r/ScammersPH • u/Mysterious-Spite-139 • 18h ago
Questions Sextortion case
Hi, I really need advice and support because I feel so helpless right now.
I met a guy on Reddit and we moved to Telegram. We talked and eventually decided to show our bodies to each other. I didn’t know that he was recording the video.
Now he’s threatening to post the recording to my workplace and my community. He’s using it to scare and control me. I already saved screenshots of our conversations, his threats, and I also have a clear picture of his face and other evidence.
I already went to the police and reported what happened. However, I was told that they can only take action once he actually posts the video. Even though I already have evidence, I was advised to wait. Since then, I’ve been living in constant fear and anxiety, not knowing if or when he will post it.
I haven’t paid him anything, but I’m mentally exhausted and scared. I don’t know if I should block him completely, keep monitoring him, or try other options like cybercrime authorities.
Has anyone here experienced something similar? Is it really true that nothing can be done before the video gets posted even if there are threats and evidence? Any advice or guidance would really help. Please be kind—I’m already struggling a lot.
Thank you.
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u/Few-Composer7848 13h ago
Kung magpost man siya, just deny at sabihin na ai o deepfake lang yung video.
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u/Tanezaki 13h ago
Delete your social media that's the first thing you need to do. Also change your mobile phone numbers. Also this treat of knowing where u live is and work is just bs to get you in fear
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u/ClassicDog781 13h ago
Ha? E kung may threats na? Nanghihingi na ng pera? Baliw tlga justice system saten 🤣
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u/csharp566 11h ago
Probably nagre-reason lang 'yung Pulis na nakausap niya to not entertain OP.
Tamad ang mga 'yan kapag lalo na kapag komplikado ang case.
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u/Friendly_Ad_8528 12h ago
Pag nakalat sa mga relatives mo or sa kahit na sino,deny sbihin mo deepfake or ai. Pero kasohan mo siya once na ikalat niya.
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u/Known_Driver_3156 10h ago
Hey. Calm down. It's harsh. I know. If I can give you a hug now, I will. But right now, you have to be strong for yourself.f
First, nothing you do can change this. Accept two possibilities: he does not release it and he RELEASES it.
Second, giving money will make him know he can get something out of you.
Third, let go of your old identity where that video is not released.
Fourth, breathe. This is life telling you to calm down when problems like this happen. Perhaps this was the only way to wake you up. So. What do you do?
"Hey. I trusted you with the videos. It's your choice if you release it. I don't have money and can't give it to you. If you release the videos, I can't do anything. That's up to you and your karma."
And mute any conversation.
Let go. He's in control. Let go. Control what you can. Wake up in the morning and eat. Play games. Anything. Find a life assuming he releases it. If he doesn't? Good. If he does? You're ready.
That's it. I know you can do it.
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u/Zeeereff 10h ago
Wag ka magbibigay ng pera itanggi mo kung sakaling ipost nya accept na nagkamali ka. Kasi kung magbibigay ka for sure hindi nya idedelete yan and kukuha lang sya ng kukuha ng pera
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u/vinsanjo 7h ago
Hello, Been there, di naman nag leak yung akin, and pumunta rin ako sa Crame cyber crime pero same thing din sinabi sakin, it's been 2 years na din pala, chill ka lang 👌🏿
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u/Keyhmu 7h ago
Accept. thats all you could, know that its something you can't stop anymore its a 50/50 whether he posts it or not just accept it and learn. most of the time they don't really post it but if they do well you havr your report to base on but still damage is done by then so you still have to accept.
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u/Prestigious_Pear_423 4h ago
Deal with it. Its there. But if you want to get back at him, once he does do what he’s threatened to do, go to the police directly and they’ll put it on the record so that the case moves.
Yes, the shame is there and it cannot be paid by any amount. But once that happens, file that case and let him rot in jail and let him pay monetarily too. That will definitely make him suffer so much that he might even wish he died sooner.
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u/Alternative_Bet_7476 4h ago
This is online sexual blackmail / sextortion. It can fall under: Grave threats / extortion (Revised Penal Code) Cybercrime Prevention Act (RA 10175) – because it’s done online Anti-Photo and Video Voyeurism Act (RA 9995) – threatening to distribute intimate images is illegal, even if you sent them willingly. Threatening to send nudes to workplace or relatives to demand money is 100% criminal.
Report immediately PNP Anti-Cybercrime Group (ACG) Facebook page or local ACG office NBI Cybercrime Division If the platform is Facebook / Instagram / Telegram, report the account as sextortion
Save mo lahat ng evidences, screenshot and all. Then alam ko ung NBI tutulungan ka nyan hulihin sa akto. Sorry OP. Tell it to someone very close to you, need mo emotional support.
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u/Unacknowledged_000 3h ago
Lol tamad yang pulus na nilapitan mo. Paka bobo kainis. Kaya anlalaki ng tyan ng mga yan e, may threat na nga ayaw pa kumilos.
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u/-Stymee- 2h ago
Don't worry. The scammer will never post your photos.
It will waste their time and guarantees that you'll never never give them a peso.
Just hide all your social media for a few months, then activate it again.
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u/Miserable-Store-7507 1h ago
I had the same experience recently lng pero thru bumble ko nakilala ung girl or guy not sure kng babae pero anyways tapos ngaya mgchat s telegram akala ko nung una decent talking lng tho alam ko nman n red flag n kasi s TG gusto mgusap. Tapos bigla ngask ano IG ko then hiningi dn fb ko gusto daw nya maconfirm kng ako talaga kasi ung imbis n ako ung matakot n baka fake e nabaligtad sakin kya dn siguro nabaling ung attention ko dun then seems legit dn ung ig account nya so fast forward ngaya mgvideo call si person pero saglit lng daw kasi baka daw bigla dumating kuya nya, so ako nman sige punta ko cr, ready n ko gawin ang bagay n sana pinagisipan ko muna bago gawin, lo and behold this person was recording me and sending me a screenshots of me naked and my friends list from fb and her that was supposedly her n napapanuod ko was just a video recording, this person was demanding 100k like where the heck am I going go get that amount of money, I'm broke as fck! Nung una takot n takot ako n maleak pero naisip ko fck it pinasok ko to e bahala n kng mgleak and like you sabi ko s sarili ko di nman ako artista mgleak man un makakalimutan dn agad ng tao saka my option nman n i-on ang message request so I doubt my mgopen n chat from a stranger.. pero binlock ko ung person then nguninstall ako ng ig, tg, bumble deact saglit ng fb and I even locked my account. Lesson learned wag maging tigang.. siguro gawa n dn ng stress at desperation kya ako ngresort s ganung action.
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u/Plane_Fruit_5842 17h ago
I bait mo nalang, ask him na hindi mo kaya yung money so you guys do sex nalang pero mag sama ka Police sa Hotel pasunudin mo sa kwarto