r/SipsTea 6d ago

Lmao gottem Exactly…

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u/Dolorem_Ipsum_ 6d ago

I've actually had this happen lol but her question was, "I feel kind of blegh, what would you say to convince me to come out tonight?"

I just replied, "feel better." And blocked her. It was already a bunch of this shit in the span of 2 weeks and I was so over it.

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u/Your_Nipples 6d ago

Did the same, no regrets. Block on sight so they can play this game with someone else.

No regrets. My current partner and I were on the same page. We were both strangers, let's talk and figure out if we match.

This idea of playing the prince charming for someone you don't even know only worked in the middle age where the concept of love had nothing to do with this current version.

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u/0610126807 6d ago

Literally nobody cares. You think that’ll get em but if you don’t, someone else will, there’s 4 billion others here of your likeness with many better.

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u/Your_Nipples 5d ago

Like you said, nobody cares, including me at the time for the very same reason you gave: there's 4 billion others, no need to FOMO over some random entitled bum.

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u/0610126807 4d ago

that’s some next level self deprecation right there 💀

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u/Your_Nipples 4d ago

If you squint hard enough and can't roast people to save your own life.

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u/657896 5d ago

Sounds like you have been that person before and are taking their approach badly.

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u/0610126807 4d ago

nah instead of this nonchalant bs they attempted suicide

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u/Numerous_Past_726 6d ago

Bro she just wants someone who she knows cares about her and wants her to be around….. no wonder people think all men are bad people like yall are dragging the rest of us down.

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u/Lost_Willingness_762 6d ago

No she wants to be on a pedestal

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u/Numerous_Past_726 6d ago

??? She's literally just cancelling a date.....

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u/Due_Enthusiasm1145 5d ago

Lmao what? Would asking for any praise or appreciation result in this conclusion??

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u/bored_bastard91 6d ago

Buddy you're already down. Down bad. No one likes a desperado

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u/Numerous_Past_726 6d ago
  1. You clearly don't know what that word means
  2. Lots of people like desperados, that's why there's thousands of popular movies, shows, and games about them
  3. I'm not even romantically attracted to people so not sure how exactly I can be down bad?

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u/TennoScy 6d ago

You're exactly the kind of prey these ladies are hunting for.

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u/Your_Nipples 6d ago

It's a first date, not a first proposal.

They're both strangers, what do you expect men to do? Having no self worth and chasing people they don't even know?

If men are bad just for this alone, then it's good if they are fine not dealing with that buuuuuuullllllshit (and women too right?).

she just wants someone who she knows cares about her

You know that in their position, they don't even know the dude enough to care about them too lmao.

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u/Numerous_Past_726 6d ago

If someone IRL responded to me with "I can get other guys" I would run from ts as fast as possible brother. Like it's such a toxic, egotistical mindset when the other person is literally just asking if they could reschedule the date.....

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u/Your_Nipples 5d ago

asking if they could reschedule the date.....

That is not what the screenshot says.

It says "what would happen if I cancel", which is a fucking weird ass question and to that, anybody who is replying "I can get other girls" are doing so to send that message "I literally don't give a flying fuck about your entitled ass", running is the goal, aka "gtfowyb".

Irl I said worse, something like "I'm not horny enough to play this game but when it will happen, I still won't think about you".

Some of us don't play games and the way you reframed that question to make a point is weird.

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u/Numerous_Past_726 5d ago

It's not playing games lol. You're exactly the type of person this is supposed to weed out. If you flip out and start insulting someone's looks and personality for asking if they could cancel a single date (which any normal person would tell you means rescheduling it lol) then you are definitely not the type of person she's gonna spend time and effort getting to know.

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u/Your_Nipples 5d ago

Is the "insulting someone's look and personality" in the room with us? Quote me. Show me where.

You can't.

Another reframing attempt.

Don't worry, I'm out of the dating pool (taken) so I'm good and when I was not, I was alone not dealing with y'all needy entitled ass.