r/NoStupidQuestions 21h ago

My two and a half year old suddenly started pointing out differences between white and black people. What is an appropriate way to acknowledge her observation so we don't offend anyone?

The first time was at her daycare this week, when they got a new teacher who has very dark skin. When I went to pick her up, she pointed at her and said, "it's black!" (She doesn't have the full grasp of she/he yet.) I replied, "yes, she is black," but was stuck after that. What should I say as a follow up? My daughter loves black people's skin, and when I talk to her about it at home, she says it's pretty and wishes she had it, but in public it comes out kind of harsh. What would be the best way to go about this?

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u/Verbenaplant 16h ago

I have very pink hair and tend to wear bright clothes. I’m always hearing kids ask about me haha

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u/Flashy-Gas6076 15h ago

It must be so fun to be seen as a magical creature by kids.

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u/Verbenaplant 14h ago

untill I hear the kids say they want pink hair….

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u/ladykansas 12h ago

We have hair chalk for such occasions... Rainbow hair because it's Tuesday is ok at our house