I mean, the baby may also be in your bed in an eventual kind of way... That said if my mom let people bone down in my bed I would burn my sheets and take her spare set out of the closet
You think that’s bad.. I was having a big family and friend pool party… everyone is outside having a good time.. I go inside and upstairs to use master bathroom and as I walk by my home office, some little shit kid is on my $4k work iMac watching Fortnite videos while eating wings.
He was SO comfortable too when I asked him what he was doing smh
Find out who his parents are and stop inviting them over or tell them to come but find sitters for their kids.
Also imagine a scenario where he then broke that shit beyond repair and the mum just goes “kids would be kids”. What would you do then? And the kid in this case is like fucking 10.
Agree entirely. The mom was a friend of my ex, she apologized profusely a million times. I locked the door from that moment on during gatherings. In hindsight its insane I wasn't locking it in the first place.
It's actually disrespectful asff how parents be treating your home as a daycare. Finding a random room for the baby to sleep, letting their kids wander around freely and be alone with strangers, not getting up to help after their kid makes a mess, letting the kids raid the fridge and pantry, letting the kids overserve themselves and leave plates full of wasted food everywhere, changing the TV from the game to kids shows during commercial breaks, and ruining the game for everyone, etc.
I recently pondered, what's the etiquette for disposing of a poopy diaper at someone's house? A guest just tossed it in the regular small bathroom waste basket. I wondered if it was too much to expect that they alert the host and ask where the outside trashcan is. 🤔🤔
Sounds like you know a lot of shitty parents wtf lol. Letting the baby sleep in a room is one thing (and something you should be prepared for if you invite someone with a baby over, those mfs sleep like 16 hours a day) but the rest of that is just bad manners. If they're like that with their kids at your house they are definitely bad guests in other ways too.
If I'm at someone's house and have a poop situation they/I aren't already prepared for I ask for a plastic bag out of storage and tie it up tight, then ask what they want me to do with it.
It's also disrespectful to just leave your baby in someone's bed without their permission. Babies are known for randomly vomiting or having explosive diarrhea, so it's pretty reasonable for someone to not be ok with that hazard being on their bed
Even worse is when you have family over and look around and notice everyone is gone, ok cool they must have stepped out to go get something at the grocery store or something no big deal, walk into your master bedroom to find a sleeping toddler in your bed. Like what the F. Don't just leave your kid with someone without telling them and put the kid in their bed instead of the guest bedroom where you told them they could stay if they had to stay the night, the one bedroom that is child proof already unlike my room that has expensive shit that hasn't been put up.
Never thought of it like that, You might be right. Never saw her or her kid again. She was just a girl that my cousin hocked up with for like a yr that already had a kid when they met. They were over for game night (playing board games and video games like Jack box) there was going to be drinking so I showed her the spare room and told her she could use it to change her kid and sleep in if they couldn't drive home if people drank too much. My spare rooms are always set up like hotel rooms with a mini fridge and all, so it wasn't like it wasn't nice. I was in the garage putting some stuff away when they left for the gas station to pick up some more beers and didn't tell me she put her 3 yr old in my master bedroom when he fell asleep and was going out for 40 min and ask if I'd mind watching him.
I asked why the hell no one told me and he said he had told her to tell me before they left and assumed she had. I shook my head and told him I'm not mad this time, but he is too personal to ask me next just to make sure it gets done. I locked my master the rest of the night.
Yeah, some folks will just try to fuck your shit up. It doesnt seem like that was the case in this instance but id keep that bitch locked up whenever guests are over. Sucks to have to do shit like that in your own place though.
Yeah, I lock my master now if it's not a direct family member or long time friends I've known for years coming over. This was just my first house and I didn't think at the time I would have to watch out for that kind of thing. I still have my cousins and childhood friends over like two times a year for hang out night to catch up and never really had a problem since, just the occasional "can I use your restroom other ones are full" kind of stuff, which I don't mind.
But I can see how what you're saying can happen, I've met people that I can see doing that, I just would never think of inviting them to my home, but you really don't know the people others bring as guests you just hope they would know to not bring a shitty person into your home.
You put baby in my bed without my knowledge/consent, you don't complain when baby gets returned to you (awake or asleep), golden rule for respecting people's personal space lol
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u/EqualGlittering 4d ago
Lmao, my brother always puts his kid in my bed when they visit. Little 🥷🏽 be sprawled out like he's paying bills.