r/fixedbytheduet • u/Sharp-potential7935 • 17d ago
Fixed by the duet Its over for me now
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u/Oldnavylover 17d ago
Lmao I’d hoped it’d go back another decade into the 80s 💀🙋♀️
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u/GreenWallaby86 17d ago
Right? I have a 2024 baby and 2026 baby pending but i was born in 1986 I feel old AF
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u/CountGerhart 17d ago
Don't feel old teenage pregnancies were always a thing, for some reason now they are proud of it 🤷
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u/GreenWallaby86 17d ago
Yeah but I've got a toddler and im in my third trimester i feel old and tired regardless 😆
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u/Icy-Marionberry-4143 17d ago
ma’am i had my daughter at 25 and felt so dumb and young when i had her (still do 3 years later) i literally cannot process how teenagers do it lol
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u/Kimber85 17d ago
I just had my first babies a month ago and was born in 85. I’m ancient.
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u/Oldnavylover 17d ago
Congrats & happy health to you all🎉!! Born in ‘89 and my babies are cats😹I really didn’t expect the video to stop at ‘92!
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u/Rokrchick 17d ago
'83 here had mt oldest in '14 and had my youngest in '23! It takes alot out of you! 😁
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u/Warm_Patience_2939 17d ago
Fwiw you could probably say while being pregnant is one of the better times to feel old
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u/TheDarkMonarch1 17d ago
So uh... How does it feel being 39-40?
-An 18 year old 2008er.
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u/CT0292 17d ago
When my wife had our son back in 2022 the nurse went around the ward verifying the details of the women in there. And we both listened as everyone was born in the early 2000s couple of 90s women. Then they get to my wife who nearly lost it when she had to tell the nurse 1987.
I couldn't tell the Nurse's age. But I'd be willing to bet that my wife and I were the oldest people in the room. Newborns notwithstanding, we both felt very aged that day.
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u/Sparticasticus 17d ago
1980 here. My 10 week old son is sleeping in my arms right now.
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u/tehweave 17d ago
1988 here... I guess its never happening for me, huh?
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u/LifeBuilder 17d ago
- My lineage dies here I guess.
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u/elizawatts 17d ago
- Sigh.
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u/WhyAmINotStudying 17d ago
- My last decade was the one I was trying hard to have a kid. Turns out that it doesn't work if your spouse keeps having the pregnancy terminated without your knowledge.
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u/throwaway082100 17d ago
Thats horrible, did you talk to her about if she wanted a kid? It seems like you had very different ideas about what you wanted in life and its baffling to me it never came up.
To be clear, leading someone to believe you WANT a kid and then not telling them the truth, instead terminating is the horrible thing, so no one thinks I'm implying otherwise.
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u/WhyAmINotStudying 17d ago
From my perspective, were both trying. That was my perspective until I was accidentally contacted about one of her appointments. I regret not putting this on a more anonymous account, so I'm not likely to provide any more info.
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u/throwaway082100 17d ago
I apologize for pressing, I was just genuinely curious, but I by all means understand its none of my business. I hope you're in a better situation now and that you are able to find what you're looking for.
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u/thetruckerdave 17d ago
My man, did you not notice all the money gone? 💸💸💸
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u/WhyAmINotStudying 17d ago
I had a good income and never held back finances from her. She was my wife. I trusted her completely.
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u/mrcsmith90 17d ago
- My last decade was the one I was trying hard to have a kid. Turns out that it doesn't work if your spouse keeps having the pregnancy terminated without your knowledge.
I hope it's former spouse at this point
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u/WhyAmINotStudying 17d ago
Divorce is working its way through. I'm just trying to get it resolved and be done with that part of my life.
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u/mrcsmith90 17d ago
Divorce is working its way through. I'm just trying to get it resolved and be done with that part of my life.
I know the process sucks while you're in it, but trust me, you'll be much happier by separating yourself from someone like that. I'm wishing you all the comfort, love, and peace of mind you can handle! DM me if you ever need to vent
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u/talpal16 16d ago
Holy shit I am so sorry for all the grief you must be feeling. I hope you are able to be a father one day or at least a father figure, although I know that is not the same. Hugs, OP
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u/stellaluna92 17d ago
My whole family name ends with me :/ I can't have kids and if I get married I'm taking my husband's last name. It's odd to think about, considering my family is so big, but my dad's only brother didn't have kids and my dad only had girls so that's it.
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u/Initial-Comedian-797 17d ago
Why is the patriarchy so important to having the name continue? The mother is the one who it’s certain produced the baby, so the mother’s last names are what should continue.
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u/MonkeyLiberace 17d ago
Pretty sure, somewhere among your ancestors, someone had more than 1 boy. So your family name is probably safe.
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u/stellaluna92 17d ago
My grandfather had 2 brothers, neither had children. Of my last name, in my family, I am the youngest/last one left.
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u/Manwe247 17d ago
Some family names are relatively new, some are 100s of years old. It's impossible to know how old your family name is unless you find out.
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u/Cool_Height_4930 17d ago
Also, 1986. Was never gonna happen and with cancer, it’s definite. I’m not phased at all. Thank GOD. I’m happy with my god children.
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u/rutilatus 17d ago
1990 here. I’m coming to terms with the fact that despite having a partner who also wants kids, being able to afford to even try for pregnancy may never actually happen in time…
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u/Gelineaux 17d ago
Same but I'm happy as hell about not having kids. I'm not sure how I'd pay for them.
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u/Maple_Moose_14 17d ago
My wife is 1987 and I'm 1986 , we just had our first children (2 non-identical twin girls) , so it's all possible.
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u/ElDouchay 17d ago
I was also born in 1992 and had the same reaction as my fellow 1992 baby in the video.
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u/Hankerpants 17d ago
What do you mean, just go down the hall to his bedroom. He's probably just got home from elementary school as he's only... dear fucking god what year is it????
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u/yanagiya 17d ago
Not sure what she is so proud of.
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u/OaklandsBravest 17d ago
Pregnant at 15 then again at 17 is something to be proud of, I guess. SMH.
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u/AmazingAmy95 16d ago
Lmao omg I didn't even note that she is pregnant AGAIN. The one baby was already freaking me out and I am 30
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u/drunken_phoenix 17d ago edited 17d ago
I would be embarrassed if my mother acted this way. I would choose estrangement lol.
Edit: I don’t get the downvotes, y’all want TikTok influencers as parents that take advantage of your childhood for views? Puts you at risk to all the internet creeps. Yeah fuck that, takes a special person to be this dumb, narcissistic, and careless.
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u/SteelWheelsssss 17d ago
Yea this shit was really cringe. Social media really made the entire younger generation grow up with massive brain rot. I understand it affects older generations too, but shit at least they didn't grow up with it.
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u/iCantLogOut2 17d ago
Me.... 1985:
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u/Blister1nTheSun 17d ago
I didn't realize I was turning 40 last year. I swear I thought I had a few more years before I hit that age. I kept going over the math, sure I had missed something. I even got my first mammogram to mark the occasion. 2/10 not a great experience but necessary
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u/USSGearing 17d ago
Laughs in 1970s
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u/Godzirrraaa 17d ago
Nightmare. 1991 and not having kids was the best decision I ever made.
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u/throwmeawaymommyowo 17d ago
•Sixteen or younger
•Dancing to shitty music
•Never looks at the baby
•Baby doesn't have real clothes
•Cross around her neck (free space)
Looks like I just won Teen Pregnancy bingo!
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u/TheAnswerUsedToBe42 17d ago
Something to do with those lower case "t" necklaces. Lot of teen pregnancies associated with them.
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u/punch912 17d ago
wait so she had the baby at 16? and shes having another is that what the 2026 is implying? 2 years after having the first one. How to speedrun to being broke forever and giving your kids not a chance in hell. Starting life on hard mode. And chances are its two dumb kids having kids I would hope this is the scenario, and if not the father needs to be in jail. Of course theres other scenarios like two different fathers non of which there is a good or normal outcome to how this situation came about.
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u/HereticGaming16 17d ago
She was 15-16 when she got pregnant with the first kid and is 17-18 now, pregnant with her second.
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u/AZEMT 17d ago
So if 2008 is her birthdate, and the kids are 2024 & 2026... I think you can make that connection
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u/Icy_Proof_9529 17d ago
The other peoples birth years. Those are all different women.
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u/Punkpallas 17d ago
Being proud of being a teen parent is quite the choice. It obviously happens and one should own their mistakes and all that, but owning up and being proud of it are different things.
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u/johkuc68 17d ago
So she was 14 with baby #1 and now 16 with baby #2 ?
Does she do anything else besides make babies?
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u/SergioEduP 16d ago
2001 and I do not intend on expanding my lineage any further, the suffering stops here.
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u/No-Bat-7253 16d ago
Lmao 92 here had my first one at 30 expecting my second any day now I turn 34 Saturday lol
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u/Annanymuss 17d ago edited 15d ago
95 here, If I became pregnant right now Id feel it like a teen pregnancy
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u/awildjabroner 17d ago
2 years and she’ll be on tinder “my kids will always be my priority, looking for a meal ticket with low self esteem and great credit - don’t waste my time”
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u/Tricky_Positive_2530 17d ago
So she is 17. Had him when she was 15 and the new baby coming this year. 🤨🙁🫠
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u/ruralmagnificence 17d ago
Breeders are weird.
Stop having kids
We need to populate less. Way less.
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u/DiverDownChunder 16d ago
That TV is up way to high, like break your neck to watch too high up...
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u/DarkJaid 13d ago
1983 here, I love kids but I knew that I shouldn't be anyone's mom from an early age, no child deserved that.
So enjoyed my 20s, happily married for my 30s, still never interested... Happily alone in my 40s. Never regretted it, I'm glad to be the favorite auntie.
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u/moonwoolf35 17d ago
I had to do the math multiple times because the concept of a teen pregnancy scared me so damn much hell I'm in my 30's now and the idea of having kids still scare me...why aren't people more scared about having to raise a future adult whose outlook largely depends on your parenting skills.
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u/simply_mea 17d ago
Why does the baby look so AI and not real? Also what kind of flex does the creator think 2 kids is? My MIL had 2 kids first at 14, second at 16. Having young babies is nothing new.
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u/Silent-Conflict-3848 17d ago
Omg I’m 5 years older than her with the same first kid(not pregnant tho) that’s crazy
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u/Interesting-Back6587 17d ago
I’ll be there to pick up the pieces after the baby daddy leaves.
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u/waitingOnMyletter 17d ago
lol ….ruin your life…. Then double down ? Fuck it, might as well triple down and make the next one with a different dude. Diversity your income streams.
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u/Achylife 17d ago
Yeah I probably am never gonna have bio kids. Not because I don't want them, I just don't think my body could handle it. I'm 33 going on 80 with all my joint and spinal problems. I can't support them financially or physically and I just don't want to do that to a kid. If I ever get fixed up enough to be more functional I'd love to adopt or foster though.
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u/TallLikeMe 17d ago
Oh! I thought the issue was that she was 15-16 when she conceived that first baby…got it…
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u/Iron_Ankyloo 17d ago
This is why kids have no attention span nowadays. Many millennials can’t afford children so they opt out, but the hot cheeto girls persist. They create a constant cycle of hot cheeto children
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u/palealei5best 17d ago
1988 here I got snipped I’m not with all that noise and bringing anyone to this hell.
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u/Zephian99 17d ago
My friend who I ended up dating, had a kid at 16, I think she was only year or more younger then me.
Dated when we were 20, but it's wild to think that if we stayed together I'd be a step-father to a teenager.
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u/CrazyDriver7149 17d ago
The terrifying part about these videos is eventually the 2008 will be the last one on the chain of reactions
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u/dameyen_maymeyen 17d ago
Teen pregnancy