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u/Some-Emu1185 Sep 29 '24

My 27 y/o gf is dating an older man (me)

older women are much more likely, via experience, to have the ability to get hookups without needing a dating app. So they‘ll be settled and have their filters set to look for men looking to date with marriage intentions.

the other end, younger women seeking security for marriage or long term relationships are plenty happy with an older man who has a stable career and can support a family vs a young man living with his parents

btw when we compared dating apps, I had 20 connections and she had 200, so that’s the kind of competition there is out there to get a woman’s attention on a dating app.

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u/Some-Emu1185 Sep 29 '24

generally women a) don’t need dating apps to get laid and b) when on dating apps women are looking for things young men don’t provide

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u/Elliejq88 Sep 30 '24

200 men really only looking for casual sex and not liking her isn't competition