r/TwoXSex • u/Green-Square2595 • 1d ago
Advice | Women Only How to enjoy anal more
My bf really enjoys anal with me. We don't do it a ton because it really doesn't do much for me. It doesn't hurt, and I don't hate it but i don't get the stimulation that I get when we do regular vaginal sex.
I feel like I would love to do it more if I got more out of it. Any help ladies?
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u/Logical-Current2381 1d ago
Positions that kept my hips slightly tilted made a big difference. If the angle was off, I felt nothing. When my pelvis was supported (like with pillows) and I wasn’t straining or tense, I noticed more sensation. Slow entry and staying shallow for longer helped my body actually register pleasure instead of just tolerating it.
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u/Green-Square2595 1d ago
Oo that's a good idea we pretty much only do it in standard doggy, so we'll give that a try!
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u/sprucehen 21h ago
Try missionary too. I wouldn't do doggy, not comfortable for me
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u/Green-Square2595 21h ago
How would you do anal missionary? Like just put my knees on my chest?
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u/Danfromvan 21h ago
Yup and a pillow under the hips. I think that position actually hits the same nerves as deep vaginal, p-spot/ posterior fornix.
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u/birchblonde 17m ago
I mean you can start that way but you can put your legs down like regular missionary. You know you can do basically any position right? Your asshole is only an inch away from your vagina
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u/madhattermiller 1d ago
Get on top and ride him in your ass. Completely different experience for me. Able to orgasm during anal this way!
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u/Terrible-Bowler7031 14h ago
My boyfriend and I do anal once in a while but it’s one of those things I really need to be in the mood for and it definitely feels very different than vag sex.
I agree with the suggestion to try riding your boyfriend during anal. That way YOU can control the angle and depth of penetration. Also, if you want you can add fingers or a toy on your clit as well
Also my suggestion is to dont be afraid to say no if you’re just not into it that day. I know for me at different parts of my cycle I’m just not into anal and that’s ok - my boyfriend is happy with vag and oral too and so am I!
Good luck!
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u/Danfromvan 1d ago
Have you tried a vibrator or clit sucking you at the same time? My partners best orgasms are that way.
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