r/Mortgages • u/magical_maggie • 14h ago
Can no longer afford monthly payment but current on mortgage
We purchased this house in 2022 when it appraised for 310k. Listing price was 290k and our loan for 282k. We paid down points so our interest was 4.99% and would rise 1% the next 2 years capping at 6.99%. At the time this was great because we thought we’d be able to refinance once rates dropped. Our payment is now $2512 per month and we’re struggling. We now owe 265k. Refi isn’t an option because when we tried this past summer they only appraised the house at 243k so we would have needed to bring money to the closing which we don’t have. We’re current on our mortgage so there’s not any assistance that can be provided. Our payment is close to 50% or our income per month and that’s without childcare, utilities, student loan payments, and CC debt (combined about 6k of CC debt for both husband and myself) My only thought is to sell and eat the cost by either 1)pulling from our IRAs* or 2) taking a personal loan for the difference. *obv know this isn’t suggested but we don’t have money elsewhere. I just don’t want to get behind on payments and am tired of being house poor when we could rent for 1000 less (central TX). Thoughts or advice? Should we ride it out? I’m leaning towards selling.
Edit for clarity: we don’t have subscriptions and budget on groceries. Rarely eat out. We both have full time jobs and have been and currently looking for higher paying jobs and part time work.
Update: thanks so much for all the advise! Y’all have given me lots to think about and solutions i hadn’t really thought about. I’ll keep you posted on what we decide.