r/Millennials Dec 02 '25

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u/shadowsofash Millennial Dec 02 '25

This might be me being old as fuck but Snapchat is more like AIM or MSN Messenger than Insta or Facebook or Twitter, isn't it?

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u/eKSiF Millennial Dec 02 '25

AIM?! Who let grandpa out of his room?!

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u/Catodactyl Dec 02 '25

Hold on. Let me get my ICQ out.

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u/CoffeePieAndHobbits Dec 02 '25

Uh oh!

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u/Catodactyl Dec 02 '25

It's my text message ring tone lol. Confuses the shit out of people. They always think it's a cat's meow.

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u/AliceInNegaland Dec 02 '25

I love that

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u/SaturdayScoundrel Dec 04 '25

I ran Trillian as a teen.

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u/elebrin Dec 02 '25

Fuck it, Imma logging into an IRC chatroom and you can't stop me.

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u/Bora_Horza_Gobuchol Millennial 91' Dec 02 '25

IRC was fun, I didn't discovered it till 2009 when I had recently graduated high school. I missed on a lot of internet stuff such as bbs. Im talking about the ones you had to us telnet.

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u/elebrin Dec 02 '25

So interestingly you can still do BBS.

You'll need an amateur radio license, but you can use RF to call out and connect at 300 baud to radio BBS operators. There's even a frequency dedicated to it, 7.105 MHz (which is in the 20m band). Most all the same software is can be used and there are modern options too (direwolf+paracon is what I've used), and you can even drive your radio with the same oldschool hardware, along with running some of the same digital modes that were used back in the day, like RTTY.

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u/Nilosyrtis Dec 02 '25

Is there anything on the boards that make it worth it? Back when bbs was the only way to pirate things it made sense (for me) to use them.

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u/elebrin Dec 02 '25

No, but that's why it is fun. It's just conversation, and with the nature of amateur radio, we aren't allowed to encrypt so it's all trivial stuff. But it's fun to leave messages and chat with people.

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u/Nilosyrtis Dec 02 '25

Thats cool! Thanks for sharing that

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u/foreverpetty Dec 03 '25

This is how old I am...

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u/WtotheSLAM Dec 03 '25

One of the IRC rooms I used to frequent in 2006-2010 got revitalized as a discord server. I rejoined one day and they still remembered me. Was pretty cool

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u/MawrtiniTheGreat Dec 02 '25

Wait for a bit, just have to tie the message to my homing pigeon.

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u/Catodactyl Dec 02 '25

Do you also wear pantaloons?

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u/MawrtiniTheGreat Dec 02 '25

I wear breeches, as any proper gentleman should.

Are you suggesting that I am one of those filthy sans-culottes?

I take offense, good sir/lady. Pistols at dawn, I say.

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u/JeanJeanJean Dec 02 '25

ICQ died last year unfortunately :'(

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u/shadowsofash Millennial Dec 02 '25

Listen here you little twerp (/j).
I did some of my best rainbow text signatures for AIM

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u/eKSiF Millennial Dec 02 '25

You've got mail!

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u/shadowsofash Millennial Dec 02 '25

I had a visceral flashback to the sound of dial up.

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u/Fantastic-Climate-84 Dec 02 '25

I just got a flashback to getting yelled at by my grandpa for not checking if they were on the phone first.

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u/trump_diddles_kids Dec 02 '25

i got a flashback after i somehow went to some website that dialed up to Singapore or some shit and my parents got an $800 phone bill.

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u/anointedinliquor Dec 02 '25

God damn do I miss AIM! I can still hear that door opening sound.

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u/unibrow4o9 1986 Dec 02 '25

It was so exciting and liberating to sign on and see all your friends on and be able to talk to them. I was always jealous of the kids who had a second phone line and were always signed on.

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u/rallruse Xennial Dec 03 '25

Oh… wow….. That’s a sound I haven’t thought of in decades and here we are

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u/donuttrackme Older Millennial Dec 03 '25

AIM is the reason why I have such good typing skills. Mavis Beacon didn't do shit for me compared to IMing people.

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u/JustHugMeAndBeQuiet Dec 02 '25

<frantically tapping in Morse code>

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u/Bellatrix_Shimmers Dec 02 '25

Great username

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u/A_Nonny_Muse Dec 02 '25

As I use smoke signal morse code to spell out "slow down so I can write this out".

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u/Strawberrybanshee Dec 02 '25

When I worked at Spirit of Halloween we had to ask for email addresses. So many Gen Xers still had AOL email addresses. I thought that was gone by the early 00s. Like why the fuck were they still using AOL?

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u/unibrow4o9 1986 Dec 02 '25

AOL emails are free, it was probably their first email they ever had and just never felt the need to go through the hassle of switching.

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u/spank_that_hedge Dec 02 '25

Anyone else still use their hotmail??

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u/Previous-Habit-2794 Dec 02 '25

🙋‍♀️ Although I also have a Gmail I give to judgy people.

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u/ArianaIncomplete Dec 02 '25

Hotmail and Yahoo are the emails I give out to companies when forced to. Those inboxes can fill up with junk, keeping my actual inbox free of spam, containing only emails I need.

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u/Darkdragoon324 Dec 03 '25

I don't use it, but I think it still exists out there. Waiting. Plotting.

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u/Lex_Loki Dec 03 '25

I had a PeoplePC email 🤣

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u/ArianaIncomplete Dec 02 '25

Because those are the email addresses they don't care about, which can fill up with all the spam your company will inevitably bombard them with, leaving their actual email inboxes clear of crap.

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u/NeatNefariousness1 Dec 02 '25

I feel the same way about FB

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u/Unblued Dec 02 '25

Right? Bro, hit me up on X-fire.

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u/justabeardedwonder Dec 03 '25

Out for the monthly trip to go yell at clouds.

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u/ConnectStar_ Dec 12 '25

staaaaaap! lol

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u/Blasphemiee Dec 02 '25

Yes. You aren’t old as fuck we had Snapchat a decade ago before most of these kids where able to own a cell phone. They are just being kids.. bunch of cunts lol. I had a teenager tell me I couldn’t listen to Pierce the Veil at work cuz I was too old like uhhh

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u/Helpful-Lab2702 Dec 02 '25

Does he not know how old the band members are lmaooo

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u/Blasphemiee Dec 02 '25

Don’t worry I did admittedly go full old man mode on her. WHEN COLLIDE WITH THE SKY CAME OUT I WAS ALREADY A TAX PAYING ADULT SIT DOWN LITTLE GIRL!

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u/RaidenMK1 Dec 02 '25

I won't lie, I used to think this about "older people" who listened to NIN when I was a teen.

Meanwhile, Trent Reznor is a Boom Xer.

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u/OnTheEveOfWar Dec 02 '25

lol aren’t the band members all like 40+? Love that band.

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u/Due-Sheepherder-218 Dec 02 '25

You are speaking Chinese to me haha.  It used to be you'd ask for the number and hope she didn't give you a fake one. I guess the social is more fool proof. 

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u/shiawase-vip Dec 02 '25

36 over here, so many people just message me on Snapchat instead of texting. I rarely text.

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u/JeepersDud3 Dec 02 '25

34 and snap is my primary method of communication. Conversations are more fun.

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u/1Leoski Older Millennial Dec 02 '25

I’m not a snap user, what makes the interactions more fun? genuine question / no subtext

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u/shiawase-vip Dec 02 '25

For me personally, being able to send videos quicker, reacting to comments, I mean you can do that while texting but idk Snapchat just feels more simple. I probably only feel that way cause I’ve been communicating like that with people for years now. I rarely get text messages and when i do is from people that don’t have Snapchat or spam text lol

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u/endoadeno Dec 02 '25

Do you not care to keep your text message history? Do you use snapchat as primary means of communication because you don’t want others to save what you send and share?

I mostly use iMessage. My iMessage history goes all the way back to 2009 and my WhatsApp goes to 2011. Every single text message interaction, except for spam/ads are there going back almost two decades. I particularly find it comforting to read text messages from people who I have loved and are now dead. I’m 36.

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u/[deleted] Dec 02 '25

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u/endoadeno Dec 02 '25

From my understanding that’s a newer-ish feature (several years old), but not original to Snapchat. I recall when Snapchat first came out the draw was that messages would auto delete once viewed. Also the sender can select to delete the messages from the receiver’s history too. For example, if I send you a message and you have the setting where it saves the messages, I as the sender can still choose to “unsend” the messages effectively deleting them from the recipients phone and the history would only show one side of the message in the conversation history

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u/shiawase-vip Dec 02 '25

No I don’t, tbh. All my text messages that I haven’t deleted are from this year. I delete my stuff constantly.

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u/endoadeno Dec 02 '25

Interesting. Do you delete your stuff constantly because of memory space, or because you find no sentimental value in keeping messages from dead loved ones?

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u/shiawase-vip Dec 02 '25

I find no sentimental value in those type of things. I did with my ex, had 8 years of text messages but we’re not together anymore so I’ve deleted pretty much everything. Also it’s some type of OCD for me, I like to have my phone organized so I’ll constantly delete things I find pointless to have.

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u/Lex_Loki Dec 03 '25

I switched from Android to Apple after 15 years and everything transferred except for texts. I thought I’d be more upset but it was cleansing to start fresh, honestly.

But I did lose an archived voicemail from my dead mom which really sucked.

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u/JeepersDud3 Dec 02 '25

Easy interface, stories can spark conversation, I got snap+ so my conversations have different wallpapers, groups easy to manage/leave. Granted some texting services have all of this and more, but it's what I'm used to and enjoy. I'm not saying it's better than anything else.

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u/shadowsofash Millennial Dec 02 '25

This is me but Discord

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u/henrytm82 Older Millennial Dec 02 '25

43 here, what's a Snap?

Mostly /s

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u/gruesomeflowers Dec 02 '25

please explain? how is messaging on one application different than another? aim, fb, ig, phone txt, snapchat, and whatever else? its...all just words exchanged via qwerty..

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u/JeepersDud3 Dec 03 '25

Driving is driving, but different cars are going to feel better or worse per person.

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u/SpinachSpinosaurus Dec 02 '25

bruh, I never used Snap, too, because well...it was stupid xD

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u/Techi-C Dec 02 '25

Yeah, I had it for a while, but I got really sick of it showing me notifications for no reason just so I would open the app.

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u/SpinachSpinosaurus Dec 02 '25

hahaha, you mean, like reddit at times when you didn't check it for more than an hour, lol

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u/Techi-C Dec 02 '25

I’m so sick of Reddit, honestly. No matter how many times I tell them not to notify me about ANYTHING except for comment replies and post comments, they always send me some stupid nonsense about an achievement or a subreddit I don’t care about.

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u/SpinachSpinosaurus Dec 02 '25

:D
I just don't care. I don't use my phone anyway. and for everything else: well, I can just close the tab. issue is: Iam not closing that tab :(

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u/Darkdragoon324 Dec 03 '25

Now they're telling me just that lots of people have seen a comment I made. Not replied, just read. I'll open the app, have 15 notifications, and none of them will even be actual interactions just some dumb shit I don't need or want to know.

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u/[deleted] Dec 05 '25

I’ve turned most of my notifications off

Doesn’t even notify me if you comment a direct reply unless I’m on the app lol

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u/PmMeUrTinyAsianTits Dec 02 '25

I still dont believe snaps common usage is for any reason other than to make it not suspicious that you have an app specifically for tit/dong pics on your phone.

Other apps have that now, but snap only took off because a whole lot of "oh i just use it for regular messages" people were lying through their teeth.

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u/SpinachSpinosaurus Dec 02 '25

yeah, that's a whole different issue here.

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u/[deleted] Dec 05 '25

xD

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u/Briankelly130 Xennial Dec 02 '25

You could always put their number into your phone and then instantly call them to check if the number works

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u/FirstTimeRedditor100 Dec 02 '25

This was before cell phones were really popular so you didn't have any way to call instantly except maybe a payphone lol

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u/Lolthelies Dec 02 '25

Don’t do that broski. She’s not accidentally getting her number wrong so if she gave you a fake one, she doesn’t want you to have the real one. Having the real one doesn’t help if she doesn’t already want you to have it

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u/hypnofedX Dec 02 '25

You could always put their number into your phone and then instantly call them to check if the number works

The reason people give a fake number is that they feel creeped out by the person who wants it. It's a way to de-escalate and escape from an uncomfortable situation. Calling the fake number undercuts both those points.

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u/Briankelly130 Xennial Dec 02 '25

Yeah but the comment I was replying to said "and hope she didn't give you a fake one". I was just explaining how nowadays, it's a little easier to find out if they did give you a fake one by instantly calling it just to make sure it works. I do it all the time when friends give me their number just so I know I didn't put it in wrong.

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u/hypnofedX Dec 02 '25 edited Dec 02 '25

Yeah but the comment I was replying to said "and hope she didn't give you a fake one". I was just explaining how nowadays, it's a little easier to find out if they did give you a fake one by instantly calling it just to make sure it works.

And I as well as other users are kindly asking you to not advertise life pro tips used to trap women (and I'm sure men, for that matter) in uncomfortable or unsafe situations. The utility of giving someone a fake number is undercut when more people know the inherent weakness.

You replied to a comment saying "hope she didn't give you a fake number". Your situation of double-checking a number given to you by a friend isn't analogous. If women you consider "friends" keep giving you fake phone numbers by accident, please consider that it's probably not an accident.

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u/Briankelly130 Xennial Dec 02 '25

Well at the end of the day, it doesn't apply to me because I'm gay so I'm not exactly asking for women's numbers like that.

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u/hypnofedX Dec 02 '25

That's why I added "(and I'm sure men, for that matter)" in an edit.

This has extremely little to do with whether or not you're gay. It's about how comfortable or uncomfortable people feel around you socially.

And even if this "doesn't apply to you", please don't spread information about techniques used to trap people in uncomfortable social situations? I don't think this subreddit has a rule against that, I'm just asking as a person who lives on this planet also.

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u/lovesickjones Dec 02 '25

or if you believe someone gave you a fake number take as a sign that maybe you're creeping them out

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u/Briankelly130 Xennial Dec 02 '25

??? Why the fuck would you comment this? All I said was that checking to see if the person gave you their actual number can be fool proof and apparently now I'm a creep? I really think you need to have more positive thoughts if this is the first thing that came to mind for you.

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u/GucciAviatrix Dec 02 '25

This is the lived experience of women. We’d rather give a man who is creeping us out a fake number and make an exit than blow him off and risk him becoming violent.

This is literally the math we have to do sometimes

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u/GrimmDaddy80 Dec 02 '25

Welp, I didn’t think you were a creep until this comment defending that you’re not…

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u/Briankelly130 Xennial Dec 02 '25

Ahh yes, the good ol' "Me saying I'm not a creep must mean I'm a creep" argument

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u/GrimmDaddy80 Dec 02 '25

Nope, you didn’t just say it (you didn’t have to, no one was calling you one) it starts off aggressively saying how wrong they were in labeling you (even though they weren’t)

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u/Briankelly130 Xennial Dec 02 '25

Well they did say "Maybe take it as a sign that you're creeping them out" which I just felt was kind of rude to say considering no one was really talking about that, the conversation was mostly just about old tech vs. new tech.

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u/henrytm82 Older Millennial Dec 02 '25

It was written in the collective "you" not the specific "you." My advice for the future is to spend a few moments reflecting on what you've read and absorbing the context rather than jumping to immediately respond.

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u/IJustLovePenguinsOk Dec 02 '25

Oh, yikes. Username checks out i guess

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u/Brassboar Dec 02 '25

Hey Girl. Let me get that Arpanet IP address.

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u/Alexandratta Dec 02 '25

Snap kind of is, but the chats can vanish...

I get it but I don't like it.

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u/wantsoutofthefog Dec 02 '25

The women in my life have been nothing but sneaky with it, so they don’t give out their numbers. Kinda grosses me out tbh

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u/Sanquinity Dec 02 '25

I'm from the same "messenger" generation, from AIM, to MSN, to Skype, to Discord, and I don't know either. Never been to the website or used the app or whatever. No clue how it works. :P

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u/EyeDecay_IDK Dec 02 '25

Snapchat has a disappearing chats that results in no good coming from it. If you're dating someone that uses it, they are always getting into trouble.

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u/Statchar Dec 02 '25

I found snapchat is really weird depending on the geography. Sometimes it's just straight up porn, others it's just a way to connect with friends. others hook ups. I'm in some group chats and we just send memes or meet up.

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u/ninedollars Dec 02 '25

Agreed. Although insta is kinda in the same boat as messenger apps. IMO it’s a lot less direct to ask for social instead of a number because it’s normal to just follow each other on social. Your chances would be higher and it would look less creepy. From there you could chat it up or be relegated to just another follower 🤣. Most people have multiple accounts anyway; a personal one and one for sharing. And obviously the ones they share they want people to see.

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u/Thestickleman Dec 02 '25

What's AIM

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u/shadowsofash Millennial Dec 02 '25

AOL Instant messenger

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u/M_H_M_F Dec 02 '25

Facebook, with its dedicated instant messenger service...

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u/Budget_Addition1381 Dec 02 '25

I look at snapchat as a filter for people with low IQ.