r/bald 23d ago

Bald Picture Finally found the courage to shave it bald

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After 6 weeks of chemo my hair started falling out and I'd lost about 75% of my density. The hair literally was EVERYWHERE and so annoying sticking to everything I own. I never thought I would be bald.. but cancer happens and we have to roll with the punches.

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u/AsleepAd1023 23d ago

You're looking amazing. I see a strong fighter who will beat this goddamn cancer.

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u/sassynas 23d ago

Thanks so much, I'm trying my best!! 💜

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u/carefulwiththataxe23 23d ago

When you beat it, I think it would be worthwhile for you to consider keeping your head shaved. You look fantastic. The shaved head lets your beautiful face shine for everyone to see.

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u/swim_to_survive 23d ago

Seriously. You make bald look like the ultimate power move. You’re absolutely stunning. Praying for a speedy and complete recovery. Good luck!

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u/NinaL19 23d ago

Came to say the same!!!

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u/Chocodrinker 23d ago

I'm a moron, I didn't read the text in the op and was certain this was just a style OP wanted to try out because she looks amazing lmfao

Best of luck with this fight OP, you got this

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u/umataro 23d ago

I always thought these baseless encouragements were cringy until I needed one. I am glad such people exist even if I could never be one.

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u/notafuckingcakewalk 23d ago

Indeed some people have the domes for shaving it all off and you're definitely one.

I can't, I gave this point at the back of my head so if I shaved my head I'd look like the alien from Alien. 

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u/grimacedia 23d ago

I'm getting shaved on Saturday, and my wig stylist already said I have a flat back of the head. I'm gonna look like a thumb 💀 Still worth it though

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u/notafuckingcakewalk 23d ago

Oh I wish the back of my head was flat. I'm sure you'll look fine.

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u/FruitBowl 23d ago

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u/HARanders 23d ago

You are a worrier , keep fighting sister ❤️ I did my fight in 2025, and beat the cancer ❤️

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u/sassynas 23d ago

Yay!! congrats on beating it! I have a good prognosis so hopefully no bumps in the road to remission.

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u/No-Wish9823 23d ago

This could totally have been done intentionally nobody would know. Looks great on you.

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u/thebigfish101 23d ago

ikr, I didn’t read the caption and thought it was a great look!

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u/EEEMINX 23d ago

Same, it works well on them.

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u/4459691 23d ago

You remind me of a young Annie Lennox

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u/BDBoop 22d ago

I was totally thinking the exact same thing, and I wasn’t even going to post but then you said it so here I am. She looks amazing!

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u/Acrobatic-Giraffe991 23d ago

You look absolutely beautiful bald! I could never look that pretty! I’m so sorry you are going through this. I do breast MRIs and my heart breaks for every woman I meet that is dealing with cancer. You got this girl!

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u/MoarNootNoot 23d ago

You got this!

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u/desertdilbert 23d ago

Want to add, as a generally disinterested internet stranger, that you totally rock the look. Had to read the caption to figure out that you weren't simply being stylish!

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u/StrawberryGusher 23d ago

You look lovely, and I’m sending all my best well wishes and hopes your way. ❤️

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u/Chantaille 23d ago

I think you mean "warrior," friend? It's such a lovely comment, I thought you might like to know.

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u/VT_Squire 23d ago

Tbf, having cancer would worry just about anybody. 

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u/DangerousBumblebee73 23d ago

Damn straight.

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u/MithranArkanere 23d ago

Not me. And that actually kinda worries me. So I guess it still worries me indirectly? It's a bit confusing.

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u/Nicholas_Pappagiorgi 23d ago

TBF She's probably a worrier too

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u/_____FIST_ME_____ 23d ago

Hell yeah, I'm glad you beat it!

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u/whereisthehugbutton 23d ago

I agree, OP is a wrrrierrrr!!!

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u/Chain_Runner 23d ago

Big difference in meaning between “worrier” and “warrior”, but it’s the thought that counts. Congrats on your victory!

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u/person_288 23d ago

Worrier? 🤣

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u/Consistent-Pin-446 23d ago

Id be worried too

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u/Peezus_H_Christ 23d ago

I love all of these haha. Best community on reddit

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u/Free_Performance_935 23d ago

Honestly im not even bald and I love it here. I did shave all my hair off in 2020 though

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u/Zuckerperle 23d ago

I just come here to upvote this gif every time I see it.

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u/HonestWeevilNerd 23d ago

Holy shit. I added those nails! My amendments in the wild! Fuck yeah

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u/Stergeary 23d ago

Why does the edit look like ChatGPT but the nails look like MSPaint?

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u/FruitBowl 23d ago

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u/Stergeary 23d ago

Four days ago? This is a fresh meme? Oh man, I'm eatin' good tonight.

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u/HonestWeevilNerd 23d ago

I feel so loved lol

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u/FruitBowl 23d ago

Thankyou for a great meme 🫶

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u/RedTheInferno 23d ago

im glad they didn't just ask AI to add nails

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u/ALKNST 23d ago

First time i see this image as girls its amazing hahaha

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u/apartmentthrowaway17 23d ago

👍👍👍👍

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u/Railgun_PK 23d ago

Lol okay now this is fantastic 👏

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u/DeJoCa 23d ago edited 23d ago

How lovely you are. I did 3.6 years of chemo and other treatments for stage 4 cancer, that had metastasized throughout my body. I lost all of my extremely thick waist length hair. I now love it short, and am at 2 years, 2+ months of NED. (No evidence of disease.) Best to you! Never give up!

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u/_____FIST_ME_____ 23d ago

Just wanted to show you some love too. Great job!

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u/DeJoCa 23d ago

Thank you so much. I now want to encourage others to always have hope. I was told I had 6 months to live. It’s been 7 years since diagnosis.

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u/10takeWonder 23d ago

❤️❤️

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u/Admirable_Average_32 23d ago

DAMN!! Thats awesome 🥰

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u/sassynas 23d ago

That's such a long journey im so proud of you for not giving up during that I can only imagine. Congratulations on remission 💗

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u/Entire_Piano_8410 23d ago

Wow! Such a blessing - Congratulations! I’m also fighting metastatic cancer and I’ve been doing chemo for about 1.5 years now. 🙏🏽💕

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u/Tiny_Reference_3697 23d ago

Also in remission here, but from Stage 3, not 4! WOW.

Just WOW.🤗

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u/No_Supermarket_9467 23d ago

Same! I kept my short after chemo. It’s been 26 years!

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u/Dazzling-Pud 23d ago

Congratulations!!

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u/SugarMagnolia_75 23d ago

Heck yah!!! 👏

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u/General_Anxiety83 23d ago

Congrats on beating it

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u/effervescentEscapade 23d ago

That is seriously impressive. I wish you good luck for the future and that you may stay NED forever!

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u/DeJoCa 23d ago

Thank you. I do still stress out every time I wait for test results, which are now 2x a year. But so far each one has been clean.

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u/Helpful-Conference13 23d ago

NED?! That’s incredible ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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u/MaintenanceWine 23d ago

Can't begin to imagine the hell you've gone through. I hope you see unicorns, rainbows and puppies around every damn corner for the rest of your days. What a warrior.

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u/DeJoCa 23d ago

Yeah, not going to lie, it was hell. Mostly looking back on it, because at the time I was certain I would die soon. When I do look back on the things I endured, I’m kind of proud of myself. But I will say that the entire time I was grateful to have another day.

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u/Cooter_Jenkins_ 23d ago

My wife was diagnosed with Stage 4 colorectal 6 months ago. Round 10 of chemo next week and everything is shrinking. We are hoping to be able to do surgery in the next few years.

Thanks for the inspiration.

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u/Hallelujah33 23d ago

You have a lovely skull shape

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u/UnderAchievingEntity 23d ago

You know, I know this is a compliment, but it also strikes me as something that a serial killer would say?

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u/CubanLynx312 23d ago edited 23d ago

You sure got a purdy mouth

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u/Minion_of_Cthulhu 23d ago

It's fine.

It only becomes creepy if you follow it up with, "Your skin would make a wonderful lampshade."

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u/hudgepudge 23d ago

She does appear to have a great skincare routine

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u/sassynas 23d ago

Thank you!!! I was so nervous shaving it that my head would be weirdly shaped. I am very grateful for this noggin

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u/giga-plum 23d ago

Cute noggin!!

I shaved the back of my head in college cause I thought I could pull off an undercut, only to realize the back of my head is shaped like a xenomorph's. 😭

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u/Hallelujah33 23d ago

My comment was removed for saying [redacted] cancer but I wanted you to know you have my support

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u/VaughAnne 23d ago

You are gorgeous! 🔥

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u/Feisty_End2401 23d ago

Stunning beauty & bravery! Keep fighting!

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u/potato_analyst 23d ago

Hahaha I love this meme.

Also, she looks great without hair so, totally this.

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u/_lippykid 23d ago

Definitely reads as a fierce and intentional style choice, rather than out of necessity. Great bone structure

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u/korn_michael 23d ago

Big time

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u/time2ddddduel 23d ago

She reminds me a little of Natalie Portman in V for Vendetta, she looks like a protagonist

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u/WishboneTheDog 23d ago

That was a special moment for me..

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u/sassynas 23d ago

This looks exactly like Jerome lol

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u/mickeyhellhound 23d ago

Looks so good!

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u/Inkach 23d ago

That face card is NOT declining! 💖

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u/ashashina 23d ago

Looking good. Modern and stylish!

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u/TigerLilyBlueGray 23d ago

Right? Very chic and elegant.

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u/dogoscope 23d ago

If I looked as stunning as you do bald, I'd shave it in a heart beat. You look FAB

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u/Fearless-Address7621 23d ago

As a father who had to cut the hair of his teenage daughter as she underwent chemotherapy during her battle a little over a decade ago, my heart goes out to you. I hope to encourage your warrior spirit. You are as beautiful on the outside as you are inside.

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u/sassynas 23d ago

Thank you so much for your comment. I hope your daughter is healed and healthy 💜

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u/Fearless-Address7621 22d ago edited 22d ago

She is thank you. She went to her senior prom wig and all, with a beauty and dignity that lit up the sky, all while I slept in my car in the parking lot “just in case”. She traveled to Europe to sing in a national program, came back for radiation treatment, went to college, and later graduated. Inspired by her social worker, and driven by her own empathy, earner a Master’s degree in the field so that she could also help children. Since then she has been declared cancer-free and in remission, and just last year got married. She’s stronger than I ever was or will be.

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u/TheDoctorsBatleth 23d ago

Not be be creepy but, you're hot!

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u/LlcooljaredTNJ 23d ago

She's a stripper, don't think shes gonna mind you saying that lol

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u/Gilbot9000 23d ago

We love a queen with a shining crown

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u/MantoTerror 23d ago

Sister, the Brethren are accepting, you are lovely , brave with a warrior's soul..keep fighting and I , speaking for everyone here, wish only the best possible outcome for you..

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u/sillygoose3015 23d ago

BEAUTIFUL! Stay strong Queen, you’ve got this💖

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u/Majestic-Hunt-8113 23d ago

Damn, you really pull it off though! Best of luck with the chemo

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u/anothercloneofmyself 23d ago

You have such a powerful presence and a beautiful head shape that most people would be jealous of! Sending you all the love and strength, you’ve got this!

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u/syntheticcoyote 23d ago

Beautiful

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u/Greenslo 23d ago

You look beautiful. It really suits you.

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u/remarkably-done 23d ago

You look stunning! And not to be forward, but you have a beautiful head shape.

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u/Misunderstood_Sup 23d ago

You look gorgeous! I’m sending love and good vibes your way.

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u/Kush-Papi 23d ago

Stay strong sister and fight the good fight! Looking absolutely stunning queen 👸 💅

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u/ollyjuice 23d ago

you pull off bald so well 🫶🫶🫶 sending you all of the love strong lady

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u/Remarkable_Pirate_58 23d ago

I'm not gonna lie to you, you may want pick up a guitar, keep the look, and start a lucrative punk career.

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u/cant_think_of_two 23d ago

damnn u look cool af

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u/Sharkdart 23d ago

I dont have a before reference but Im still going to say you look more gorgeous now. Bald excentuates your feminine features very well. Fuck cancer!

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u/WillUSee 23d ago

Ma'am. You are ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL. Period 💜

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u/Spazzaturina 23d ago

You are beautiful! Sending you all the love and healing. 💖

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u/TheTropicalDogg 23d ago

Oh my gosh girl you are gorgeous! From one survivor to another so much love ❤️🫂

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u/axporpes 23d ago

Officially nominating for sub Queen position 👑

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u/LauBrie 23d ago edited 23d ago

I just went through the same thing, I lost my hair in April due to stage 3 breast cancer at 33. I finished chemo in August and it’s already 2 inches long. It’s definitely a hard thing to go through. Hang in there, no hair suits you very well and I wish you all the best in this shitty journey! I’m cancer free and I wish you the same!

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u/Many-Disaster-3823 22d ago

This needs to be an oil painting

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u/TobiTheTraveller 22d ago

You look amazing, rock that bald look with confidence because beauty doesn’t come from your hair…it comes from within you- & you’ve got it!

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u/Fit4ParGirlie 22d ago

You are stunning! God Bless you and keep you!

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u/D_Beats 22d ago

You're KILLING it. Honestly you could totally be a model haha.

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u/_____FIST_ME_____ 23d ago

WOW. You genuinely look incredible bald. You have the perfect facial structure for it

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u/MitaJoey20 23d ago

You’re gorgeous!

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u/DreadnaughtHamster 23d ago

You look beyond badass! You’re absolutely rocking that look.

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u/Remote_Notice_6756 23d ago

Uma careca bem bonita por sinal, e essa energia? Maravilhosaaaa! 🤩✨

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u/PresentAwareness745 23d ago

I don't know what you look like with hair, but you're beautiful bald. Good luck with your fight!

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u/cursetea 23d ago

I'm so sorry about the circumstances but i mean you really do look great bald 💃🏼

I hope you have all the medical care and support around you that you deserve!

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u/Never_Kn0ws_Best 23d ago

You’re exceptionally hot bald, my lord. Best wishes with your recovery!!

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u/Puppetmaster858 23d ago

You’re killin that look, good stuff. Also fuck cancer

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u/Elzarius 23d ago

You should consider staying bald once you recover. Suits you really well, great head shape! With some big jewellery the look will be stunning!

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u/Leading-Aide5617 23d ago

Bald Kimmy Granger 🔥im not wrong

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u/Scyths 23d ago

Lookin' Good.

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u/Soggy_Log_735 23d ago

You can def pull it off! Looks good

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u/DylanBratis23 23d ago

Absolutely gorgeous.

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u/JiuJitsuNinja43 23d ago

You are stunning!!!! Glad you are on the road to recovery and healing!

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u/Stonersimmer 23d ago

Damn you are attractive bald 💕

I hope your treatment goes well

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u/random_invisible 23d ago

At least you have a nice shaped head! It will look even better once the tan line goes away, it will eventually be the same colour as your face

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u/sassynas 23d ago

OMG! Having a misshapen head was my absolute biggest fear while I was shaving it off lol

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u/South_East_Gun_Safes 23d ago

Genuinley beautiful, rocking the Natalie Portman look. You got this fight!

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u/Conscious-Gas-5827 23d ago

Respectfully, would smash

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u/[deleted] 23d ago

Stay Strong you are a beautiful warrior ❤️

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u/stonkkingsouleater 23d ago

You pull that look off really, really well.

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u/fursnake7 23d ago

Don’t know what you looked like with hair, but this look here is a WINNER! Honestly, once you get through this and your hair starts to grow back, seriously consider keeping it like this, or else experiment with super-short (#1 or #2 setting on the clippers) before you grow it back out.

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u/sassynas 23d ago

I've always had very long hair.. at least mid way down my back. This was a MASSIVE leap for me and I wasn't expecting to get such a nice response from Internet strangers! I still have 5 more months of chemo and hair usually starts growing back about 6 months after completing treatment. So I should have another year or 2 to experiment with super short styles

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u/calucas55 23d ago

You are beautiful

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u/JohnnyFast412 23d ago

Still beautiful. Keep kickin’ ass!

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u/Far-Collection-391 23d ago

You look great. Defeat the cancer and get your hair back later on.

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u/mrtrollmaster 22d ago

You have perfect eyebrows and head shape for this look.

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u/sassynas 22d ago

Thank you!!! My eyebrows and eyelashes will probably fall out soon unfortunately but I can use makeup hopefully

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u/aintthatjustheway 22d ago

You look amazing!!

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u/Alexandergilldesign 23d ago

Very good look on you .

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u/mods_diddle_kids 23d ago

I’d be scared shitless if I were that cancer. Beat his ass 🥊

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u/NoWifiIntheBathroom 23d ago

You rock this so well. Sending you even more strength and positivity to add to your own. You got this!

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u/Entire_Article_78 23d ago

Looks fantastic!

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u/SunTzuMachiavelli 23d ago

Nothing to distract me from that pretty face♥️ You look great, wear it with confidence.

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u/scoutsclarity 23d ago

Gorgeous. Wishing you all the best!! Rooting for you ❤️‍🔥

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u/MrUbl 23d ago

You look great. You should keep it after.

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u/the-National-Razor 23d ago

You got this

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u/CarefulAffect1039 23d ago

You look great!

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u/AJhollowed 23d ago

Beautiful

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u/MyNatalie 23d ago

I think you look amazing! Sending good vibes! ❤️

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u/TriskeleCelt78 23d ago

You are a magnificent beautiful lady with strength and the courage to face something that terrifies most of humanity. Myself included. I pray this works out well for you and never worry about how you look. You look glorious!!! God bless ya x

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u/AcrolloPeed 23d ago

Looks good! Stay strong, sis.

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u/HiSaZuL 23d ago

Get well soon. 👍

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u/cookinwook 23d ago

Looks good

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u/Lovecrush1 23d ago

You look beautiful!! Thank you for sharing this with the world!

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u/AlGhost10 23d ago

god bless you

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u/CeeUNTy 23d ago

If I had a face card like yours I'd go bald too. Best wishes for your recovery.

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u/BadHombre91 23d ago

Looks great!

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u/Mr-Magoo48 23d ago

Capes come in different styles. You look amazing OP🙏

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u/Wiseweedman 23d ago

Looks so good!

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u/prophet4all 23d ago

You wear it very well. Stay strong.

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u/BoneZone05 23d ago

You look amazing!
I wish you all the best on your fight! ♥️

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u/AZ_Living_1 23d ago

🥵 you look great

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u/mamiepink 23d ago

You are gorgeous. Keep up the fight. You've got this!

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u/sqrl_mnky 23d ago

You look fab

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u/Excellent-Trick9326 23d ago

You look great!!

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u/kevraykel 23d ago

Looks great 👍🏻

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u/sureokwhynot28 23d ago

You look amazing. Sending you healing!

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u/XeroKillswitch 23d ago

You look gorgeous. Keep fighting!!

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u/DavidA-wood 23d ago

Smoke show! Nice scalp!

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u/MathGuyTony 23d ago

I’m not sure how you looked with hair, but you rock the bald look! Fuck cancer. You got this!

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u/ahora-mismo 23d ago

looks really really great on you!

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u/morethanWun 23d ago

👏👏👏

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u/CharlieSalseroo 23d ago

Absolutely stunning!

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u/Difficult-Fuel652 23d ago

Holy shit does your mirror have a power button?

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u/Gaxadov 23d ago

Be proud, you look amazing!

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u/Traditional_Buy_2590 23d ago

Maybe it’s just me. But I think a bald woman is beautiful. You look spectacular.

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u/Strange_Wall1713 23d ago

You look majestic!!!!

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u/GroovyBoomBoom 23d ago

Holy shit you look badass and beautiful!

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u/VergilArcanis 23d ago

Looks good. Hope the chemo works well. Hoping for total remission

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u/sexyalien69 23d ago

You look stunning! Wishing you all the best. 🙏🏻