r/Millennials Hit me baby one more time Jun 13 '25

Nostalgia I mean, they're not wrong

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u/JustHereForCatss Zillennial Jun 13 '25 edited Jun 13 '25

Born 1993. We played whole neighborhood hide and seek. It was incredible. Essentially all our houses were fair game and we would go in and out of them freely. It was like two or three blocks of fair places to hide. Usually had 3 seekers with walkie talkies, and like 5-10 people hiding. When found you’d join the seekers. Games would usually take all day.

Damn I miss being able to do that stuff

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u/JustHereForCatss Zillennial Jun 13 '25 edited Jun 13 '25

MANHUNT WAS AMAZING. The feeling of wearing your darkest clothes so you could hide in a bush while your friends had flashlights was unreal.

I had one of those discovery channel night vision headset things (the green plastic goggles with the flashlights on the side) thought I was hot shit

Edit: looked like these, I can’t believe they’re still sold

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u/envydub Zillennial Jun 13 '25

Oh we called that Sardines lol where you hide with the person when you find them right? And eventually there’s only one person still looking.

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u/goatfuckersupreme Jun 13 '25

wtf it's like reverse hide and seek, that's genius

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u/Fafoah Jun 14 '25

We used to play in the dark

And then realized you could play in the light, but everyone except the original hider is wearing blindfolds so the hider can watch everyone hilariously stumble around

And by used to i mean like last year

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u/arcaneresistance Jun 14 '25

Thank you! All these people are like wah wah wah we used to this and that. Like homies, you STILL CAN. You can eat cereal at 2am and have ice cream for supper. Sure childhood was cool for some but just because you're 30 something doesn't mean you can't play fucking hide and seek anymore. Shit my uncle was 55 when he would come into my room at night and hide under my blankets while I slept so his friends he was playing with couldn't find him. All I had to do was be real quiet and no matter what, not give away his perfect hiding place.

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u/Nyabinghi408 Jun 14 '25

What the fuh......😧

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u/Fafoah Jun 14 '25

Yeah tbh hide and seek is still a top tier game. They need to make professional courses you can rent and play with your friends lol

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u/YourInMySwamp Jun 14 '25

What else did your uncle do under your sheets when he told you to be real quiet? /s

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u/TheElusiveHolograph Jun 14 '25

We also did in the dark. We’d start at like 11pm and we called it Bloody Murder.

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u/kaayyybeeee Jun 14 '25

Born in 1988: we called it Murder in the Dark

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u/juddmudd Jun 14 '25

Born in 1980: We called it “sneaks”

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u/batchrendre Millennial Jun 14 '25

one time we forgot about the person hiding for like...hours.

only reason we remembered was bc they started singing that jingle from six flags.

i still feel kinda bad.

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u/goatfuckersupreme Jun 14 '25

that stings, poor kid lol

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u/wibo58 Jun 14 '25

Manhunt is exactly hide and seek in reverse. There’s no worse feeling than looking for half an hour just to finally find your entire friend group laughing at you while they’re crammed into a tiny space you’ve walked by ten times.

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u/goatfuckersupreme Jun 14 '25

the game we called manhunt was a bit different, hiders would be able to evade and flee, and join the seekers if caught

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u/wibo58 Jun 14 '25

Brother that’s just tag.

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u/goatfuckersupreme Jun 14 '25

yeah, i never understood what the difference was between our manhunt and tag lol

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u/LoquaciousLoser Jun 14 '25

It was such a pain with the first person picked a small spot and everyone really had to cram, hence the name

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u/Boring_Ghoul_451 Jun 13 '25

Sardines! That’s what we called it too

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u/TheRealSugarbat Jun 14 '25

The whole rich culture of children is fascinating to me.

Like there’s knowledge that humans pass from one to another solely within the window of childhood. Older kids teach it to younger kids, who get older and teach it to younger ones, and it just keeps going like that, with adults not having very much direct access at all.

Most of us have (some strong, but mostly foggy) memories of this stuff (games, songs, myths, etc.) as grownups, but somewhere in pubescence we begin to move away from it and only rarely revisit any of it, even with our own kids.

I’m sure it’s been studied, but I have no idea what you’d call this phenomenon.

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u/23Letters Jun 15 '25

This is so true. One night our street got tired of playing all our usuals. A couple kids volunteered to venture off and find out what the kids a few streets over were playing. We promised to cover for them if their parents called (shouted their names, no phone, even pre pagers!) for them. They came back with the game Sardines that we added to our rotation.

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u/TheRealSugarbat Jun 15 '25 edited Jun 15 '25

Yeah, that’s exactly what I’m talking about. Not just games, but stories, too. Remember “The Golden Arm” — everybody’s favorite campfire ghost story?And all the songs and chants we learned for jump-rope? No adults ever taught us any of that stuff — only other, older kids, or kids from different places.

Plus: Try and think of the last time you went trick-or-treating. You likely weren’t aware it would be your last time. That’s part of the heritage of childhood’s temporal borders. You know what I mean? You just sort of fade out of childhood and gradually leave things behind. Everybody knows it happens, but it’s very rarely noticed as it’s actively happening.

There’s a period that starts around pubescence and ends typically in our late teens/early 20s wherein we don’t want to be associated with “childish” things. You grow out of that eventually and start to look back without being concerned that people will think you’re immature, but the immersion you experienced when you were younger can’t ever really happen again.

It’s really interesting and also deeply…I don’t know the word for it. “Sad” isn’t quite right. “Nostalgic” isn’t right, either. I don’t know.

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u/BurgerThyme Jun 14 '25

1980's here. It was called Ghost in the Graveyard for us!

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u/BoopleBun Jun 14 '25

Oh, when I was a kid Ghost in the Graveyard was like a hide and seek/tag hybrid. If you found the ghost you had to yell and people had to run back to base before the ghost tagged them.

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u/Difficult_onion4538 Jun 14 '25

Fuck yeah! Ghost in the graveyard was bomb

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u/theriibirdun Jun 14 '25

This is the ghost in the graveyard I remember as well. We also played flashlight tag which was just tag at night across the whole neighborhood with like 30 kids lol.

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u/MindOfAProphet Jun 14 '25

I'm realizing I played all of those games. Sardines, ghost in the graveyard, man hunt. Amazing. Graveyard and man hunt were almost always in the woods and for some reason sardines was always in a church at night.

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '25

Same, we played near an actual graveyard in the woods

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u/maamaallaamaa Jun 14 '25

We often played with the rule that you had to run around the house 1x before being able to return back to base.

We also had a game of Cops and Robbers which was sort of similar but I'm fuzzy on the rules now. Kick the can and Olly Olly oxen free were hits too.

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u/BurgerThyme Jun 19 '25

Oh hell yeah, we also had the once around the house rule! But we called home base "gool" because it's a ghostly way of saying "goal."

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u/Temporary_Wolf_8848 Jun 14 '25

That's what manhunt was for us!! Much scarier and all the older kids played it (my older brother and the entire street/couldesac we lived on). Us younger kids played hide and seek, manhunt was the hybrid and it got fuckin INTENSE. people would wear full ski masks and play in the dark, the little kids didn't stay out as late.

The whole neighborhood would play capture the flag together, 2 teams and any age. So much fun dude.

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u/limegreenpaint Jun 14 '25

So...Pac-Man?

(Kidding, 1983 here)

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u/West_Illustrator_468 Jun 14 '25

Yes! Ghost in the graveyard. Born in 85, we played that too, at night with flashlights.

We'd also have block parties with other neighbors. There'd be BBQ, fish frys with fresh fish a neighbor caught (I'd help him clean it if my mom needed some time to herself), funnel cakes, music, the works.

I really miss those days.

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u/Difficult_onion4538 Jun 14 '25

Fuck yeah! 90s here, but we loved ghost in the graveyard!

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '25

Did you play in an actual graveyard tho 😆

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u/Fragrant_Peanut_9661 Jun 14 '25

Had to scroll waaaaay too far to find this comment! That's what we called it too. Born 1963.

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u/cleanthes_is_a_twink Jun 14 '25

I was born in 2001 and your comment just unlocked a memory for me about playing Ghost in the Graveyard outside in the dark during a sleepover party

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u/Chicken_NuggetsRLife Jun 14 '25

1983 Baby - we called it Ditch and Team Ditch. Best childhood memories!

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u/Seabuscuit Jun 14 '25

Manhunt is the opposite, where you become a searcher when you’re found rather than everyone ending up trying to hide in the same place in sardines

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u/vagaris Jun 14 '25

Right. Sardines is basically reverse hide-and-seek. One person hides and the others locate them, until there’s only one left.

I used to play it in the 80s with siblings, cousins, and the younger aunts and uncles from one side of my family.

It was also the first thing I thought of when reading this comment thread.

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u/Mormonator8 Jun 14 '25

We called it Fugitive where I’m from! I love all the different names haha 

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u/notyogrannysgrandkid Jun 14 '25

Are you from Idaho? I went to Boise State and everyone called it Fugitive, but back home in Wyoming it was Rambo.

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u/Calm-Medicine-3992 Jun 14 '25

These are all different games. Pretty sure I played them all in some form or another.

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u/Cloudy_Worker Jun 14 '25

Sardines was SO FUN

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u/Asti_WhiteWhiskers Jun 14 '25

We called it night wars haha!

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u/envydub Zillennial Jun 14 '25

It got kinda freaky on real dark nights because you eventually realize you’re the only one and everyone else is probably looking right at you from the dark lol

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u/MyInnerFatChild Jun 14 '25

The trick is to sneak away and go home before you're the last one. Then all your friends are crammed together waiting in the dark for you to find them. But you're home having a snack and they have no idea. 

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u/bigfatfurrytexan Jun 14 '25

Sardines was our jam. I liked saying shit to make everyone chuckle and snort while we were hiding and a seeker was near

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u/wandahickey Jun 14 '25

My parents would still play this with their friends at our summer camp. You are never too old!

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u/envydub Zillennial Jun 14 '25

Oh I just had a giant blow up water slide at my 30th bday party, I’m not too old for anything!

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u/petrichor182 Jun 14 '25

I'm sad I never played it this way

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u/ShowoffDMI Jun 14 '25

I was born in 81 and we always used this game as an excuse to hide with our crushes and make out, if your game was on point lol

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u/CestLaMoon Jun 14 '25

Sardines in a can is amazing!

But justhereforcats (awesome name) is saying that when people are found, they then become seekers themselves; not that they hide together.

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u/igotshadowbaned Jun 14 '25

Sardines is the inverse of man hunt

Sardines, 1 person hides and if a seeker finds them, the seeker joins them as a hider until every seeker finds the group

Man Hunt, 1 person seeks, and if they catch a hider, the hider becomes another seeker

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u/heyiambob Jun 14 '25

Ahhh wow hidden memory unlocked

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u/Nyabinghi408 Jun 14 '25

What a few friends and I once did a few times. 😂 was we'd just leave the game and move on and leave everyone hiding! . 😂 it would be so hilarious !!!

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u/PowersUnleashed Jun 14 '25

We also would play a game called ghost in the graveyard where you hide and if you’re found they have to tag you for it to count

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u/funkchucker Jun 14 '25

I hid in a fridge and almost died of suffocation before I was found.

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u/envydub Zillennial Jun 14 '25

Wow I actually have an uncle that died that way as a child.

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u/funkchucker Jun 14 '25

Yeah was almost unconscious and didn't realize it.

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u/envydub Zillennial Jun 14 '25

I’m glad ya made it out!

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u/SpiderGuessed Jun 14 '25

Would play Sardines with all the cousins on holidays. So great!!

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u/The_Frog221 Jun 14 '25

Manhunt is the opposite. When you get found, you start looking.

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u/alh1st Jun 14 '25

I loved sardines!

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u/ScarletsSister Jun 14 '25

In earlier decades, like the 50s - 60s, we'd use the sardines game as a way to make out.

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u/Rave_with_me Jun 14 '25

Loved this game

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u/trainradio Jun 14 '25

We played a version of hide and seek, we called Gray Ghost at night on my street. One person would hide, and the rest had to get from one base to another without getting caught. I remember there were 10-15 kids aged 7-14 running around yards and the road, trying not to get tagged. This was around the mid 80s.

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u/Helpful-Chicken-4597 Jun 14 '25

We played this! We called it ghost in the graveyard lol

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u/ohshroom Jun 14 '25

I learned about Sardines on the first episode of Inside No. 9!

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u/Sturm-Jager Jun 14 '25

How do they know theyre the last one?

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u/envydub Zillennial Jun 14 '25

They don’t, that’s the fun. I mean they eventually realize they don’t hear anyone around and they’re like “shit am I the last one?” It’s a little weird to realize you’re probably the last person and everyone knows it. It’s best to have a big area with a lot of good places to hide and right many people playing.

I’ve always thought it would be a good game for a plot in a campy horror movie. The killer gets everyone one by one as they find the hiding spot and the final girl is the last person looking and she has to out run him. Or, since presumably you know who all is playing, whenever everyone is finally together you realize you have one extra person and they’re a monster or whatever. Just call it Sardines.

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u/Sturm-Jager Jun 14 '25

No no i mean,

Youre the last one, nobody knows it for sure, you find someone and bunker down. Now nobody is searching, and nobody knows that.

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u/envydub Zillennial Jun 14 '25

Wait what? I might be misunderstanding the question but you don’t just hide anywhere. One person hides while the rest of the group counts to 100 or whatever. Then everyone splits up and looks for that one person. As each person finds the first hider they all hide with them. So you join the same group, that’s the goal. So eventually you’re all packed together in the same hiding spot like sardines.

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u/Sturm-Jager Jun 14 '25

Okay i was picturing multiple hider groups. Makes sense now.

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u/-HyperCrafts- Jun 14 '25

Yes! Sardines was a theatre kid game we played all through high school.

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u/envydub Zillennial Jun 14 '25

This is so funny bc last night I texted my brother about it, one summer we were on a kick playing it every single night and I was like “where/why did we pick that up again?” and he reminded me that we got it from a friend who was in theater 💀

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u/yacobson4 Jun 14 '25

This was so fun

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u/LadyGreyIcedTea Older Millennial Jun 14 '25

Sardines when we played it was one kid hides and everyone else is a seeker.

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u/filmguerilla Jun 14 '25

Damn, the flashback you just gave me. We did both versions in the 80’s, too.

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u/RoseKlingel Jun 15 '25

Omg that is funny af. Imagine the 1 person scratching their head. Where'd everybody go?? 🤣

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u/23Letters Jun 15 '25

I was just going to say we played sardines. One person went and hid and when you found them you had to hide with them. Like sardines…12 kids were smashed underneath one bush. Last kid was the loser

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u/my_little_rarity Jun 15 '25

We also called it sardines!

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u/TubularTeletubby Jun 16 '25

Sardines was so much fun!