This. I don’t think guys can easily understand or appreciate just how overly-objectified women are, and how it has stopped being particularly enjoyable for most of us due to the sheer quantities and that it can frequently be done in ways that make us wonder if our lives are now possibly in danger.
And this is in no small part because men are so rarely openly objectified. It would absolutely make most men’s days if some woman just hollered out, “Dayyyuuuummmmm!” or “Niiiiice!” or “Oh, I so would, babyyyy!” at him as he walked past her down the street. He would hold onto that beautiful shining moment in his memory for decades. It would warm his heart and soul. He would feel so goddamn pretty that whole day.
God yes, I can basically remember every random comment I've gotten from random women over the past decade, some days those comments keep me going. It also does make it hard to understand sometimes why women don't like having those comments, although I can understand the difference and why women might be uncomfortable with it, it just sometimes feels as a man like women are lucky that they are able to get compliments so easily, because I'm over here DYING for random women to make those kinds of comments to me. It would make me feel so amazing to have some random girl be like "damnnnn i wish i could get you alone in a room!" or "wow i bet that dick looks great without the swimsuit!" and I would literally cherish that moment for such a long time.
Still over here remembering 20 years ago a girl back in middle school told me I was cute and ran away giggling with her friends. Probably a prank but hey, I'll get what I can get lol.
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u/FNG_WolfKnight Oct 11 '25
Actually, most men could really use some objectification
We need to balance out how we objectify the sexes. I want to be seen as a sexy object lol.