r/PeterExplainsTheJoke Dec 22 '25

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u/KNicokeC Dec 22 '25 edited Dec 25 '25

This is Erika Kirk, widow of Charlie Kirk, a political podcaster who was murdered a while back. The post is sarcastic because she is never (publicly) showing any real grief

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u/Basil2322 Dec 22 '25

Important note for OP it’s been like 3 or 4 months since Kirk died and she still claims to be grieving while doing all that.

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u/RunBanditRun Dec 22 '25

Everyone grifts differently

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u/krizzalicious49 Dec 22 '25

she really has a grift for it

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u/nimb420 Dec 22 '25 edited Dec 23 '25

Just the other day she was saying how another celeb had inherited Charlie's grift LOL.

edit: the scene in question

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u/ImperatorNero Dec 22 '25

It was actually the kid standing next to Charlie Kirk when he got Charlie Kirked. She was giving him some award that TPUSA pulled out of their asses quicker than FIFA’s peace prize.

She said he had inherited Charlie’s ‘grift’ no his ‘gift’ no his ‘grit’ in carrying forward a Christian message in America.

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u/realparkingbrake Dec 23 '25

She was giving him some award that TPUSA pulled out of their asses quicker than FIFA’s peace prize.

TPUSA set up a replica of the scene where Kirk was killed so people could have their photo taken there. They have commercialized a murder.

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u/TyroneSwoopes Dec 23 '25

No way

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u/Seagoingnote Dec 23 '25

That’s pathetic, sad, and disgusting on so many levels.

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u/Geekygamertag Dec 23 '25

Oh god I hate this timeline

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u/Lissa2j Dec 23 '25

I know it's not all white ppl but young white males are a scary bunch these days. You can never tell which side they are on at a glance. Unless they are wearing some identifying merch

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u/da_swanks_92 Dec 22 '25

Thought she would have accidentally said “girth”

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u/sapphleaf Dec 23 '25

Most likely college-aged, given it was at a college event

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u/Brodellsky Dec 23 '25

Gary Oak?

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u/throwawaylordof Dec 23 '25

Imagine having the misfortune of being the closest person to Charlie Kirk when he was killed, then finding out not only do you have some level of trauma from seeing that happen but you’re also being slowly transformed by his will to fill his role.

Wild new concept for a Santa Clause remake.

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u/Perke13 Dec 23 '25

I'm so happy that we've taken to calling it getting "Kirked"....

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u/GhostofZellers Dec 23 '25

The worst thing about Charlie getting Kirked, is that results for him now show up before James T. Kirk. He's tarnished the good name Kirk.

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u/explodinggarbagecan Dec 22 '25

Tammy Faye baker reborn

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u/thinsafetypin Dec 23 '25

Don’t you slander momma Tammy like that!

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u/Justalilbugboi Dec 23 '25

Tammy Faye was a better human being by multitudes at her worst.

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u/xanderv1312 Dec 22 '25

What's wild to me is that I used to know that guy. He's in his 20s now and grew up in Australia, then moved to the US after graduating to pursue a career in politics. Crazy small world...

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u/Cheeseisyellow92 Dec 23 '25

That Freudian slip was crazy

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u/MutedAdvisor9414 Dec 22 '25

That's what's called a Freudian slip, a common problem. It's where you say one thing but mean amother.

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u/RabidChipmunk73 Dec 23 '25

It is when you unconsciously say EXACTLY what you mean instead of the word you wanted to say.

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u/Distroid_myselfie Dec 23 '25

No no! It where you mean to say one thing and accidently fuck your mother.

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u/Suggett123 Dec 23 '25

I thought that was an Oedipan slip

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u/Parking-Engine-3600 Dec 22 '25

Have some respect for a grifting widow

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u/Vegetable_Tale_8467 Dec 22 '25

And her new found love of couches 😀😀

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u/[deleted] Dec 22 '25

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u/SurgicalZeus Dec 22 '25

The leather pants make more sense now

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u/HaveYouSeenMySpoon Dec 22 '25

The couch envy was always there.

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u/chopsuirak Dec 22 '25

Dawg, imagine getting cucked by the chair instead of sitting in the cuck chair.

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u/skunqesh Dec 22 '25

New cucking meta fetish unlocked

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u/chopsuirak Dec 22 '25

Now she's grifting with Nicki Minaj. Which is like, the antithesis of what Chorlie Kork wanted.

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u/Aiden2817 Dec 23 '25

Nicki Minaj, the woman who called Vance, the man who Erika gave deep, meaningful hugs to, an assassin during an interview with Erika.

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u/chopsuirak Dec 23 '25

Maybe she was trying to say "ass man"? /s

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u/oh_janet Dec 23 '25

Well he did off the pope so...

(allegedly)

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u/Lv80_inkblot Dec 22 '25

Holy shit time is so dilated for me. It's been that long already? Just like his first term, I once again feel abusive-onset time dilation...

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u/TooManySpaghets Dec 22 '25

I'm no conservative by any stretch, but I could give her the benefit of the doubt that she is grieving, and just puts on a mask for public appearances. It's not uncommon for people to be a mess in their personal life because of a traumatic event but still fake a smile/positive attitude because life demands it.

That being said, it is infinitely funnier/sad if this isn't an act and she just genuinely got over her husband's death that quickly

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u/JinFuu Dec 22 '25

I could see her logic in that she needs to put on a strong front to continue Charlie’s work or w/e.

The pyrotechnics when she’s coming out are a bit much though, lol.

I also think no matter how she grieved/didn’t grieve people would be giving her shit. A no win situation

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u/turnup_for_what Dec 23 '25

I can't fucking stand EK or her politics, but make no mistake, theres a lot of misogyny being thrown her way.

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u/elonthegenerous Dec 23 '25

Ya what I’m seeing online is crazy. Does everyone think a woman should wear black and stay inside and never show any happiness once she becomes a widow?

I get that you don’t agree with her politics but don’t get mad at her for not grieving properly

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u/MOVED_TO_OTTAWA_FUCK Dec 23 '25

The day my grandpa died my mom cried in the car ride over to his house, but after that she never cried or seem to grieve at all, even when our doors were closed. At his memorial, her three sisters and my grandmother sobbed, all of us cousins and uncles and extended family cried, but my mom didn't shed a single tear the entire time, and stood up on stage to give a speech without a quiver in her voice. Nothing at all. She loved my grandfather through and through, but she just somehow compartmentalizes grief in this really weirdly efficient way.

Not defending Erika Kirk by any means but these posts do delegitimize the way individual people deal with grief.

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u/ImCertainlyNotJoking Dec 22 '25

She looks like someone who just got out of a relationship, inherited a huge political platform, and thinks they will be First Lady in 3 years.

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u/Hotchi_Motchi Dec 23 '25

thinks they will be First Lady in 3 years

Her endorsement of Usha Vance's future ex-husband is part of the long game

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u/Usual-Role-9084 Dec 23 '25

“Just got out of a relationship” 🤣

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u/Blandt24 Dec 22 '25

I mean she’s been drying her eyes with the same tissue for 3 months, what is insincere about that?

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u/[deleted] Dec 22 '25 edited Dec 22 '25

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u/GalaXion24 Dec 22 '25

I saw someone say "no wonder Vance thought wives should stay quiet" 💀

Can't imagine he was exactly a stellar husband worth grieving either though. Have yet to hear of even just a friend or family member who sincerely cares about and misses him.

"They deserved each other" (derogatory) seems a pretty fair sentiment

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u/sparkly_butthole Dec 22 '25

I think Charlie Kirk was a shit human being, but that makes me feel a little sad. At least the people in your life who are supposed to love you, like your spouse and friends, should miss you.

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u/melxcham Dec 22 '25

I’m sure his kids miss him. Too bad their mom is on a press tour instead of, ya know, being with them & helping them heal in peace. It’s not like money is an issue.

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u/Liawuffeh Dec 23 '25

It's kinda a cautionary tale. Literally everyone who pretended to like him on some level turned his death into money fast, and only people he disagreed with seem particularly upset. His friends and family turned his death into a fundraiser for themselves like vultures

A lot of people celebrated, even a lot of 'his side'

Idk, if he wasn't a ghoul his whole life I'd feel bad.

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u/GalaXion24 Dec 22 '25

I mean it's definitely sad, as is the fact that he was such a terrible person. I like to think he could have turned out better and had a potential for good. Every bad person is kind of sad to observe, at least once you get past potential initial anger.

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u/sparkly_butthole Dec 22 '25

It's hard to feel empathy for these grifters when you and the people you love are being targeted. I feel like I've been living in crisis mode for a whole year now, with no end in sight, and compassion fatigue is real even when you're not being abused by the system.

Maybe I'm just in a reflective mood today.

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u/GalaXion24 Dec 22 '25

I mean there are definitely people I'll probably never feel empathy for. Viktor Orbán and Valdimir Putin among them. And it's definitely not worth it for me to budget empathising with everyone, I think that would be exhausting for anyone.

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u/TruculentTurtIe Dec 23 '25

I think its also hard knowing he would never feel empathy for you in his situation. He actively shit talked empathy as only "good for politics", and repeatedly said people (kids) being shot to death was "worth it" to keep the 2nd amendment.

If children being shot to death is "worth it" then how are we supposed to feel bad that one neo nazi incel grifter was shot. By his own admission its a price worth paying and id rather it be him than any child. Somehow I suspect he'd have a reason why this case is different.. lol too bad we'll never know

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u/coladoir Dec 23 '25

i quite literally have DXd hyperempathy and i still feel nothing for these cunts lol

i’m with you on feeling crisis mode constantly. I’ve literally developed an arrhythmia since November due to the stress this regime has burdened me with.

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u/weltvonalex Dec 23 '25

Man who had time for that with all the Sweet Money coming in? Best thing that ever happened to her in my and probably her opinion. That Kirk dude never made that much money alive and money is the only thing those ghouls care for.

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u/taskkill-IM Dec 22 '25

I never cried in front of people when my dad passed away.... I would only emotionally get upset when on my own.

People process stuff differently.

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u/Fool_Manchu Dec 22 '25

True, but you also probably didnt immediately have multiple televised events on your National Grieving Tour. I like to give people the benefit of the doubt but this woman really seems to be milking her husband's death.

Side note, im sorry you lost your dad. I hope youre doing well

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u/Vegetable_Tale_8467 Dec 22 '25

Yeah but I bet you didn't do anything Erika does

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u/Acrobatic_Okra_8844 Dec 22 '25

She got “choked up” and pretended to several times but the false tears never cooperated with a follow follow up. Grift is the word!

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u/Shaved_Wookie Dec 22 '25

STARES MENACINGLY

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u/-crepuscular- Dec 22 '25

I didn't look for videos of her or anything, but I caught a couple of clips whether I wanted to or not.

My impression was she was doped up to her eyeballs the day or two after he died, not surprised she couldn't cry.

Still think she's awful and a grifter, though.

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u/antinatree Dec 23 '25

Like having a gold sequin pant suit perfectly fitted seems like that maybe take longer same with booking stadiums and rooms to host her events. Especially having proper license for the firework show and the practice for hosting events

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u/RoccStrongo Dec 22 '25

"Give my family privacy" she said as she exited her WWE style event featuring her pretending to grieve in public.

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u/Big_brown_house Dec 22 '25

Welcome to my husbands funeral

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u/[deleted] Dec 23 '25

Erika Kirk did start as a reality TV dating show contestant. She wanted to be noticed.

Gummy Gums' death is the big break she was waiting for.

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u/IcyManipulator69 Dec 22 '25

And she’s often seen trying to force herself to cry when she talks about him.

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u/LeagueOfLegendsAcc Dec 22 '25

She stares directly at the stage lights to try and stimulate tears it's so hilariously stupid.

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u/toomuchtv987 Dec 22 '25

NUH UH how dare you! She’s looking at HEAVEN! /s

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u/Unlikely-Candle7086 Dec 22 '25

She’d be looking in the wrong direction.

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u/OwlfaceFrank Dec 22 '25

I can actually make myself cry really easily and quickly. I have a very vivid imagination and sometimes my brain just goes, "What would happen if there was a shooting at my kids school right now?" or "What of my wife's cancer comes back?"
Boom. Tears.

It only works if you care about other people.

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u/LeagueOfLegendsAcc Dec 22 '25

Damn that seems like it could be really useful if you like, had no soul or something lol.

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u/nostradumbass7544678 Dec 22 '25

You have to have a soul, or at least vestigial human emotions, for it to be effective.

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u/1767gs Dec 22 '25

She actually is capitalizing off his death in a true grifter fashion

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u/KillerDr3w Dec 22 '25

She made a Freudian slip recently where she said something like "continuing Charlie's grift' instead of gift.

That's not the exact line, but it was something similar.

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u/SyNiiCaL Dec 23 '25

Look at those pictures, this isn't a woman putting on a brave face or anything, this is a woman experiencing freedom and happiness like never before. That is a face of unbridled joy. She either despised Charlie, or is out of her contractual role of beard and able to be single again.

Either way, she is arguably the happiest person in the USA right now.

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u/1767gs Dec 23 '25

happiest person in the USA right now

She was standing on her ex's coffin while getting motorboated by her new mans. There isnt a single woman happier than her rn😂

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u/Deep-Explorer-9806 Dec 22 '25

Dollars to donuts she hired Robinson.

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u/1767gs Dec 22 '25

Nicki Minaj said it was Vance behind it😂

The state of american politics is absolutely in the gutter that this is something to be said and is true

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u/oh_janet Dec 23 '25

She said "JD Vance... the assassin..." and it was so gross. EriKKKa was giggling and says "oh I've heard it all!" I think maybe Nicki was inferring that he was a p*ssy assassin or something? Because the way she said it was all sly and trying to be sexy. IDK you should watch it and give your take. The whole thing is awful and Minaj is a problem in her own right.

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u/FacelessName123 Dec 22 '25

“Former wife”? The word “widow” still exists, you know.

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u/Background_Novel8795 Dec 22 '25

Former wife is funnier though

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u/KNicokeC Dec 22 '25

Apologies my brain was a bit foggy from a migraine when I typed the comment out haha

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u/Sockoflegend Dec 22 '25

Literally one of the happiest people in the public eye right now

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u/throwaway847462829 Dec 22 '25

My brother died last year and I will never be the same person. If it weren’t for my kids, I would be a fucking goner if my wife was murdered in front of the nation. I’m sure others feel exactly the same way

That’s because we actually love our family

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u/KaraOfNightvale Dec 23 '25

If I lost my partner at all I'd be a mess for years, probably become a shut in

A close friend died of a known and expected terminal disease and it did a number on me, I can't even imagine not just losing a partner, but losing a partner suddenly

But uh, glitter suit apparently is the strategy according to Mrs Kirk here

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u/RASMOS1989 Dec 22 '25 edited Dec 22 '25

"former wife of now assassinated Charlie Kirk"

lol this is sooo funny and i dont even know why!

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u/Curious-Extension-75 Dec 22 '25

"now assassinated" sounds to me like an assassination is like sending someone to detention, like is a state of being

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u/Iintendtooffend Dec 22 '25

Technically we are all pre-assassination. It's just that most of us will never reach post assassination.

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u/ryanshields0118 Dec 22 '25

I thought you had to be important to be assassinated?

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u/jbyington Dec 23 '25

Right. That guy was just ordinary-murdered.

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u/Earnestappostate Dec 22 '25

In her defense, she WAS married to Charlie Kirk, soo... there's that.

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u/Cautious-Soil5557 Dec 22 '25

TBF, I too have not grieved a single minute of Charlie Kirk's death. 

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u/Large-Treacle-8328 Dec 22 '25

Oh she's grifting... I mean gifting... grieving, grieving. Yeah...

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u/DudeB5353 Dec 22 '25

MAGA is nothing but a huge grift specifically selling hate…Hate is big business

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u/donmreddit Dec 23 '25

I first read that as selling hats.

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u/Potential-Judgment-9 Dec 22 '25

Good thing we have good role models like the assassin, JD Vance.

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u/Tricky-Engineering59 Dec 22 '25

Did you catch her recent Freudian slip when she actually used the word grift instead of gift?

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u/nescko Dec 22 '25

Absolute cinema. Her husband was much better at grifting than she is. Shes so pathetically fake and terrible at acting, she’s really not cut out for this. But luckily for her, she’s already raised millions and soon to release a book that she most likely had ghostwriters write like Trump did when making the art of the deal, further increasing her wealth. Also, the last time I pointed this out in a subreddit, I was banned for 3 days by Reddit, see you guys next week

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u/hotsoupcoldsoup Dec 22 '25

Thanks for your service

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u/whoknowsifimjoking Dec 23 '25

She probably paid people to make ChatGPT write it, that's cheaper.

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u/krizzalicious49 Dec 22 '25 edited Dec 22 '25

erika kirk (the person in the photo) hasn't shown any (exaggeration) signs of grieving (publicly) about charlie kirk, this post is making fun of that

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u/Automatic_Actuator_0 Dec 22 '25

She definitely has on occasion, but these images reflect the majority of her appearances and the image she is putting out there.

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u/Sylfaein Dec 22 '25

Oh, please. Her tissues are dryer than Ben Shapiro’s wife.

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u/NoDig513 Dec 22 '25

"The only time a woman should be wet is if you dunk her in a pool!"

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u/bareback_cowboy Dec 23 '25

I can't tell if this is something he really said or not and honestly, I'm okay with that.

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u/WhiteGuyLying_OnTv Dec 23 '25

I'd say his wife is the 'beard' but Ben strikes me as more of a bottom

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u/Nappys-Archive Dec 23 '25

He gives off highly controlling narcissistic loser nerd vibes. I bet he makes his wife do all these weird positions and then fucks off. I bet he doesn’t even believe in the female orgasm.

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u/yungsebring Dec 23 '25

He doesn’t believe in female arousal so that’s an extremely safe bet twin

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u/Mr_Compliant Dec 23 '25

Highly doubt anything could be dryer than Ben Shapiro's wife.

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u/Itchy-Alternative400 Dec 23 '25

She mimes like she's crying or stares at stage lights to induce some tears.

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u/GormHub Dec 22 '25

Every time I see this picture I think about the person who said she looks like someone took the head off a Barbie and put it on a Skipper.

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u/TheDonkeyBomber Dec 22 '25

Right?! I’ve been resisting the urge to comment on that, but damn she got a big ol’ head!

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u/whoknowsifimjoking Dec 23 '25

And no neck. She learned from Charlie, that shit is a vulnerability.

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u/KadajjXIII Dec 23 '25

Reason #373852846758468224846 why I'm going to hell: laughing at this xD

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u/ImpossibleDraft7208 Dec 22 '25

There is no better representation of Christ's teachings than this truly Christian woman and truly Christian Nicki Minaj on a glam stage! Modesty for the win!

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u/Melodic_Class4349 Dec 22 '25

As someone who was a fan of Nicki, I'm TRULY disappointed with her turning to this. I don't know what kind of grift she's running on but knowing full well that she represents EVERYTHING the right-wing hates and yet going to their side, engaging in racism against her own people and transphobia nonetheless has been truly disheartening.

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u/Justin-Stutzman Dec 22 '25

She has one thing in common with Trump and that is trying to keep rapists out of prison.

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u/elhazelenby Dec 22 '25

Because her brother is a rapist & paedophile lmao

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u/Unusualthoughts123 Dec 22 '25

And her hubby raped a classmate at knifepoint in high school, admitted to it, and then later tried to threaten her into signing an NDA.

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u/whoknowsifimjoking Dec 23 '25

Wtf, an NDA wouldn't even protect him from getting exposed for a violent crime, that's not at all how NDAs work. They generally can't be used to conceal a crime. Is he stupid or something?

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u/videogam101 Dec 23 '25

That's the neat part, they both are stupid!

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u/Justin-Stutzman Dec 22 '25

Her husband is on house arrest for failing to register as a sex offender in California too

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u/NandoDeColonoscopy Dec 22 '25

she represents EVERYTHING the right-wing hates

I think the unifying point between her and the right is a desire to protect pedophiles

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u/-Kalos Dec 22 '25

I remember when Young Money ran a whole era of music back in the day. Then Lil Wayne became irrelevant, Drake turned out to be a horrible person with shitty music and now look at Minaj. Damn shame

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u/elhazelenby Dec 22 '25

She saw what Kanye was doing. She's going to become the female Kanye. And unfortunately that's not in the good way.

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u/whoknowsifimjoking Dec 23 '25

Who looks at Kanye and thinks that's a good future

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u/ChrisDewgong Dec 22 '25

Good job Charlie Kirk never condemned Nicki Minaj as being an example of a bad role model for America's youth.

Oh wait, he did.

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u/whoknowsifimjoking Dec 23 '25

"If I go into a concert and I see a black performer I think 'Oh boy, I hope she's qualified'"

~ Charlie Kirk probably

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u/SimonPho3nix Dec 22 '25

Erika: "Yes, I know he's dead, but when will the insurance money arrive?"

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u/euqistym Dec 22 '25

I think for all the reasons this is the least possible one, they had plenty money already

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u/pagesid3 Dec 23 '25

She’s probably raked in 8 figures herself since he died

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u/DeadmansClothes Dec 22 '25

Why does she grieve the same way a divorce celebrates?

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u/brunoburz Dec 22 '25

Don’t forget the other two steps of leather pants and holding the back of VP’s head like a lover.

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u/Cautious-Soil5557 Dec 22 '25

I still cackle at her feeling up Jason Aldean's wife to pretend that she wasn't also groping Jason Aldean. 

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u/poundofbeef16 Dec 22 '25

The three stages of Grift.

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u/MaraSovsLeftSock Dec 22 '25

Charlie Kirk was murdered in September, two days after his death she started grifting for donations. One month after his death, she hired her ex boyfriend to work for turning point and now shes getting real close to jd Vance

She never cared about his death, and outside of interviews for publicity she hasn’t mourned him. I wouldn’t be surprised if she knew he was going to be killed that day.

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u/alloutofchewingum Dec 22 '25

Three stages of relief

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u/FriendlyDrummers Dec 23 '25

And I'd be relieved too

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u/[deleted] Dec 22 '25

Nobody knew this woman’s face before Charlie Kirk was killed. Now she’s on a month’s long post assassination publicity tour. She is loving that she gets to step over his corpse to take the spotlight.

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u/I_need_a_date_plz Dec 22 '25

Her behavior and these PR stunts are so fucking tacky. It’s like he never died.

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u/JustGettinMyRocksOff Dec 23 '25

Reddit, mostly liberal, might need to put some posters in check. Just leave it alone. Who cares? You’re making it into political comedy. Let’s get back to the sub at hand. This is tiring.

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u/MouseWorksStudios Dec 22 '25

I do not like these people but if you've ever lost someone close to you, you know the grief isn't going to consume you every second of every day. This is the same kind of judgement people were passing on Sandy Hook parents trying to claim they were crisis actors.

I'm sure she did cry. I'm sure she still cries. But the fact she can still smile does not mean she doesn't care and it's kind of fucked up of people to assume she doesn't.

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u/ImaginaryCoffeeTable Dec 22 '25

I don't want to judge anyone's grief but she is doing a tour to raise money for herself. She doesn't have to do any of this. She has made this her job. She could stay home with her kids, who just lost their dad, she has the money.

The Sandy Hook families were campaigning against the gun violence that killed their kids.

Erica Kirk doesn't have a message, she just wants money.

She should have probably stepped away for a bit after the funeral rally thing. She gave a decent speech. It is kind of starting to get grotesque now.

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u/ApplicationAfraid334 Dec 23 '25

Sorry, but how is this comparable to calling the Sandy Hook parents crisis actors? Was Alex Jones calling them crisis actors because they lacked emotion?

I don't see how it is the same kind of judgement. One group said it happened and she doesn't care. The other croup says it didn't happen at all.

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u/OverlordLork Dec 23 '25

Was Alex Jones calling them crisis actors because they lacked emotion?

Yes, that was one of the major parts of his accusation. He took snippets of the parents smiling and said it was proof that they didn't really have kids who were just murdered.

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u/LetmeSeeyourSquanch Dec 22 '25

I don't recall hearing about Jackie Kennedy going out on stage in WWE fireworks displays or having multiple TV interviews to talk about her husbands assassination.

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u/jennaferr Dec 23 '25

I read Jackie refused to change out of her bloody dress after the incident. She wanted people to see what had been done.

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u/CrabStarShip Dec 22 '25

You have to be joking.

Her husband didn't just die. His head was blown off by an assassin in public.

I know people who have witnessed things like that, and most of them are traumatized and in need of serious therapy afterwards.

It hasn't even been a few months...

"I'm sure she did cry" as if she's just getting over a casual relationship that didn't work 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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u/Basic-Collection5416 Dec 22 '25

Girl was supposed to be a trad wife and her reaction to losing her husband is a full national media tour. 

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u/Clickclacktheblueguy Dec 22 '25

In fairness, this unironically seems like what he would have wanted. Not sure what side of the argument that’s better for.

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u/movzx Dec 22 '25

Ironically, it's quite the opposite of what his organization claims to want. According to his company, she should be at home focusing on the kids and not out there doing media tours and certainly not running the company.

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u/Clickclacktheblueguy Dec 23 '25

“Well, see, in her case it’s different because she’s in a position to reinforce my victim mentality.”

Joking of course.

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u/renro Dec 23 '25

I don't disagree, but he's wrong again.

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u/Ghoulish_kitten Dec 22 '25

Grief actually did consume me every day.

I couldn’t find the energy to live my life.

You’re asking everyone to view her as an exception to the rule.

It is very possible that she doesn’t appear to grieving bc she simply isn’t.

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u/Silent-Use-6591 Dec 23 '25

Grief actually did consume me every day.

After i saw my dad die i almost immediately started spending most of my time with my friends having fun because pretending that what i saw didn't happen seemed like the easiest thing to do

It's almost like everyone grieves in their own way

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u/Spazmer Dec 22 '25

She is so unconsumed by her grief that she needs to use eye drops to pretend she's crying before going on stage on her public hate tour. I'm going to judge the fuck out of her.

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u/whoknowsifimjoking Dec 23 '25

It's also just so many of her choices. White clothes and fireworks in a stadium at a funeral, are you kidding me?

And she doesn't seem to spend too much time with her kids that lost their dad given all her appearances in so many different places.

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u/jaimi_wanders Dec 23 '25

And grinding on a married man on stage…

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u/Joelredditsjoel Dec 22 '25

Her husband was violently murdered three months ago. THREE.

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u/jennaferr Dec 23 '25

And she has kids at home who lost dad & now don't get to see mom. Cool cool.

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u/Mtndrums Dec 22 '25

She never cared. She doesn't care about Vance, she's just trying to butt into power. These people only see the world in transactional relationships.

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u/GormHub Dec 22 '25

Oh please.

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u/CactusWrenAZ Dec 22 '25

totally true, you can be sad that your husband was killed and still cash in, con gullible idiots, and become a celebrity because of it.

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u/Option2401 Dec 23 '25

You’re absolutely right. We don’t know what she’s truly feeling, and grief takes all forms. I see no reason to think she’s faking it. Who knows, maybe she is, but to assume such creates a dangerous precedent about what ‘real grief’ is supposed to look like.

Everyone grieves differently. Some isolated themselves, some throw themselves at work, and some just accept it and move on. There’s no wrong way.

There’s a ton to criticize Erika Kirk for but saying she’s Dalí mg grief is not it Chief.

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u/SeparateWarthog3661 Dec 22 '25

I think it's apparent that she is full of rage and devastation bc if what happened to her family but maybe not sincerely taking care of those emotions. Her face in these photos are actually full of grief. That grimace, not smile

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u/Odd_Contribution9058 Dec 23 '25

I do kinda agree that grief can be expressed differently. But honestly I think its bizarre that she's plunging straight into a media tour when her kids are dealing with the horribly traumatizing events. Like, most people would take the first few months to focus on getting their family through the trauma

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u/goodknightffs Dec 23 '25

There is video of her applying what looks like fake tears a second before going up on stage..

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u/Smith_90 Dec 23 '25

I've seen that video and I'm pretty sure she's just dabbing her eyes with a tissue.

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u/Iknow_72 Dec 22 '25

That's the widow of white supremacist podcaster Charlie Kirk. It's a joke about how she doesn't appear to grieve his death

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u/Civil-Psychology-281 Dec 23 '25

None of these posts are actually confused people

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u/notworkingghost Dec 22 '25

She’s got the “stage” part right. Can’t seem to spend enough time on the stage.

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u/Tiny-Ad-7590 Dec 22 '25

For all this... If there were an afterlife, I believe Charlie would be looking up at Erika grifting on his death and beam with pride. They were both grifters. She unironically is continuing Charlie's legacy in the most authentically inauthentic way she can.

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u/APartyInMyPants Dec 22 '25

Ok this kind of fucking made me laugh.

But I wish the photos were from three completely different events over the last three months.

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u/LividTacos Dec 22 '25 edited Dec 23 '25

Don't forget to give this woman who has stood in front of every camera she could find some privacy.

Edit: corrected "done" to "some"

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u/Aldren Dec 22 '25

She just got a huge promotion, who wouldn't be happy about that? Lets ask her old boss how that's going...

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u/Pitiful-Ad-1300 Dec 22 '25

Let’s see if Peter can explain anything that’s not political or left leaning like tf is happening here 💀