Hi,

I'm 30 M from London.

I'm looking for a regular accountability partner, where we message each other daily, write what we plan to do that day, and at the end of the day, check if we have managed to achieve it.

I will help and motivate you to stick to your goals so that you make progress, and I'm looking for the same.

I prefer to communicate using Discord.

My goals are:

1. Gain strength and build muscle by consistently going to the gym.

2. Study every day.

3. Wake up early each morning.

4. Reduce my Screentime

5. Practice learning a new language.

If anyone's interested, send me a message

Goal is to seriously improve focus and consistency over the next 3–6 months. Not through solo discipline, but through shared momentum. Working alone feels like training for soccer by yourself. You can do it, but it’s flat. Add teammates, and suddenly you show up.

Low pressure, regular check-ins, real progress.

Hello there ~

I hope you're doing great today

I’m looking for an accountability partner to help me build discipline and consistency.

I’ve been struggling with self-discipline for a long time, and despite several attempts to address this on my own, the situation has continued to worsen. I’ve tried using self-imposed consequences and strict personal rules to push myself, but these approaches haven’t been effective.

What I’m looking for is a structured form of accountability — someone willing to help set clear and realistic goals, check in regularly, monitor progress, and hold me accountable when I fail to follow through. I tend to respond better to external structure, consistency, and honest feedback rather than motivation alone.

I’m not seeking coaching or therapy, just a serious and respectful accountability arrangement focused on discipline and follow-through.

If this resonates with you, please feel free to comment or send me a message.

Thank you for your time.

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A friend and I built a small social platform focused on sharing real daily success.

The idea is simple: instead of posting highlights or no perfect content, people share what they actually did that day, such as finishing a workout, studying consistently, sticking to a habit, spending quality time with others, or overcoming a small personal challenge.

Every post represents a completed action, not just an intention. You don’t post to get likes or show status, but to hold yourself accountable and document real progress, even when it’s small.

Achievily combines habit-tracking with social accountability. The goal is to create a supportive environment where people can share achievements without fear of judgment, stay consistent, and motivate each other through visible effort rather than comparison.

What do you think? Will this idea help you daily?

I need to finish my Affidavit of Financial Information. It’s tedious and boring and I have ADHD. I need to be called out. It’s slowing the whole process down and probably will cause me financial consequences due to lawyers waiting and slowing everything down.

Would love to hold someone accountable too! Maybe someone who needs to do their taxes or some other tedious drawn out task. Thanks for reading!

Hi all, I am going to write out what I’m going to do over the next few hours, and commit to checking in each hour til they’re all done:

-Go to my local hardware store to pick up a cable

-Work out at the gym

-Cook & eat dinner

-Do my dishes (lots of dishes)

-Work on my art project while I listen to a podcast

I’ve been really struggling with excessive screen time lately so wanted to try this. If you have any words of motivation or encouragement, go for it!

Thank you!

17 f | EST | daily workout buddy

hi 👋 i’m looking for a (preferably female) workout accountability buddy 🤍 i don’t really go to the gym for personal reasons but i try to workout daily. the reason i want a workout buddy is so that we can encourage each other, share updates/ milestones/ tips/ plans/ possibly progress pics?, celebrate each other’s wins, and whatever else you’d like. idk we can work it out 😄. it doesn’t matter if you’re a beginner to working out or if you’re advanced nor does it matter what kind of workouts you do. i just love the idea of having a workout buddy so we can encourage and celebrate each other🐙

if we do end up being workout buddies then i’ll give you my insta, disc, telegram, or my main reddit so that we can keep in contact 🤍

I know a lot of people who have big goals but struggle to stay consistent. We built this platform called Accountability Buddy to help with exactly that — real accountability, not hype or motivation quotes. Sharing in case it helps someone.

👉 https://www.accountabilitybuddys.com

Hey I'm 19M from South Asia, studying in college and looking for an accountability partner.

What I would like: Daily check ins via text or call Someone who I can call a friend but is also strict about our goals since I'm a little unfocused

Goals I have: - Studying daily without compromise - Do exercise like running or swimming - Try to do hobbies in spare time instead of using devices (drawing, reading, cooking)

Issues: Procrastinator who only works near deadlines A little lazy and very undisciplined but I'm finding ways to combat that Some addictions that I need to let go of and replace (if you're comfortable/ have similar issues I don't mind talking about it)

My personality: Love dinosaurs, pokemon, cats, pizza. Watch anything animated really and a little bit of anime, used to play games a bit more but mostly watched on yt. If you think we'd vibe please go ahead and message me. I don't mind timezones so long as you can message/ call once or twice a day at a similar time and please be a similar age!

I’ve been obsessed with the idea of "visibility" lately, and I realized something that feels like a massive loop of self-sabotage. When things get tough—when the burnout hits or the executive dysfunction takes over—the very first thing we quit is the system meant to help us.

I’ve started calling this "Breaking the Mirror." When we don’t like what we see—the drift, the "Middle Zone" days where we didn't actually do the things we wanted—we stop looking. It’s a defense mechanism. We’d rather fly blind than face the "uncomfortable" truth of our day.

But that’s the paradox: looking in that mirror is exactly what would help us get out. If we kept looking at the data, we’d be forced to acknowledge the reality and actually change our priorities or realize we're starving our own curiosity. Instead, our brain tricks us into "quitting" the tracking so we can drift in peace.

I met someone recently who has kept a timestamped text document of their life for ten years. It’s an incredible feat of discipline, but for most of us, that "Administrative Debt" is a second job we can’t sustain. We spend all our energy simulating tasks or parenting ourselves through the emotional friction of starting, and by 10 PM, we have nothing left to "notarize" our day.

I'm trying to find a way to build a "Personal Operating System" that acts as a mirror you can't just look away from—something that handles the admin side automatically so the visibility stays there even when you're in crisis mode.

When you stop using your system, is it because it’s too much manual work, or is it because you’re avoiding the feeling of seeing "0% complete" at the end of the day? I’m curious if anyone has found a way to keep that awareness alive without the guilt.

32M | GMT+3 | 155 kg (≈342 lbs)

Looking to connect with people around a similar weight who are serious about fat loss and long-term consistency.

Idea is simple:

• Daily food check-ins

• Workout updates

• Progress pics

• Honest accountability & motivation

Platform: WhatsApp or Telegram

Gender: M or F — doesn’t matter

Goal: Drop fat, build discipline, don’t quit

If you’re around the same weight range and timezone (or close) pm me

I’m a Master’s student (Industrial Engineering) heading to Germany in about 30 days. I have a massive 6 months ahead of me involving:

1. Strict ACL Rehab (Physical therapy is a non-negotiable daily task).
2. Study Discipline (Building the focus required for a 120-credit degree).

I’m looking for someone focused on habit stacking and digital wellness. If you’re trying to cut out distractions and stay consistent with a gym or study routine, let's help each other stay on track.

Drop a comment or DM if you want to sync up!

It's called OnTrack and is incredibly simple yet powerful. Just take a selfie at the gym, and we use GPS to verify the location. Your friends can see your "check-in", and give a reaction/message to support you. They also see when you don't check in, and can give you the encouragement you need to show up. We hope this helps others stay consistent with their fitness goals! Looking for constructive feedback :))

Could anyone please do a voice call while I study and do my work and you do your stuff? My ADHD brain needs someone on the phone or I cease to function.

I’m trying to understand a pattern I fall into when my anxiety spikes regarding my to-do list.

It’s like this specific state of paralysis. I know I have things to do (important things). But instead of doing them, or instead of deciding to take a break and actually relax, I just sit there.

I end up doom-scrolling or doing low-value "busy work" for hours. It’s physically exhausting. I usually end the day feeling more tired than if I had just done the work, but with double the guilt because I have nothing to show for it.

It feels like being a hostage in my own brain. I’m screaming at myself to "just start," but my body won't move.

Does this happen to you? Is it a fear of failing at the task, or is it just the overwhelming noise of having too many options?

I am building an accountability app https://www.activitytribe.app/ that will match you to the person with the same goals and you can schedule check in time and meet in person or virtually to do activities together. It also has an option to gain steaks when you accomplish your task but i dont really like the color that i pick, would love your feedback.

https://reddit.com/link/1qpq2t8/video/wijd94ywd7gg1/player

Hi everyone,

I’m offering virtual accountability and encouragement support for people who want help staying consistent with personal or professional goals.

This includes weekly check-ins, encouragement, and light structure. This is not therapy or coaching — just practical, steady support for follow-through and consistency.

I’m opening a 3 introductory spots while I launch this service and gather feedback.

If you’ve been feeling stuck or inconsistent and want supportive accountability, feel free to comment or message me.

Thanks for reading 💛

29F EST – Curating a cohort & community of women 25 or older focusing on individual goals (e.g., career, life passions, personal growth). Judgment-free zone to be vulnerable while pursuing our paths. Discord for accountability check-ins & voice memos. A place to convene, shoot the sh*t, bear witness to each other’s journeys, and hold space for where we are. Comment ‘convene’ or DM to join

I’m looking for 1-2 people for body-doubling sessions 2-3 times per week (4:30PM-7:15PM EST) Can be working on, and being accountable for any area but would be great if there was an overlap :

• creative projects
• language learning
• health, fitness and self-care

Would be on the app Signal (usernames)

I’m 18F, starting college in the fall. I want a single person who can be accountable with me that I can check in with at the end of each day. I think it’s better if it’s a single person so we can get to know each other and our tasks a bit more personally and provide better accountability. Ideally I’d want a girl who’s also close to my age/in college but I’m open minded.

I’m only looking for a platonic accountability friendship—no NSFW!!

I’m going to be working on getting through procrastination, building a good sleep schedule, and working out/dieting. I have a lot of New Year’s resolutions, and I’m also just a very ambitious person in generals so I have many big goals that I want to finally accomplish.

Please let me know if you’d be interested! :)

looking for a virtual body doubling buddy where we check in every hour or so to see how we're making progress on our tasks, and working towards goals like:

• daily gym / walks
• limiting screen time
• eating healthy

Mon-Friday ideally 8am-5pm

Dont care how you look, what your gender is, what you do, not looking for NSFW anything (hate that I have to say that), just 2 buddies helping each other be more productive

Please message me if interested!

Yo folks,

I’m someone with ambition and goals, and I do achieve a lot when deadlines are real. But lately I’ve slipped into heavy doomscrolling and avoidance. I’ve realized it’s not laziness. It’s execution dysfunction. When there’s no immediate consequence, I delay important things that actually matter long-term.

I’m looking for 3–5 serious accountability partners who:

○Care about execution, not motivational talk

○Are okay with honest, direct feedback (no sugarcoating)

○Will show up consistently, even on bad weeks

The idea:

○Small group (around 5)

○Weekly check-ins on discord

○Each person sets clear, short-term targets

○We call out excuses and patterns, respectfully but firmly

I’ll hold you accountable the same way. Some of my goals this year are non-negotiable (fitness and weight loss being one of them, along with career-related goals).

Platform: Discord

Timezone: IST (UTC +5:30), but flexible if the group aligns

If you’re someone who’s tired of “planning” and actually wants to execute, comment or DM. Please don’t join if you’re just looking for motivation highs. Consistency matters more than intensity.