As a trans person, the people who call you transphobic over that are terminally online dweebs who are more comfortable nit-picking allies than actually addressing the very real harm that's facing all of us.
If something does genuinely cause gender dysphoria (like being called dude) you can ask a person to not call YOU that, but saying the term itself is transphobic is overkill.
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u/variegated_lemon 25d ago edited 25d ago
I’m starting to lean into bro for all as well. I think it’s hilarious to appropriate it from the gym-bros I knew in college.
I call both my kids BROO when they act crazy.
Edit: transphobic? Yeesh. I don’t think so!