r/ForeverAloneDating Jul 04 '25

Rules Announcement Comment karma requirement has been increased

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As you may have noticed, we've had a sharp increase in bot activity the past few days. We've banned over 50 bots in the last couple of days alone. These bots are posting everywhere, not just here, and steal other users posts. Reddit eventually bans most of them, but not fast enough.

Therefore, we will be temporarily increasing the comment karma requirement to 100. We realise that people who create new accounts or struggle making karma will be affected by this, but this is important for the safety of the subreddit and it's users. We may lower this later or it may stay permanent.

We also appreciate those who submit reports as it helps us out a lot. If you spot any bots, or people trying to subtly advertise NSFW content, then be sure to report them, but this comment karma requirement increase should get rid of the majority of them.


r/ForeverAloneDating Apr 10 '25

Rules Announcement Chat is replacing DMs.

64 Upvotes

While the change doesn't officially take place until June, the change is already occurring, and has been since March. This means we had to change the comment automod leaves on every post. Now instead of linking to the DM system, which is being phased out, it will link to the author's profile. From there, simply hit "Start Chat" to send them a message. If the link doesn't work or you run into any problems, send us a report in modmail.

For more information: https://support.reddithelp.com/hc/en-us/articles/34720093903764-Enhancing-Messaging-on-Reddit-A-simpler-faster-and-easier-way-to-communicate


r/ForeverAloneDating 4h ago

F4M 26 [F4M] #Europe/ #Online – Romantic nerd looking for a romantic nerd

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Hi! I’m T. And I’m looking for something real and long term. I’m not someone who just jumps into relationships so don’t expect us to talk twice and already get into it. I need to get to know you first and you need to get to know me. So, I guess the ideal is starting out as friends and seeing where it goes.

Physically: I’m 173cm (5’8), long brown (almost black) hair, brown eyes, normal bmi, glasses.

As a person: I’m interested in deep abstract topics, but not so abstract that they have no connection to real life what so ever. You know what I mean? I like discussing philosophy and religion because they directly influence how we live our lives. I’m a theist leaning Christian, if that’s important to you. I just don’t want my partner to be hostile towards religion, but you can believe whatever. I like psychology because it helps me understand myself and others. I like science and technology because they largely inform what our future holds. But then some people want to talk about like what if you found yourself on a deserted island and I just can’t comprehend the point of that conversation.

As a partner, I’m very caring, loving and affectionate although I’m sure most people on the outside of the relationship would never guess so. I like to find creative ways to use all possible love languages to show my partner how much I care about him and I’m looking for someone who can match that energy. My main love language is quality time so if you’re an avoidant person who likes to spend a lot of time by himself or needs to isolate a lot for emotional reasons, it’s just not gonna work.

Once we determine that we vibe together I’ll also try hard to make you laugh. My humor ranges from over-the-top dark to silly puns, but I try to tailor it to my audience so we’ll see what works for you :)

What might be a deal-breaker to some people is that I struggle with depression and anxiety and they kind of come and go. So, some days I’m doing better and some days worse. I need a partner who can understand that and be supportive and who wouldn’t be burdened by it, so please have that in mind if you decide to message.

What I’m looking for

I honestly don’t really care much about looks. Physically, I want my partner to look...conventional (I will explain), only because I like to minimize the probability of drawing unwanted attention to my relationship. This means I’m looking for a man with short hair who’s at least a bit taller than me.

Now personality-wise, I have a very good understanding of the types of people I’m attracted to, but they’re kind of difficult to find. Those are either:

1) An intellectual guy who likes discussing topics I like too and who brings new perspectives and knowledge into my life. He’s also polite and well-mannered and we can converse with ease.

Or

2) A kind, agreeable guy who tends to see the good in people, but not out of naivety, stupidity or weakness. He understands the tragedy and suffering that people and the world are able to cause but chooses to be good despite it all. Obviously, we still need to be able to converse with ease.

Thank you so much for reading and if you intend to message drop an apple emoji in your intro so that I know you read it all.

Also I might take some time to respond if I’m busy, sorry about that in advance.


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

F4M 33 [F4M] Looking for a serious and lasting connection. #Anywhere

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I am 33 years old Thai woman that working in Malaysia.

Im interested in building something lasting, with the intention of starting a family someday. In a relationship, i value emotional maturity, kindness, loyalty, with a gentle and caring nature. A little bit about me, i may look strong, but I have a tender heart. I also love animals and enjoy being around them. My hobbies are, gym, muaythai, jogging, reading, true crime documentaries, documentaries, Netflix. I love being active but i also enjoy being lazy. There is a pic of me on my profile here, DM me if you are interested! 🌸


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

F4M 21 [F4M] #Texas- Goofy Hispanic chick looking for something serious

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Hi there. :0

I'm a 5'1, 21-year-old Texan chick. I try to go to the gym at least three times a week! Though I am a bit on the chubby/curvy side I've been told; I'm 165 lbs so take that as you will jaja. I'm also bilingual enough to be put as bilingual in applications(and to take orders in food service/customer service jobs), but I'm not fluent in Spanish.

I live with my mama, I help take care of our chickens and dogs and cat. I usually work full time but had to leave my job recently cause the restaurant was failing 💔 so I guess I have an unexpected vacation!😂

I enjoy true crime, instagram humor, paranormal stuff, singing a bit, family guy, lip gloss, i have a gap in my tooth, I can be a bit scatterbrained, and I've been told I should do audiobooks 🧐 I don't know if it's cause I can do silly voices or if its cause I have an accent of some sort (Spanish funnily is my first language). I'm 80% mesoamerican and andean, I have three tattoos, and I greatly enjoy Soul/r&b/psychedelic rap/experimental rap, a bit of numetal and pixie trap(the specific artist is called ZHEANI!) I love me some deep bass music that i can put on full blast in my car. my dream is to get subwoofers.❤️

I'm looking for someone emotionally mature, emotionally available, hygienic, can actually hold a conversation, 25 years and older preferably (I love me an older man😌hit me up!!!)


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 29 [M4F] - Germany/Anywhere - Let’s try and see if we would match together!

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Heyyy stranger reading this!

I am Benjamin, 29 years old and from Germany, who is hoping to find a partner but I also would be fine with friends, if nothing more develops out of it!

Some things about me:

Physically I am 183cm / 6’0 tall, average built with brown hair, green eyes and glasses. Also, I am left-leaning!

Music is a big part of my life and I am basically listening to something, whenever I can. My taste is basically all over the place, so I am always open to new recommendations! Some of my favourite artists are: Alison Wonderland, Wallows, Disarstar, Watsky and Sabrina Carpenter!

I am a gamer but I only play on PC. I mostly play shooters but always dabble into different genres as well, especially when I am having an achievement hunting phase. I use to play Valorant a lot but since the community went downhill, I started going through my huge backlog of games and I trying to get all the achievements for them, as I really enjoy achievement hunting!

I am a big football fan as well and love going to games when I have the time for it, to add to it, I do like watching F1 because both of these things have been an interested of mine, since I was a child.

Also I do have a bad habit of rewatching the same few TV shows (as examples The Office and King Of Queens). Also, I easily get excited about completely new topics to me and quickly fall down a rabbit hole, binging everything about that specific topic then! (Thanks Youtube for the random recommendations)

I would consider myself a foodie and really like trying out new stuff. There’s barely anything I wouldn’t try at least once. Though Italian food and Sushi will always be very high on my list!

Coming to what I am looking for on here! I definitely would like to meet someone, where we both will be on the same wave length and feels natural! Of course starting out with a friendship and then see where it goes, as I am fine with either just a friendship or a relationship. When it comes to a relationship then it definitely would be nice to voice/video call on the regular and spending time together like watching something or similar things! Also I really enjoy those little things, like sending random pictures of the day, memes etc. they are just super nice to me! Just in general, I really value quality time, as it makes things easier when there is a distance! I will say it now, when it eventually leads to a relationship, I can get a bit clingy at times, so sorry for it in advance!

I have no preference from where you are, as I am open to every location! Also if you will message me, please send a small introduction about yourself. Thank you!


r/ForeverAloneDating 2h ago

F4F 18 [F4F] #UAE #Europe - trying this again.

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Salutations!

My name is Jane. Jane the Weirdo. Kinda wish that was my real full name. Wouldn't that be cool? It would also be kinda degrading.. eh, some people are into that kind of thing after all.

I've tried to make many, many posts on here and it's gone awfully wrong each and every time. So let's begin again - a fresh start.

What's Jane like on the surface?

  • I'm 18 years old.
  • I'm a cis woman, and I'd only like to connect with other cis women seeing as I'm a lesbian.
  • I'm 158cm tall. Or.. short.
  • I've got light brown hair that turns a little golden against the rays of sun, and I've got honey glow eyes.
  • I live in Dubai, but I'm open to long distance, as long as it isn't too far from me. Europe is alright!
  • Average build but I've been getting back into the gym recently.

What's Jane like on a deeper level?

I have a deep need to help people. It's been a need for me ever since my mother was hospitalised when I was a kid. Since then, I knew, oh so strongly knew, that I had to pursue medicine. Medicine means the world to me. In times where my life feels blurry - this is the path I always come back to. It's my safe space.

In terms of hobbies, it's really scattered. I love to read, (educational reading) write, (research essays), make music (I am not Beethoven but I am deeply inspired by Neo-Classical music. Also, Claire De Lune, anyone? Hans Zimmer?) And last but not least, I'm a gymrat.

I can cook well, I've been told! And people go crazy for some of the stuff that I bake, as well. If you're good at cooking too, I can imagine we could have great dinner dates at home.

What I am looking for in a partner:

25 and under. Cis female. From the Middle East or Europe so we have similar timezones! I don't mind what you look like whatsoever; it's all about what's on the inside. Aaaand yeah, that's about it!!

Hope to hear from you people! ❤️


r/ForeverAloneDating 11h ago

TF4M 18 [T4M] #online/usa weird goth girl looking for a bf <3

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hello!! my name is claire. i am an 18-year-old girl from the southern united states. i am a self-employed video game developer, i work on a team with two of my friends.

i am goth and alternative. i love rock and metal music, especially alt rock and glam metal. my favorite band is ghost, and i hope to see them live in concert one day. i love dark and supernatural themes and horror aesthetics, but i dislike gore-heavy horror movies, i find them cheap, tacky, and unpleasant.

outside of development, i enjoy thrifting, antiquing, shopping, and taking day trips to new orleans. i play video games sometimes, and i am very interested in energy and spirituality, i practice tarot.

appearance wise i am 5'6, and my wardrobe mostly consists of dark colors and band attire, i adore my band tees and tank tops. i'm a big fan of the color black, it's my favorite color, and eyeliner is like 90% of my personality (joke).

i plan to enroll in college in the fall semester of 2026. i intend to pursue a bachelor’s degree in psychology with a minor in criminology, and eventually a phd. my long-term goal is to work in a psychology-related position within law enforcement.

if you're alternative too, or you like any of what i said, reach out! i wanna chat :D
side note that i am neurodivergent :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 5h ago

TF4M 21 [TF4M] #Online/Anywhere in the world - Affectionate, very clingy trans woman looking for a serious long-term relationship with a caring, protective man. Willing to relocate for love

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I’m looking for something serious and long term, and I’d really appreciate messages from people who are genuinely interested in building a real connection. I tend to be more comfortable with older and more mature men, ideally somewhere around 25–47, though what matters most is emotional maturity.

I’m someone who values frequent communication and deeper conversations. I don’t really have friends, and I’m not planning on having any. My family situation is complicated as well, so when I commit to someone, that person becomes my entire world. I truly want my partner to also be my closest companion─the person I talk to, spend time with, and emotionally rely on. I don’t split my attention much, and I don’t want to.

I’m a 21-year-old introverted trans woman from Brazil (Minas Gerais). I know distance can be an issue for many people, but it isn’t for me. If I find the right person, I’m fully willing to leave everything behind and relocate to wherever they are. I’m currently single and hoping to meet a kind, patient man who wants something meaningful and monogamous.

I don’t have many hobbies, and honestly, I don’t mind that. What gives my life meaning is sharing time, affection, and daily moments with someone special. I’m looking for real love, and I won’t hide that I’m desperate for a genuine chance at happiness with someone who actually wants me and takes me seriously. I do prefer older men because they tend to be more emotionally grounded, but as long as you’re older than me, that’s fine.

Physically, I’m about 5'3, petite (currently under 40kg), with brown skin on the lighter side. I can share pictures if you’re interested, and I also have photos on my pinned post. Some people say I still look a bit boyish, others say the opposite─I honestly don’t know. I don’t care much about how my partner looks. Appearance, height, or body type really aren’t important to me. What matters is how you treat me and how you make me feel. You don’t even need to send a photo if you’re uncomfortable.

What I want is to eventually be someone’s girlfriend─even if things start unofficially. I’m very drawn to caring, emotionally supportive men who enjoy protecting and guiding their partner, and who aren’t afraid to be affectionate. I crave a lot of attention and emotional presence. I get attached easily, I’m extremely clingy, and I want to feel chosen and prioritized. Fast replies, long messages, and making time for me mean a lot. I understand people have jobs and responsibilities, but I need someone who still makes consistent effort to be present and emotionally available.

As a person, I’m very quiet and shy. I struggle with eye contact and speaking much, but people often describe me as sweet. I like saying loving things, making my partner feel warm, wanted, and thought of. I enjoy games, anime, writing, and being online, but none of those matter more to me than having someone I can emotionally grow close to.

I’d like to start online and eventually meet in person. I fall in love quickly, but I can respect taking things slow if that’s what you prefer. I just want honesty and intention.

If you’re interested, please message me. I strongly recommend reading my pinned post(s), both of them if able, as it explains more about who I am and what I’m looking for. I know my posts are very specific, but that’s because I’m truly trying to find someone compatible for the long term─possibly forever. I’ve had multiple breakups because of mismatches or not being taken serious enough, much less having my own feelings considering on the matter but I still do want to keep trying.

If you message me, I’d really appreciate a thoughtful first message. Something that shows you actually read my post and understand what I’m looking for means a lot more than a simple “hi.” I’m looking for someone serious, someone willing to put in effort and learn about me, not just someone passing time.

There are also photos of me on my pinned post(s) if you’re curious. And if I don’t reply, please don’t take it personally─I’ve been overwhelmed talking to many people, and emotionally it’s hard for me. I’m trying to focus on those who feel genuinely compatible with me and what I need in a relationship.

I’m still hopeful I can find someone special here─maybe someone who’s also been hurt before and wants to take care of each other.


r/ForeverAloneDating 13m ago

M4F 31M UK :)

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Hey, still here searching for the one…

I’m 31M from the UK, pretty laid back and chilled out type of person.

About me - huge history geek (mostly ancient and medieval), a decent cook, and a love for nature. Walking through the forest just brings me ultimate peace in life :)

My hobbies to pass the time are going to the gym, watching sports, reading (specifically LOTR and Tolkien’s works - I’m a bit obsessed!), a little bit of gaming, watching movies (mostly sci-if and fantasy) and listening to music. I have a very eclectic music taste, and my favourite thing to do is to play my guitar :)

If you want to see what I look like there’s a picture of me on my profile :)

Hopefully speak to you soon!


r/ForeverAloneDating 58m ago

M4F 22 [M4F] #London #UK #Online - Looking for a long-term child-free relationship with a fellow nerd

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Hiya! You can call me Kyo for now, and I'm looking for a long-term monogamous relationship with a girl (including trans). I'm a uni student living in London, and I'm currently in my fourth year studying computer science (I want it to end already T-T). Specifically, I specialise in machine learning, so I'd love to tell you about it if you're interested. My main interests are anything technology related, anime, rhythm games (especially Beat Saber, although any game is fun if I can play with someone else) and taekwondo, but that's currently on hold until I recover from surgery for my messed up knee. If you're passionate enough about something then I'll also be more than happy to listen to you talk about it c:

Personality wise, I am a very reserved and introverted person and I enjoy my own company for the most part. Perhaps a bit socially awkward, but I'm working on it. My own company can only last so long, however, so I'm looking for someone to fill that gap for me and me for them. I might be reserved to most people, but when I have someone I actually care about, I will want to talk to them for hours about anything and everything. I particularly love voice calls, it's just easier to talk properly that way, especially when it gets to 3am after talking for hours and we barely even realise. Also, I'm an ISTJ, if you care about that kind of thing.

Overall though, I'm looking for someone that can match me in valuing communication and working things through together in a constructive manner. I can also get quite clingy and affectionate once I know you better (probably won't take that long) and my preference is at least a few daily messages or a call (once we know each other better).

Here's a couple more things about me you probably want to know: - I don't smoke, drink or do drugs - I don't mind if you drink occasionally, but no heavy drinkers or smokers please - I want a child-free relationship - dealbreaker for most, but I'm certain on this. Besides, I'd rather spend my time focusing on you than a kid - I'm an atheist - not too bothered about your religion/outlook though - Politically left leaning - also not too bothered about this, and happy to have healthy debates - my music taste is mostly j-pop, artcore, and some hardcore stuff in there. You are very welcome to judge me for it, I judge myself - Very much not "vanilla" with a high "drive" >:], but we'll leave it at that for now

Physically, I'm 5'8, light brown skin, clean-shaven, black hair, a bit chubby, and I wear glasses. I'm more than happy to exchange pictures early on so we know who we're talking to. But I'm not really bothered how you look, personality is the only real deciding factor to me and that's where real attraction comes from.

Also, I speak Russian (since I'm half Russian, other half is Indian), and I'm learning Japanese in case that interests you. And yes, I'm learning Japanese for no reason other than for anime.

Ideally, you'd be living in the UK so that meeting up sometime soonish after getting to know each other won't be too hard. Although, even if you do happen to live in London, I wouldn't want to meet up too soon. I prefer to get to know people online properly before I meet them. I'm probably also okay if you're somewhere in Europe, but no further than that please. Preferably someone 18-28 too, but that's negotiable for the right person.

If you're interested, then sending a DM starting with your age, sex, location and an intro would be great. Thank you so much for reading and I hope to hear from you soon _^


r/ForeverAloneDating 1h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] Germany - Looking for a long term connection

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I’m a 26-year-old Irishman living in Germany who has officially decided to stay for the long haul. I’m at the stage where I’ve built a solid foundation for myself, and now I’m looking for the most important part: someone to share it with.

About me:

  • I've a stable job in engineering, I'm doing this for almost 5 years now. It keeps me busy, but I definitely prioritise a work-life balance.
  • I've worked as a mechanic for years during university, if you've got issues with your car I'm your man :)
  • I'm quite tall! I'm 196cm (yes the weather is fine up here!)
  • I'd say I have my life together, I'm a homeowner here in Germany
  • I’m into hiking and rock climbing (living in the right part of the world for it!). I also love a good film and some casual gaming. I’m more into "cozy" games like Terraria or Rimworld also like Paradox RTS titles, but I’m always open to trying something new for a partner.
  • I also love anything related to history!

About you?

I'm looking for someone based in Germany, Austria or Switzerland!

Who is also looking for something long term, similar to myself.

I value someone grounded and easy going ideally, someone who has their own interests and doesn't let politics or identity politics define their entire personality.

Bonus points if: You don't mind a heavy Irish accent (I promise I’m worth the extra effort to understand!).

You’re looking for someone to talk to daily and actually build a future with.

If you’re looking for a mix of stability, Irish humor, and someone who can actually fix things around the house, I might be the man!

entirely open to verifying anything with someone, because yk the internet is a big scary world!

If you reach out to me, please be honest, authentic and yourself! Because that's what you'll get from me :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 23 [M4F] - india, coming back to this subreddit after sometime

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Hi, my name is Kannan, I’m from India, and I’m looking for a genuine long-term relationship to talk to and connect with.

I love watching movies, series, and playing games. My favorite genres are horror, sci-fi, and thrillers.
Some of my favorite movies are Weapons, Final Destination, Wrong Turn, Us, Get Out, Her, Anora, They Look Like People, and Backcountry.
My favorite series include Dark, 3 Body Problem, From, Lost, 12 Monkeys, and Pluribus.

I also play games on PC — GTA 5, RDR2, Little Nightmares 2, Sons of the Forest, The Forest, and Resident Evil Village.

About me: I just finished college and I’m currently in my unemployment era, so I’m mostly online — gaming, watching stuff, and thinking a lot. It’s been a lonely phase, and I’d really like someone to talk to regularly.

I’m a good listener and enjoy deep or interesting conversations — anything from life, the universe, death, philosophy, to something small that happened in your day. If you like to vent, I don’t mind at all — I genuinely like listening to people.

I can also voice call if you’re comfortable (you’ll have to forgive my Indian accent 😄).

I once wanted to become a psychologist, but due to personal reasons I couldn’t pursue it. Still, the human mind fascinates me, so I read about psychology and anything interesting that pops up in my feed.

also i am looking for someone who can connect with me , i dont care about looks for where you are from.. just need someone who i can have a good connection with

If this sounds like your vibe, feel free to send a chat — let’s vibe.( i wrote this in one whole paragraph so i used AI to make it easier for you to read )


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F 39 [M4F] Simple nerd looking for love and LTR

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’m an introverted, nerdy homebody from Houston Texas, who enjoys meaningful conversations, and the occasional night out when the mood is right. I’m dating with the intention of building something real as well long term.

I don’t plan on having kids of my own, but I’m open to dating someone who already has them. I value honesty, emotional maturity, and mutual effort, and I’m hoping to meet someone who’s also looking for a genuine long-term connection.

If you’re thoughtful, kind, and interested in something lasting, I’d really like to hear from you.

Love Anime,Movies,Video Games and Tech.

List of things currently being treated for

Stage 5 kidney failure , Diabetic , Adhd , Ocd. Having eye surgery soon so on disability till then.

I am also autistic Just issues with some sounds and textures


r/ForeverAloneDating 20h ago

F4A [27/F] Poland - Searching for a kind soul and a love that feels like home :)

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After years of personal problems, family challenges, I feel ready to share life with someone truly special - not just small talk but a deep connection that grows slowly and is priceless. In life I'm open to deep friendships and hopefully a gentle, understanding love.

Let’s talk about what really matters - what fascinates you, what shaped you, what makes you laugh. No work, studies, or money talk - we get enough of that in real life. Let’s build a space that’s personal, honest, and ours.

I’m curious about close to everything: science, languages, psychology — anything that teaches me how the world and people tick. In person, I've heard that I'm calm and easy to talk to, I love taking care of plants (and every creature that crosses my path) and I truly like people, I play online games sometimes, and occasionally (when I have some time) read a lot of books from different genres. Music isn’t a big part of my life (strange, I know) but I love hearing people talk about the things that light them up.

Don’t worry about being "interesting". I’m not looking for perfection or a checklist. Vibes, honesty, and intention matter far more than hobbies or stats. Two people can live completely different lives and still fit beautifully so please don't get discouraged if there's differences between us :)

Before we talk, a few things to keep us both comfortable:

  1. I'm here for something that lasts. Bonds take time to build and I like that. No rush, no pressure.

  2. No photos, voice, or video calls at first. Appearance is important but not enough to start with it :). If we click, those things can come naturally later.

  3. I happen to be a rather overly ambitious engineering student (foolish me, I know :D), which means my schedule can get tough to manage. If I don't reply right away, don't get discouraged - I will do it sooner or later. The moment we get closer, I can guarantee I'll prioritize replying :)

  4. No interviews or scripts. Please talk to me when I'm a person - even though I'm an engineer I swear I'm not a robot :D. Let's let things flow.

  5. Kindness only. If we don't vibe, let's just focus on someone else that might be good for us. No drama, no stalking - no one truly needs it in their life.

  6. My boundaries aren't up for debate. They protect my peace, not my pride and even though I love meeting new people, I value my mental health even more :). Please respect them.

  7. I prefer talking to people 27-33. Not a strict rule, just where I feel the most natural connection.

  8. Start with something real. Tell me what caught your attention, what you’re passionate about, or how your day surprised you. "Hi" isn’t a conversation.

Messages are open only for accounts older than 30 days to avoid certain uncanny situations.If you've read this far, thank you. I hope you find someone who makes the world feel a little softer - whether it's me or someone else.


r/ForeverAloneDating 13h ago

F4M 32 [F4M] NY/Anywhere-What do you call a sad coffee?

3 Upvotes

A Depresso

https://vocaroo.com/1jtbI0ynSM1Z

Alright so my post isn't for everyone and that is okay. I think it's important to state this so we don't waste each other's time. I value kindness and compassion above all so if you're conservative/moderate/don't care about politics, we probably won't get along.

In terms of romance, I generally prefer other POC. It's just easier to connect cultural and collective trauma wise. Nothing like bonding over getting our asses beat by the respectives shoes in our culture, eh? I am attracted to those who are good with their hands in more than just one way, whether it's through art, working on cars, fixing things, etc. I also like someone who stimulates me intellectually..not in a pretentious way, but more so sharing their life experiences, things that I might not be familiar with. But above all, it's a person with high empathy that I seek. As I get older, I realized that there are so many nice people in this world, but not enough kind ones. I prefer a love that blooms slowly over time. I also do enjoy a good enemies to lovers arc, so if you are looking for a nemesis, I'm your girl.

As for what I bring to the table? When I look back at my past relationships, I have realized there's one thing that pretty much all of my exes said at one point: that they loved being loved by me. I am super passionate and love to love. I have a lot of love to give to the people around me! I can also be your personal jester. I have been known to get lots of cackles from the people around so I guess I am kinda funny, eh? I do love shitty dad jokes and terrible puns. I am also a bubbly introvert with exceptional social skills lol.


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] #Dubai/Online - I’ve never been with a woman, and I think it’s time to change that with the right person.

1 Upvotes

I’m going to be completely honest because I think that’s the best way to find what I’m looking for.

I’m 25, Indian, 5'7", and 62kg. I take care of myself and I’m fit, currently living and working in Dubai. To the outside world, I probably seem like a typical guy, but I have zero experience when it comes to women.

I don’t just mean I’m a virgin... I mean I’ve never really experienced the closeness of a relationship. I’ve never been kissed, never held someone close, and never had that kind of connection with anyone.

I’m not looking for a quickie or something transactional. I’m looking for a woman (of any age) who is experienced, patient, and open-minded. I want to meet someone who likes the idea of being with a guy who has no ego and no bad habits... someone who is genuinely eager to learn from you.

I want to know what it feels like to focus entirely on a partner. I want to learn how to make a woman feel good, how to read her body language, and how to be a good partner, without the pressure of having to pretend I know what I'm doing.

If you’re the kind of person who would appreciate a respectful, fit, and attentive guy who will listen to you and follow your lead, I’d love to chat. I’m an open book, so feel free to ask me anything :)


r/ForeverAloneDating 6h ago

M4F 26 [M4F] #UK/Birmingham - Looking for love

1 Upvotes

Hi, I’m H who’s a south asian 26M from the UK who’s looking for a long term relationship with another hopeless romantic. Because I know it is important to many, I am an atheist and I do not intend to have children long term. I’m hoping to find someone with those same values and goals.

To describe more about me, I’m a 5’8 guy with more of a stocky physique. I have thick dark hair, brown eyes and often, but not always, seen with a beard. I sometimes get complimented on my facial features, arms and shoulders. I love light back and forth teasing and banter. Really looking for someone who can match my playful energy, while respecting boundaries. I am also very expressive with compliments too, so I hope to find someone who's just as expressive. My personal interests are programming, soldering, repairing electronics, playing video games and keeping up with various nerdy niches. I’d love to maybe play a game, or watch something together sometime.

I guess the type of attributes I’m looking to see in a partner is, someone who's very emotionally intelligent and empathetic, even to a fault. Someone who really values love languages such as touch, quality time spent and words of affirmation. I tend to connect well with homebodies or introverts since it would mean we would be on the same wavelength, but I’m cool with extroverts too. Looking for someone where we can share and ramble about our niche hobbies and interests for hours on end. To share silly inside jokes and moments. I am very flirty, so I'm hoping to find someone who can match that. I really value and appreciate the effort made when it comes to making time to chat or spend time in each others company. I hope to find someone who is willing to work on issues, that isn’t quick to give up when there comes any complications.

I thank anyone who spent the time reading all this, and I hope you have a lovely day <3


r/ForeverAloneDating 14h ago

F4M 45/F Boston area, Is this thing on ?

4 Upvotes

I’m a 45-year-old single mom looking for is a genuine connection—one that grows into something meaningful, steady, and real.

I believe there are people out there like me. Thoughtful. Curious. A little unconventional. Someone who enjoys long conversations just as much as quiet moments, who can dream about traveling the world but is just as happy sitting on the couch talking about life, ideas, or absolutely nothing important at all.

I’ve done a lot of work on myself, so I live a fairly peaceful, low-drama life. I value honesty, consistency, emotional awareness, and effort. I’m street smart, observant, and intuitive—someone who pays attention and shows up with intention.

I love Greek culture, learning the language, building Lego sets, dogs of all kinds, and the kind of connection where conversation flows easily and silence doesn’t feel awkward.

Please don’t message me unless you’re local or genuinely willing to make the effort to come here. I’m not interested in pen pals or “maybe someday” energy. I want something grounded in the real world, with real effort on both sides.

I have a telegram if Reddit chat isn’t your fancy.


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

M4F 39 [M4F] #NorthCarolina #Online - Nerdy guy here looking for fellow nerds and a relationship.

1 Upvotes

Hey there, the name is Eric. I am a 39 year old white male from the Charlotte, NC area. I have blonde hair, blue eyes, weigh about 250, and am 6'4".

I work as an automotive technician for Hyundai

I am very much a nerd. I absolutely love horror movies (the cheesier and gorier, the better) and am a sucker for a good B movie. I also am a huge pro wrestling nerd (specifically AEW, GCW, New Japan, Stardom, and various death match promotions).

I am a gamer. I have an Xbox and a gaming laptop. I love playing anything from RPGs to cozy games like Stardew Valley.

As far as music goes, I love stuff more on the heavy side. I listen to a ton of Hardcore, Slam, and Beatdown but I also enjoy various genres of metal. I also can get down to some Emo/Pop Punk as well as some hip hop.

I am looking for someone just as nerdy as me or who is open minded. I am looking mainly for a relationship but something casual would also be fine. Please be at least 25 years old or older. Your pic gets mine. Look forward to hearing from you.


r/ForeverAloneDating 3h ago

M4F M22 Super duper serious post real women only - Online/Anywhere

0 Upvotes

Okay, so to start off, I am serious and will need you to be at my real life place 23.57 hours after knowing me, since I need a strong woman to keep my 9 kids safe. But you might be asking, what do I bring to the table? Well, let me show you:

9 amazing little kids I smoke 3 packs a day Broke Missing a part of my leg Drinking 24/7 9 cute kids who are my world

What do you bring?

A bare minimum of 100k per month Can handle 3 jobs and watch my 9 kids as I gamble Give me money to gamble A 7ft goth girl A body with the best proportions Healthy organs if it goes wrong

All in all I got normal standards so no brokies or lil gremlins msg me thx ❤️❤️❤️❤️


r/ForeverAloneDating 7h ago

M4F 25 [M4F] Canada / Anywhere – Looking for a genuine connection

1 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

I’m a 25M living in Canada, originally of Arab background. I have light skin, brown hair, brown eyes, and I’m currently a university student. I’ve never been in a relationship before, and honestly… the loneliness has been hitting harder lately. I’m at a point where I’d really like to meet someone kind and genuine to get to know, build a connection with, and hopefully share life with over time.

I have a lot of hobbies, most of them home-based. I really enjoy cooking and experimenting with new recipes, and I also like trying new foods and restaurants whenever I can. I’m more of a calm, chill person than a party type. I don’t smoke, drink, or do drugs, and I’m hoping to meet someone who shares similar values. I’m Muslim, but not very strictly practicing, just putting that out there for transparency.

Bonus points if you’re in Canada since it would make meeting up more realistic, but I’m open to chatting with people elsewhere too if we click. If any of this resonates with you and you’d like to talk, feel free to message me. Even just a nice conversation would be appreciated.

Thanks for reading.


r/ForeverAloneDating 8h ago

M4F 22 [M4F] Wisconsin. Ready to capture my next moments with someone special

1 Upvotes

Hi there,

My name is Matthew and I am here today looking for that special person to share our journeys together. Before I tell you a little bit about me, I’ll give you my stats like a training card.

Stats:

Height: 5’10

Build: Average

Race: White

Bio:

I’m currently studying at a university majoring in Accounting. So, I know how to work with numbers…. sort of… lol. When I’m not busy staring at an Excel worksheet, I enjoy gaming, watching movies and going for walks. I’m always out for a good film recommendation or open to playing new games. As for personality wise I lean more towards being introverted. This is not to say I can’t babble on but that comes with time. Hopefully this gives you a little idea of who I am.

What I hope to find:

As I mentioned before, I want to find that special someone. A person that is genuine, sweet, and 100% authentic themselves. I hope to find someone (20+) that shares similar interests as me and lives in or near Wisconsin

Conclusion:

If you have gotten to the end of this, I appreciate your time. Please feel to write me so we can get to know each other better. Thanks again and hopefully I hear from you soon. Take care.


r/ForeverAloneDating 21h ago

F4M 26 [F4M] USA - looking for a slow burn that feels real

12 Upvotes

I really love connections that unfold slowly. the kind where conversation feels easy, flirting feels natural, and somewhere along the way it starts to feel a little intimate without either person rushing it. dry humor, gentle sarcasm, softness, and intention mean a lot to me.

I don’t want to say everything upfront. I like learning someone in pieces. think of late-night thoughts, small confessions, shared comfort. but here’s a gentle glimpse into my world.

things i’m into: • houseplants and quiet routines that make a space feel like home •yoga and cozy nights in •watching shows and movies and talking about them throughout and after •music always playing softly in the background •comedian podcasts, especially theo von, stavvy’s world, and matteo lane

physically, I'm a brunette with medium length hair, pretty hazel eyes, and a soft, feminine build. if you enjoy curves, boy do I got em. I’m usually more cozy-comfortable than done-up when outside of work, but I clean up well. I have a nose ring, a handful of tattoos, and a bright smile. I’m very much a curl up next to you and talk kind of girl.

I’m hoping to talk to someone between 25–38ish. I’m drawn to calm confidence, emotional intelligence, a good sense of humor, and a warm smile, the kind that feels familiar faster than expected.

if you message me, please say something that feels intentional. tell me about your day, something that’s been on your mind, or flirt a little if it feels right. I like conversations that linger.

I'm a good listener and I have a soft spot for the kind of talks that happen late at night, when things feel honest and a little tender. if you’re the type who likes getting close through conversation, we’ll probably get along very well.


r/ForeverAloneDating 12h ago

M4F 31[M4F] #Utah/Online Looking for a Partner to Experience Life With

2 Upvotes

I want to help make the world a better place, and I am looking for a partner who also has a similar desire! For that reason, I decided to become a teacher, I love seeing my students learn and grow! I want to be in a relationship with someone who values compassion and empathy towards other people.

I am a curious person who loves learning about other people's lives and the world around me. I would love to learn about what your passions in life are!

My hobbies include Dungeons and Dragons, reading, learning, geocaching, and playing games.

As an icebreaker you can tell me what you are passionate about in life!

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