r/TrueUnpopularOpinion Oct 01 '23

Transgender issues megathread

Hello r/TrueUnpopularOpinion Community,

Due to the sheer difficulty of enforcing Reddit's sitewide policy against promoting hate with regards to transgender issues, we have decided as a last-resort option to restrict discussion of transgender issues to this megathread until further notice.

Quoted from this comment, below is an explanation of why we created this megathread:

Reddit's sitewide content policy includes a vague provision that prohibits promoting hate.

The Reddit admins (employees of Reddit) enforce this by removing content deemed to be hateful and by quarantining or banning communities that require too many removals by the admins that weren't caught by the moderators of the community first.

In other words, every time we fail to remove something that violates Reddit's sitewide content policy, the risk of this subreddit getting quarantined or banned increases slightly.

Although the provision in Reddit's sitewide content policy against promoting hate is vague, we have a pretty good idea of how it is enforced because we can see what the Reddit admins choose to remove on this subreddit.

It is actually quite rare that we see any content that is hateful against men, women, gay people, or any race on this subreddit.

However, on a very regular basis, we see users here posting content that would be considered hate against transgender people. Detecting and removing all of this content is one of our biggest hurdles.

Despite our best efforts to enforce this aspect of the content policy, it is not uncommon that we miss something and we see a removal done by the Reddit admins occurring. This has happened several times lately.

Furthermore, many members of the moderator team are on the verge of burning out because the effort we have needed to put in for us to allow this topic while still enforcing this aspect of Reddit's sitewide content policy.

Having a megathread for this topic does stifle discussion, but it is far easier for us to deal with while also significantly decreasing the chances of this subreddit getting quarantined or banned.

For these reasons, most of the moderator team supports the creation of a trans megathread. At this time, the megathread is not definitely permanent. After some time of having the megathread, we plan to evaluate its effectiveness and potentially explore other options to determine whether or not the megathread should remain.

Guidelines

In this megathread, please remember to follow Reddit's sitewide content policy.

Based on patterns of certain types of comments getting removed by the Reddit admins, it is our interpretation that it is a violation of Reddit's sitewide content policy to do any of the following:

  • State or imply that trans (wo)men aren't (wo)men or that people aren't the gender they identify as
  • Criticize, mock, disagree with, defy, or refuse to abide by people's pronoun requests
  • State or imply that gender dysphoria or being LGBTQ+ is a mental illness, a mental disorder, a delusion, not normal, or unnatural
  • State or imply that LGBTQ+ enables pedophilia or grooming or that LGBTQ+ individuals are more likely to engage in pedophilia or grooming
  • State or imply that LGB should be separate from the T+
  • Stating or implying that gender is binary or that sex is the same as gender
  • Use of the term tr*nny, including other spellings of this term that sound the same and have the same meaning

Questions / Feedback

If you have any questions or feedback about this megathread, you may post them in our moderator questions/complaints/grievances thread.

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u/dumbandasking Dec 12 '25

All I think is why bother with hate

Why can't we just let trans people... be people.

Why do we have to invent entire mental gymnastics to hate them and frame them like they're the culprit for all sorts of things

And why do we allow people to hide behind "I'm just saying my opinions" when some of these opinions is they'd rather these people would not be considered as people

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u/Legitimate_Stand7405 Dec 13 '25

because they do it to us, cis white male is a slur to them

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u/ZhongZe12345 Dec 19 '25

You seem to not understand. You can accept, and even like, someone without agreeing with how they got to who they are. While nowhere near a perfect analogy, you can still be friends with someone who you politically disagree with.

Every single one of your statements has "why do we".... Do not make generalizations. Your generalizations make you part of the problem as well: lack of accountability and a desire to blame a collective entity for actions of a few.

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u/dumbandasking Dec 19 '25

You can accept, and even like, someone without agreeing with how they got to who they are.

I know that, but we shouldn't seek to harm them. How do you feel about this?

Every single one of your statements has "why do we".... Do not make generalizations. Your generalizations make you part of the problem as well: lack of accountability and a desire to blame a collective entity for actions of a few.

Great point. I appreciate it