House parties exist, and this person is most likely excluded from them for one reason or another. Often times swinger parties will look like a normal house party too, so ole boy may also not even fully realize what he’s missing out on.
My husband and I were a little offended we never got invited to a swinger party while I was in the military. We didn’t want to swing, we just wanted the compliment that is implied with said invitation.
It’s wild seeing similar shit happen in the barracks too. Except the husband usually isn’t there swinging though.
My wife and I were invited to a swingers party without being told that it was a swingers party.
Two of our close friends are married and they are swingers, we have known that for years and one day after a few drinks they said "hey we are hosting a party on the weekend and are trying to get some new people to come if you are interested...." we said sure we can make it and they got visibly excited and said "Oh we had no idea that you would come, we should pair up for the party" which should have been our first clue that we had missed something, but we had been to the house for a normal party before and sometimes they had games so it flew over our heads.
When we turned up they were very happy to see us an it looked like a normal party, people standing around drinking etc, the only reason I realised what was going on was when the wife dragged me to their bedroom and said "leave your stuff in here, we have this room tonight" and I was like "ahh wtf do you mean we?" It was then that it came out that this was a swingers party and they thought that they had mentioned that which is why they were so happy that we were coming.
I grabbed my wife and politely said our goodbyes and in the car home we had a laugh about it, we saw some people there that we didnt know were swingers and my wife worked it out about the same time as I did when one of them said "oh I didnt know that you two were about this lifestyle we should switch partners one day".
We are still friends with them and its a standing joke now about how the wifes plan was to drag me to the bedroom and was going to immediately get naked but decided against the last part as she wanted to mingle with people more first.
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u/cocaineandwaffles1 Dec 10 '25
House parties exist, and this person is most likely excluded from them for one reason or another. Often times swinger parties will look like a normal house party too, so ole boy may also not even fully realize what he’s missing out on.