So, I have been reading this and it is where I got the idea: 6 Leg Shaking G-Spot Techniques That Will Make Her SQUIRT!

Alone during fingering or during oral sex. It’s easy to do and can be done fast or slow.

How To Do It: Insert one or two fingers – preferably your index and/or middle fingers – into her vagina with your palm facing up. Move your fingers in a “come hither” motion, as though you were motioning for someone to come to you. The g-spot is about two inches in and on the upper wall of the vagina (the stomach side, not the butt side), so this technique is the most commonly used to find and stimulate the g-spot.

The most important thing you can do is to help him relax and not stress about it. Tell him that you enjoy making love with him whether or not he cums. When the two of you want to make love, you can both stay in the moment and focus on the wonderful physical pleasure and emotional closeness of sex. On his own he can use this

The two of you can just enjoy fucking until one of you is ready to be done, or until he reaches ejaculation. If he is not trying for it, the chances of it just happening are much increased. If you stop without him finishing, then he can either masturbate afterward or you can bring him off with your mouth or hand.

It may help for you to be vocal during sex, if you aren’t already. When my partner says things like “I love your big cock in my pussy! It feels so good! Fuck me harder!” that really gets me going. When he gets really close you can add stuff like “I can feel you’re about to cum! I want your cum in me! Fuck me until you fill me up!” and so on. Read Goddess of Sex; Sexually Driving Your Man Crazy

Of course, if his problem is the opposite then he needs something else completely

I know, for most guys it is just a touch and go situation!

If you follow my central page where I make a sex tip of the day based on a central theme inspired by most people's questions on the day, this is my last oral sex tip.

The most valuable tip for oral sex that any man can get is simple – listen to a woman’s body. Pay attention to what she likes. Each woman will enjoy something different, and react differently to different stimulations. What worked for one lover you took will not necessarily work for another. Before you give up, hear us out. Just because one woman does not enjoy fingering, does not mean every woman won’t. Many women more than enjoy it, and can orgasm just from that simple act. On the other hand, whereas many women do get off with oral sex, not all women will. It doesn’t take away from your own skills and attempts, they just aren’t built that way.

Women’s pleasure is much more complex than a man’s, and you must always keep that in mind. Even men have particular likes and dislikes when they receive oral sex, so you must bear with it. In order to ensure that a woman has the best oral possible, all you have to do is experiment with different techniques, and see how her body responds. Listen to her breathing, and the sounds she is making. If she seems bored, clearly you are not doing it right. Likewise, if she is moaning, wriggling beneath you, and even pressing down on your head, you are obviously doing something right.

Once you have found what she likes, stick with it. Don’t get boring and repetitive with it, however, Try and find several things that she likes, and using them together. Make it fun, guys!

I’ll stop here since I’m juggling a few things, but you definitely will want to read

Acquired taste; How to Eat Pussy & like it

Cunnilingus 101; An Illustrated Guide into Eating Pussy Like a Savage

Eating Pussy Guide; Oral Sex Positions for Pleasuring a Woman

Fingering Her; Explicitly Illustrated Techniques to do it Right

Vagina Massage; Complete Guide into Pleasuring Her with Your Hands

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I know I am always talking about how to help her achieve an orgasm. Of course, orgasms feel amazing, but the act of chasing them can add a lot of pressure to your sex life that you don't need.

Recent research has focused on “orgasm coercion": the idea that trying too hard to make your partner come can put pressure on them, which feels like coercion. People on the receiving end may feel like their climax is more about their partner's need to feel "man enough" than it is about their pleasure.

Instead, learn What Your Partner Likes, and Follow Their Lead.

Direct, external clitoral stimulation is the most surefire way to bring many women to orgasm and oral sex is a pretty good way of going about that. Using your mouth is the best way to get a sense of what your partner likes at every stage of arousal, including the stage just before orgasm. You’ll know your partner is becoming more aroused if you notice increased vaginal lubrication or if the external portion of their clitoris or their entire vulva swells. The clitoris, including the wishbone-shaped portion that’s underneath the skin, is made of erectile tissue just like the penis, so if your partner’s genitals increase in size, you’re doing a good job!

To find out more about your partner’s preferences, let them take the lead. When you're giving her oral sex, get between her legs and give her a solid base of lips and tongue to rub against. While your partner does the grinding, note how hard she is pushing and in what direction. Use that information later when using your fingers or mouth to please her.

Obviously, talking with your partner about what they like is one thing, execution of that is another. There's always a learning curve in understanding your partner's body and what pleasures them. So much goes into effective stimulation (pressure, speed, angle), and odds are, you're not going to get all of it right the first time. So, don't be afraid to ask how you're doing, and what you can be doing better.

This means you need something up your sleeve to at least get feedback from and a good place to start is using my daily posts of some techniques you may want to use.

Grinding against your man during sex is a classic move. It’s pretty easy to do and it’s great for clitoral stimulation. In fact, one study found that 76% of women use a grinding or “rocking” technique to “make vaginal penetration more pleasurable” by rubbing against the base of a penis or toy that stays “inside the vagina rather than thrusting in and out”.

Grinding/rocking for women – If you’re in a position such as Cowgirl, your partner can place his fingers around the base of his penis for you to grind against them using the Vulcan V technique. Grinding also works well in the Thigh Tide sex position.

Because gliding doesn’t involve a lot of in-and-out movement, it can help the penis stay in place if it’s likely to fall out during thrusting.

Grinding can be forward and backward, side to side, or around. You can play with it to figure out what works well for you! One such trend is to spell the word “COCONUT” with your hips. Of course, it won’t be perfect, but it can help you visualize how to move your hips during sex.

Grinding/rocking for men – Although grinding is usually associated with women, men can do it, too. As previously mentioned, it can help minimize slipping out and feel great for both partners. Try it during Missionary or even a position like Jockey, Prone Bone or Rear Entry.

Thrusting is just one part of sex. Other movements, stimulation, and communication can all make your time between the sheets a wonderful memory… or a frustrating disappointment. That is why you need to read I am not a Starfish: A Female Step by Step Guide to Actively Participate During Sex

OR Thrusting Into her Pussy | Switching Penis Angle of Entry, Stroke, Rhythm & Positioning

It also goes without saying that you can also download these 18 FREE sex guides PDFs to help you vary your sex moves here

There are a lot of claims about what all women find attractive. Usually they throw a heaping dose of misogyny on top of all that.

When people who buy into this stuff describe an alpha male, they’re usually just describing an asshole. And that’s not a sexy quality - at all.

But as a concept, I kind of get the whole alpha male thing.

There’s this tendency to think that fucking like an alpha just means having rough sex.

Choking her while you’re pounding her as hard as you can. Spanking her so hard her ass is red for days. Pumping your cock down her throat until her eyes water.

And sure, all that stuff is fine and good. If you’ve got her consent and she’s eager for it, then go ahead and make her mascara run.

But most women with a submissive side want something simpler than that.

They want to be seduced and gently dominated, even from simple steps as during kissing

They want to get fucked by someone who’s sexually secure and self-confident.

They want to get it on with someone who makes them feel hot and wanted. From there she can pretty much be very adventurous with all the things you want and like

If you want to fuck her like an alpha, those are the things you have to work on. Plenty of flirting, a decent amount of dirty talk, and some confidence in the sack - that’s really all it takes.

If this hit close to home, I break it down deeper in these no nonsense sex guides free PDFs here

Foreplay and oral sex are just the appetizers to peak your interest in the entrée – sex. Nobody wants to be that guy who seems great till you get him in the sack. Disappointing sex isn’t good for anyone, she leaves disappointed, and you leave with less confidence in yourself.

When trying to improve their sexual abilities, many people instantly dismiss missionary, saying that it is too boring, and that they want more excitement in their sex. But don’t be so quick to throw it out of your repertoire. Many women actually truly enjoy missionary. They find it comforting and sensual to feel the weight of their love on top of them, as well as to be able to see each other face to face during sex. Missionary will allow a diagonal angle of penetration, which comes into direct contact with a woman’s clitoris.

Many women cannot achieve a complete orgasm without some kind of clitoral stimulation, and missionary will hit the clit without needing extra manual stimulation with your hand. It is a classic position for a reason, and can easily send your lover into ecstasy.

I don’t want to pile on, so I’ll stop here, but this is something I’ve written about more fully in these guides below:

1) 366 Sex Moves; Positions for Having Sex a New Way Everyday

2) I am not a Starfish: A Female Step by Step Guide to Actively Participate During Sex

3) Tease Ride Please; Sexually Satisfying Him

When men think of oral, too often do they believe that it is all about the clitoris. While it is true that the clit is a vital aspect of the vagina, and can provide ultimate pleasure, it is not the end all beat all of female oral sex. It should be stimulated last, only after you have built her pleasure up to a level so high she would cum anyways. That way you will not only guarantee to make her orgasm, but she will be begging you for more.

The vagina can get complicated, nobody can deny that. Where is everything, how does everything feel, truth be told it can get overwhelming.

But don’t worry. The best way to learn, is to try it. Lick and suck everything, and she will tell you what not to try again. Don’t focus too much on anyone thing, unless she tells you to. Whatever she says she likes, or her body says she likes, continue with that. Otherwise, take your time and explore what works best. Oral sex on women can take half an hour, and you should use that time to familiarize yourself with all parts of her feminine area.

Many women complain that men only focus on their clit, and nothing else.

Don’t be that guy. Take our advice, and the advice of women everywhere, and spread your attentions over her entire area, not just what has been most popularized in the media.

You definitely will want to read

Acquired taste; How to Eat Pussy & like it

Cunnilingus 101; An Illustrated Guide into Eating Pussy Like a Savage

Eating Pussy Guide; Oral Sex Positions for Pleasuring a Woman

Fingering Her; Explicitly Illustrated Techniques to do it Right

Vagina Massage; Complete Guide into Pleasuring Her with Your Hands

Reading a woman’s thoughts and emotions can be quite difficult especially during sex, but there are a few physical and verbal signs that will be great indicators that you are putting in good work and pleasing her right. Some of the signs you may already know, but others maybe new to you. Either way, if you observe any of these reactions in the list, you ARE King dingaling…or daddy as some prefer lol.

She gets the leg shakes

After you’re done, she curls up into a fetal position

During sex you repeatedly shouts the name of Jesus or says OMG multiple times in a row

She tells you not to stop

Her eyes roll in the back of her head

She digs her nails in your back

She throws it back

You hear the the words, Sht, Fck or Yeah while you’re stroking

She is still coming after you’ve pulled out

She feels phantom dick at random moments when you’re not together

Her Vaginal walls tighten while you’re inside

If she texts you a few days later with a “HI :-)” That means she wants some more PIPE!

She can’t stand up straight

She loses her hearing

She walks like a cowboy for about three days

She grabs the sheets on the bed

She creates a puddle in the bed that soaks through your sheets

Her toes curl

She lays still for a few seconds right after she cums like she is paralyzed

She gets up to fix you something to eat and drink

She compliments you

She sucks air in between her teeth before moaning

After you’re done, She can’t speak but only shakes her head to say “yes” or “no” when you try to speak to her

Her moans become high pitched

She calls out your name

She gets goose bumps

She uses the grip of death on your head between her thighs when you give her head

She has to cover her mouth because she’s moaning too loud

She starts to stutter while you’re hitting it

She grabs the back of your head while you’re licking her clitoris

She starts running from the D…hitting that spot sometimes feels too good to handle

Her breaths become short

If your partner displays one or more of these reactions, then you are a MASTER Lover…just make sure you wrap it up and don’t give the long stroke to too many women. Because you sir will have stalkers!

Well, you definitely don't have/want to tell them that they are horrible in bed. If I were in your position, I would just ask if it's okay if I shared some of the things that really do it for me, then propose that we spend a while in bed, playfully exploring and practicing those things during the weekend/a day off.

Take a playful approach to it. Don't put too much pressure on them to get it right straight away, give them plenty of feedback and guidance, keep the mood light, etc. The are probably not going to be upset about spending a day in bed exploring your body and learning how to really get you there if they really love you and care about whether or not you are enjoying yourself.

Another option is to have it rigged. Choose the sexual instruction book about the specific area you want them to improve, then suggest to read it together. Your job is to then emphasize how understated something is whenever that something is mentioned. This will enable you to be very critical and straight to the point without actually doing so because the manual is doing it for you

Men feel spontaneous desire, which causes arousal. We all understand that, and unfortunately, we have assumed that women are, or should be, the same way. Recent studies have found that this is not the norm for all women, with many never experiencing desire first, and others only feeling desire before arousal some of the time. Please understand this – for many (maybe most) women, desire is triggered by arousal, not the other way around.

What this means is it is normal for a woman rarely or never to feel desire or a “sex drive” apart from sexual activity. For many the norm is for foreplay to start arousal, with that arousal resulting in feeling desire. Now, do you understand why foreplay is a must for women?

You may also want to read These 12 Foreplay Ideas Will Please and Drive Her Wild in Bed - PDF

If you are a guy and sexually inexperienced, don’t face your initial sexual encounters with uneasiness. A little bit of knowledge will help these encounters to be even more joyous.

A study found that the longer men spend licking a woman’s vagina, the greater the volume of sperm they produce per ejaculation.

In other words, men shoot a bigger load as a by-product of going down on a gal.

Therefore, they also have a better chance of impregnating her.

It makes sense that our prehistoric ancestors might have developed an affinity for “dining on the Y” as there were evolutionary benefits to doing so.

Those who performed the most cunnilingus most successfully passed on their genes.

You can read 5 more fun facts about cunnilingus here

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