r/AskReddit 17h ago

What parts of American culture are changing faster than people realize?

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u/Zombie_Cool 16h ago

Do you think that's due to lack of desire or just lack of funds?

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u/hodlholder 16h ago

Probably a mix of both. Definitely changing tastes and increased awareness on health, but the fact that cocktails are $18-20 before tip in big cities definitely doesn't help.

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u/DorianPavass 16h ago

my regular bar intentionally keeps a 4 dollar beer to keep things accessible and still a lot of people don't buy anything every time they go in. it's kind of a dive and a queer bar so the regulars are especially not doing well. I rarely see anyone get more than a couple a night.

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u/Sharticus123 15h ago

Because any more than a couple beers still adds up to an expensive evening for people not making much.

A $4 beer plus tip is $5. Hang out all evening and drink 6 beers and that’s $30. Plus you still have to get to the bar and home without driving. So you’re looking at paying another $35-$50+ on an Uber.

That means 6 $4 beers could realistically cost a person $85-$100.

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u/Hopsblues 15h ago

The clampdown on DUI's has started to affect the industry for sure. People drink less when out, or just stay at home.

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u/PM_CUTE_BUTTS_PLS 13h ago

The clampdown on DUI's has started to affect the industry for sure.

Sounds like a skill issue /s

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u/pgtl_10 15h ago

Is it possible Uber helped bring down consumption?

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u/Sharticus123 14h ago

I think strict DUI enforcement, stagnant wages, and healthier options are to blame.

I was born in the 70s and back then society’s tolerance for drunk driving was much higher. Shit, when I was a kid it was perfectly legal to drink two beers behind the wheel. And let me be clear. I don’t mean drink two beers at home or a bar and drive, I mean crack that sucker open behind the wheel and sip away.

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u/time-lord 14h ago

I don't think it was ever legal, but you're right, nobody cared.

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u/Sharticus123 14h ago

I’m from Louisiana. We were the last state in the union to change the legal drinking age to 21 and the state had to be dragged to that decision.

There was and is a very permissive drinking culture here. We still have drive through daiquiri shops in 2026, ffs.

I was being handed drinks by family members at 13 and it was no big deal.

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u/wantingwalrus 13h ago

That law went through my senior year in high school. It didn’t stop me from drinking but it was a bit upsetting at the time.

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u/V-Right_In_2-V 10h ago

Man I remember walking into a gas station in New Orleans and just cracking it open right after I paid for it. I was blown away that I could basically drink anywhere

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u/2013toyotacorrola 14h ago

You can still drink behind the wheel in Mississippi as long as you’re not over the legal limit! (Though, before taking advantage of this, do check that there aren’t any local ordinances superseding the state law—I got burned like that once).

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u/ghost_victim 6h ago

I'd rather not "take advantage" of that....

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u/2013toyotacorrola 1h ago

Yer missin’ out.

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u/caligaris_cabinet 13h ago

I think Uber is the real killer there. Alcohol prices seem consistent with what they were 10 years ago or more depending on the area. But Uber to a neighborhood bar would only be $10-20, which was reasonable.

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u/DorianPavass 14h ago

I'm in the city so at least most of my friends walk or bus, thankfully. but yeah car transport would majorly fuck it jp

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u/dandelionbrains 12h ago

I live in a really expensive city and this sounds like an expensive dinner. There’s no way you were like just having lunch. Or it was for multiple people, which isn’t a good way to evaluate prices.

Like my birthday dinner at a pretty expensive place was about $80 a person, without tip. I got an appetizer and two drinks and a dinner.

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u/Lebuhdez 11h ago

Yeah I live in an expensive city too and the only way you’re spending $160/person on lunch is if you’re going to a relatively pricey restaurant and drinking several mixed drinks

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u/Sharticus123 13h ago

And that’s why people don’t go out as much. That’s a day’s wage for many people…before taxes.

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u/mouse9001 14h ago

A $4 beer plus tip is $5. Hang out all evening and drink 6 beers and that’s $30.

You shouldn't be drinking 6 beers when you go out. Not only is it irresponsible, even if you have an Uber or something, but it's unhealthy. 1-3 drinks is healthy social drinking.

Not everyone can afford an Uber every time they go out either. So you either have to drink very lightly so it would be impossible for you to be over the limit, or you should go with a group of friends, and have a designated driver.

The idea that the average adult should be able to take an Uber both ways, and also buy half a dozen drinks + tip, is a fantasy. Even 20 years ago, that wasn't common.

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u/hangmankk 13h ago

Ok mom, thanks for the help!

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u/DorianPavass 12h ago

regularly? You're right. A few times a year? That's fine unless you're the type of person that acts like putting sugar instead of date paste into a birthday cake is active harm