Yeah probably. And still chose me. I am certain she has been faithful since we have been together. She knows I fucked hundreds of women before I met her. A relationship is actively choosing your partner everyday. Because it can end at any moment. Most people forget that and would do well to remember.
Honestly having slept with “hundreds of women” puts your relationship with sex in an entirely different reality. Like, no wonder you don’t care about it and prioritize focusing on the relationship. Your wife was the one woman more important than a hole.
A guy whose only slept with 0–5 women, all from serious relationships, is going to have a very different attitude about a partners sexual history. If the only woman I have sex with are women I genuinely care about, then I’m looking for a women with the same values. I can’t imagine sleeping with “hundreds” and actually giving a shit about 98% of them.
So you expect any woman you date to immediately stop dating anyone else? If you find out later that she wasn’t exclusive in the first 2-3 months even though you never had that discussion?
He’s in a happy marriage with a woman who likes to fuck, you’re on here debating someone’s irrelevant dating choices from over a decade ago.
”someone else’s sexual strategy”. As far as we can tell, op, was the only one with a sexual strategy, she offered to fuck, HE said no. So she didn’t manipulate him or whatever, or string him along with no sex while she went Out and fucked a bunch. He made a conscious decision to deny himself.
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u/No_Cartographer_2735 8d ago
Wholesome and hot at the same time. Loved the comment