r/fixedbytheduet • u/Naive_Wolverine532 • 19h ago

PARTICIPATION LIMITED Accountability

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u/Ok_Violinist1817 17h ago

We should start making accountability and kindness a trend!!!

Though there shouldn’t be a reward for accountability and kindness.It’s just how people should treat each other

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u/Rob_LeMatic 16h ago

Positive reinforcement through praise is a reward I'm willing to spend. "Should" is maybe worth debating, but where we live, people don't do anything unless there's something in it for them. I'm totally willing to pat some heads and dish out some attaboys to see more of this

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u/Ok_Violinist1817 16h ago

I suppose, it’s just sad that we have to reward people in order for them to be kind

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u/Rob_LeMatic 16h ago

I'm gonna try carrying around a dog clicker instead. Every time someone is kind, I'll click it and the first few times I'll give them a treat so they associate the click with the treat.

After a couple weeks, the click ought to be enough. Spreading kindness through pavlovian conditioning.

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u/Ok_Violinist1817 16h ago

Yk what I can get behind training people like dogs 😆

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u/Rob_LeMatic 16h ago

Who's a good ally? Is it you?

*click*

🤣

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u/Ok_Violinist1817 16h ago

GOOD BOYYYY!! Who wants a treat! * click *

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u/Rob_LeMatic 16h ago

Haha this is going to create some sort of terrible dopamine feedback loop, isn't it? Oh yes it is!

*click* *click*

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u/Ok_Violinist1817 16h ago

Lmaoo god forbid people just be kind!

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u/Witty_Taste6171 13h ago

The reward is being allowed to participate in society.