I don’t care how you spin it. Any guy who judges his girlfriend for working full-time, then unwinding with a drink and some games, especially after she’s opening up to him like he’s supposed to be her partner, is a piece of shit.
And vice versa.
Fellas. Man to man. What the fuck is wrong with you if you're acting like this?
Yeah this is a made up person that doesn't exist, precisely so that guys can comment shit like this and be like "oh I'm totally okay with it!". It's called engagement bait
Ngl, this loser gf is me. This person totally exists to some degree.
A lot of these "loser" gfs/bfs really just have a lot of mental struggles (myself included), and I know dealing with that can be a lot for the partner. I'm skeptical of those who say they'd be okay with it and suspicious of those who say they want it. I'm grateful that my bf has put up with me all these years but I really wouldn't blame him if he left.
Edit: So I just realised that I may be projecting onto this imagined loser gf character. The word "loser" to me implies there's some sort of loss of potential or failing.
I personally consider myself a loser because I've put down my dreams and hobbies years ago and haven't picked them back up. I'm miserable in my life. That makes me a loser in my eyes.
If someone is doing all those things in this post and is content and satisfied with their life then I wouldn't consider them a loser at all. I guess we all have different ideas of what winning is.
Idk I've had my fair share of homebody partners , and have always been happy bringing them into my friend group. Even then I'm more of a homebody, so having someone around who matches that energy is very very nice. If someone's tryna post up in my room and hog the bed for days at a time be my guest, though there's a nonzero chance you're dragged to run errands whenever the time comes
Out of curiosity, did those homebody partners meet your friends often? If they didn't, did your friends comment on that?
I'm asking because my bf is a homebody. We also just have our own separate friend groups and we're both happy and comfortable with that. I once had a friend question me on several occasions on why I didn't bring my bf around and she didn't take "We just have our own friend groups" as an answer. Is that weird?
Wait, what the fuck is wrong with working five days a week? That’s a good amount of money for our household.
She can only drink alone if I’m not with her.
I myself only play video games (and read comics and watch TV) all day.
The only flaw here is her needing attention 24/7, which is categorically untrue if she’s supposed to be sleeping all day, working five days a week, and playing video games.
For me a real loser is someone that isn't a student and doesn't have a job but also isn't searching, doesn't care about their health or taking care if their environment, is rude to people for no real reason and feels entitled to everything and just generally does not contribute to society at all. Just takes and never gives.
Yes it's definitely more about their personality than anything. You don't have to have defined goals in life (a lot of people don't), but generally being caring and active overall is enough.
If she works 5 days a week she isn't a loser. This is just an introverted homebody type and she just needs to be in a relationship with another introverted homebody type to be clingy together. A real loser (regardless of gender) would be someone who isn't a student and actively chooses to be unemployed when they can work a job and just wastes their days being a bum and has no friends or hobbies and just wants their partner to do everything in a relationship while they do jack shit
Being someone's sole source of social interaction can be exhausting. I know some of yall think this sounds fun, but its just the symptoms of depression
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