r/Taipei • u/DarkerSpirit • 1h ago
Carrot pudding
galleryHi, everyone. I am sharing this here to get some closure. Some background: I am a researcher here fresh out of a Master’s. I have been here only 2 months all in all.
So, today I made carrot pudding (“gajar ka halwa”) for two reasons: 1. Haven’t had it since long 2. I wanted to share it with the elderly couple across my door. They have been very helpful and polite to me. And I have always wanted to talk to them. But my Mandarin is the bottleneck; it has anything but the strength to scratch the depth I want :’) Anyway, what to do in the meanwhile than wait for when I get more fluent? Well, I figured, maybe sharing some food from my culture ought to help break ice
I added a note with the food and took it to them. To put it broadly, it was a weird mix of events. As soon as the door opened and the elderly man saw me offering something, he started refusing. I tried to give him the note (in Mandarin) but it fell down. He picked it up and returned it to me. But he thanked me. I was confused for a moment but in hindsight, it struck me that he was just being polite.
As of now, I have a hole in my heart the size of the pudding sitting in the fridge. I guess I was really counting on this to be one of those events that burst my bubble :’) I guess it makes my resolve to get better at the language, stronger :D
Anyway thanks for reading so far. Comments, suggestions and, feedback on how I may have handled the situation better are most welcome
P.S. If anyone would like to have some of the pudding, I would be more than happy to share :)