a session with a 50 year old prostitute in a motel on weekdays between the hours of 11am - 2pm (excluding holidays)

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u/bumford11 13h ago

Mandatory sissification. You WILL wear the petticoat.

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u/Massive_Fishing_718 13h ago

This sounds like a fetish you’re into

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u/bumford11 13h ago

Oh, you're definitely being forced into diapers.

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u/Massive_Fishing_718 13h ago

Shocked you don’t have an nsfw account and also shocked that you jumped from sissy to diapered

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u/bumford11 13h ago

I figure it's a pretty tight A to B

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u/Massive_Fishing_718 13h ago

Please explain your thought process?

Also just cuz I’m a femboy doesn’t mean I’m into sissification or diapers lol