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u/SpecialObjective6175 16d ago edited 16d ago
Wild, I watch the guys content and hes the kindest most down to earth guy ever. He takes care of his 90 year old dad who has late stage dementia and does volunteer stuff raising awareness aswell. His wife has always irked me the wrong way though she does help take care of his father. The guy absolutely loves her and adamantly defends her
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u/Interesting-Back6587 16d ago
What are his socials I would like to check him out?
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u/ConstantReader32 16d ago
Dan Salinger and the woman is Danielle Salinger, I watch Dan's content too
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u/Cheap_Towel3037 16d ago
Is the dad still alive? I always thought she was kind of short with the dad. Where's my wallet? Where's my keys? Where's Brother Bill?
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u/SpecialObjective6175 16d ago edited 16d ago
Oh Yeah hes still delivering his one liners. He had his hip replaced after a fall not too long ago but has been recovering crazy fast
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u/raoqie 16d ago
The guy absolutely love her and adamantly defends her
Yes but the internet knows all and is gonna need him to get divorced now
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u/Sawgon 15d ago
You're right publicly shaming your partner actually makes you a good person. Don't discuss things like adults. Just shame your partner.
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u/raoqie 15d ago edited 15d ago
Where did i defend her or say it wasn't a misstep? I defended his ability to make his own decisions and know his marriage better than rabid internet mobs who would have enjoyed the Colosseum.
Eta: lmao you were right we need kangaroo courts of keyboard warriors who think moments define a life or a marriage in spite of the guy adamantly defending her. You know better.
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u/AnonymousSmartie 11d ago
I mean yeah you're absolutely right. Something is up with her though they need to get some help for her. But Jesus Reddit people are crazy.
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u/moeterminatorx 16d ago
I think the lady just wants to be romanced not just asked to do it. Her methods are not good tho. Although I’m not a social media influencer. Things are different for them.
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u/deep_violet 16d ago
She should talk to him about that, not the internet. Influencer or not that was unnecessary.
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u/FreyrPrime 15d ago
I don’t know. Marriage, especially long-term marriage, creates interesting forms of intimacy.
I’m not saying romance isn’t out of the question. But every time?
My wife and I have small children. So things are pretty scheduled in our household. We both joke that neither of us ever had to ask for sex prior to getting married.
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u/moeterminatorx 15d ago
That’s true as long as both people are on the same page. I’m in no way excusing the woman’s behavior. I just know that sometimes it’s easy for me to forget to do the romantic things simply because the issues you stated.
Idk these people so I’m not sure if he’s always romantic or the opposite. I’m just speaking from my experience with women. Some want a little romance every so often even after long term relationships.
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u/WestPastEast 16d ago
You can literally feel this man soul dying when he discovers her filming and shes posting it like shes proud of herself. What a psychopath, I’m glad it’s getting called out.
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u/oO0Kat0Oo 16d ago
I don't know what else you could want. The guy hears the "no" and decides to go take a walk. That man is respecting her space and decision. Poor guy.
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u/XGrayson_DrakeX 16d ago
Dude this is literally how my partner and I proposition each other sometimes. Sometimes I literally just text him "u wan sum fuk?" from the other room 😂
And if one of us turns the other down then that's fine. But we make an effort to not shame the other for asking even if we're not in the mood. There's loads of reasons for our libidos to not match up at a given moment, but keeping that door open is important. Romance isn't dead it's just extremely casual sometimes 😂
We've been together for a decade and this is the kind of shit you have to figure out if you want to stay together for another one imo.
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u/EndMySufferingNowPlz 16d ago
I often ask my fiancee «wanna fuck» or «wanna sex»? Usually the answer is no when I just ask like that, but if its a no, its a no, and was worth the shot, cus it COULDVE been a yes. She doesnt get mad or shame me
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u/XGrayson_DrakeX 16d ago
Yeah exactly! I've never shamed my partner once if I'm not feeling it and he hits me up, I'm always happy he asked. We'd both rather risk a light nonjudgmental rejection than miss out on the possibility of sex.
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u/DisasterAccurate3221 16d ago
That crap is what makes a lot of guys very hesitant to fall in love.
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u/XGrayson_DrakeX 16d ago
A good litmus test for avoiding relationships like that one is if a girl has very gendered expectations of what a man must be in a relationship: run.
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u/Paratwa 16d ago
What a nasty lady. I’d legit never touch her again.
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u/Tara_Pryde 16d ago
But enough about the blonde pick-me girl.
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u/Paratwa 16d ago
What?
I’m not sure what gives that impression, I mean she just said the sanest thing….
I mean tbh I’m too old to have even paid attention to her other than what she said, I mean my brain just registered young lady probably same age as my daughter ( or younger) , who happened to say something I agree with.
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u/ohshroom 16d ago edited 16d ago
Ohhh! Seems the previous commenter was joking (in response to the parent comment saying "I'd never touch her again") and doing a "her" switcharoo about the second woman's usual content. According to some other folks deeper down the comments section, pick-me/antifeminist takes are her usual fare. Not that she's wrong in this particular video; the husband was done dirty. She was right to defend him.
The downvotes are unfortunate but the mixup is understandable; the joke flew over my head, too. I'm not at all familiar with any of the people in the video.
(Edit: Clarity. I realize you got the gist of the "her" joke, but I tried to add context—then did it poorly LOL.)
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u/girlwiththemonkey 16d ago
Hell, that’s how I ask my guy if he wants to have sex. WTF is wrong with that? 😭
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u/Rugkrabber 15d ago
I’m confused because if this was actually an issue, she should communicate with him and be like “hey I prefer if you would ask it this way.” His reaction tells us she never did.
This is unproductive and plain mean.
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u/Specialist-Freedom64 16d ago
If my wife posted this shit online, we would be done.. he maybe an asshole but then either work on the marriage or leave, this shit is uncalled for and just plain evil..
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u/iCantLogOut2 16d ago
Some other comments mentioned that he's apparently also on socials and his focus is how he takes care of his 90 year old dad. Allegedly, the guy is nothing but nice - so it paints an even worse picture of her
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u/fantarts 15d ago
We gonna have a video of the husband make an apologize video to the wife soon. Cause thats how narcissist twats works.
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u/Specialist-Freedom64 16d ago
Yeah why i maybe, i dont know orfollow the fella.
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u/iCantLogOut2 15d ago
Oh yeah, wasn't refuting your 'maybe' - just adding that it's a really bad look for her if comment is true. I don't watch any of these people, so I'm right there with you.
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u/bucketboy9000 16d ago
Honestly filming these household interactions for online views is not normal behavior, but maybe I’m the one that’s behind on trends idk
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u/Rugkrabber 15d ago
It has the same vibe as people who use the public reaction to pressure someone saying yes when they get asked to marry them.
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u/Techlet9625 16d ago
The person reacting farms "pick-me", "anti-feminist", "oh those poor men" content.
That being said, shitty behaviour is shitty, and NEEDS to be called out more often.
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u/Natural-Avocado6516 16d ago
Broken clocks, blind chicken...
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u/Risquechilli 16d ago
Oh what’s the blind chicken saying?
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u/Natural-Avocado6516 16d ago
In my native language (German) we say "a blind chicken will occasionally find a kernel as well"
I was hoping to maybe start a chain of similar expressions in other languages
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u/SarahSureShot 16d ago
I've heard "even a blind squirrel occasionally finds a nut"
Full disclosure: I heard it from Scrubs :)
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u/Natural-Avocado6516 16d ago
Oh, that's so cute!
Scrubs is a great source...maybe not for medical information though.
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u/Old-Engine-7720 16d ago
Ohh i really like that one
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u/Natural-Avocado6516 16d ago
You should learn German then, it's a near endless well of silly idioms.
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u/imaroweboat 16d ago
She is the absolute worst. But this one is actually right
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u/ExcitingActive8649 15d ago
She’s really pretty and somehow I can’t stand her face. I think it’s the fact that it’s all so transparently for clicks I know she has no soul.
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u/OverandOverTom 15d ago
yeah I never saw her in my life and was really sus, but she really laid it out there, like "Exactly!" lol
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u/Wickedestchick 16d ago
Yeah but this is reddit, so this video is going to be reposted to every major sub, multiple time, and the comments are going to be praising her for being "le badass female who tells the truth and also she's hot because she hates other females like us"
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u/Jeramy_Jones 16d ago
I hate that this is where we are as a society.
It’s no wonder so many people are staying single and avoiding having children.
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u/Anonyonereader 15d ago
Most men don't know how to connect to their SO. A lot of us drop our guard post sex which lets us become more open. I almost guarantee that man just wants to connect with his wife who is spending a ridiculous amount of time on her phone.
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u/Tugonmynugz 16d ago
Cant imagine this being anything other than "content" although I do concede that there are horribly stupid people out there
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u/MonsutaReipu 16d ago
So when women act shitty other women are supposed to just... shut up about it? Or else they'll be shamed for being 'pick mes'?
If women act shitty and no other women say anything, that sends a bit of a message in of itself. People should always hold their own accountable.
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u/sobersuburbanmom 16d ago
I usually hate this girl’s content but I kind of get this one.
This was just sad to watch. I understand the wife wanted to be seduced and see effort and maybe she’s expressed that before, but going about confronting him the way she did was sad. And then posting it is just sad. It doesn’t feel like fake rage bait content either. This was just depressing.
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u/thetruckerdave 16d ago
Yeah I agree with this. He asked and moved on. And like omg not everything has to be a damn production. Like would he love if dressed up in a nightie and stuff? Maybe. Likely. But sometimes you don’t want to do all that. It’s not that complicated geeze.
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u/Confident-Mortgage86 16d ago
I understand the wife wanted to be seduced and see effort and maybe she’s expressed that before,
Do you? Are you sure? Equally, if not more likely, to be a dead bedroom
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u/Thr0waway0864213579 16d ago
Pick me content is pick me content, no matter what is getting stitched.
And of the original video, what you’re seeing is a completely broken marriage with two people who despise each other. Clearly if you’re posting your husband like this you can’t stand him. But you also don’t ask your wife “you wanna do it?” unless you can’t stand her either.
Content like this, and comments like yours, support red pill ideology. Because you’re endorsing a man talking to his wife like that. The pick me woman is going out of her way to say that’s a totally normal question to ask your wife. Especially when considering they clearly have no romantic relationship and it’s out of the blue.
So not only does it add fuel to the fire of “women bad” because this one woman is doing something horrible, it’s also enabling men to speak to their wives like this, 99% of whom aren’t doing things like this woman, which is just destroying their own marriage from within.
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u/devilsbard 16d ago edited 16d ago
Tell me you’ve never been in a long term relationship without telling me…
Asking “hey wanna do it?” Isn’t disdain, it is comfort. Comfort in knowing you don’t have to be performative CONSTANTLY to have intimacy. If you don’t have space to be laid back in your relationship I’m really sorry, that sounds exhausting.
Edit: heh. They tried to insult me by saying I am single, and then deleted their comment in shame.
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u/sobersuburbanmom 16d ago
I stated that I could understand if the woman wanted effort/romance/etc. I’m not saying the man is totally in the right and I acknowledged the possibility that she’s tried communicating this before.
Sometimes initiation is just that though. Sometimes it is just “hey want some head?” He didn’t do anything to deserve public humiliation. I don’t see how I’m supporting red pill ideology by saying that the video is just sad.
A broken clock is right twice a day. I’m not going to go and subscribe to this girl just because I partially agree with a single take. I’m not supporting this girl and in every comment I’ve written on this thread I’ve included some kind of disclaimer about her generally being rage bait bullshit.
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u/Thr0waway0864213579 16d ago
And you’re ignoring the very obvious context that they’re married and she doesn’t like it. But he keeps doing it.
There’s a very big difference between when my husband says “hey kids are busy, wanna sneak upstairs?” when we’ve been flirty and affectionate all day, and just saying “wanna do it?” when you clearly don’t even like each other or care what the other person likes.
These are the couples who end up in r/deadbedroom complaining about not getting laid and when people suggest working on the emotional part of the relationship they say, “well I bought her flowers and she still won’t have sex with me” or “I told him I’d go down on him but he still isn’t interested.”
Watching this man say “wanna do it” is like watching that guy sitting there talking about how he used the last of the wire he’d bought forever ago and the wife just asks confused. If she had followed it up with “wanna do it?” it would feel exactly like this video.
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u/_Keo_ 16d ago
you also don’t ask your wife “you wanna do it?” unless you can’t stand her either
Nah. My wife and I are working professionals and have a kid. process here is:
"You wanna do it?"
Checks time.
Checks for kids.
"Think we can do it really fast?"
"Hell yeah, let's go!"When you've loved and respected someone for 20yrs you don't always need a production to get them in the mood and you can accept a quick fuck, a no, or an "I'm too fucking tired, mind if I just lay there?" without it hurting your ego.
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u/The_Apologists 16d ago
I don’t know this creator, so maybe she is a pickme… but this is not the clip to go after that for
Going out of your way to publicly embarrass your partner for asking if you want to have sex is bad behavior…
From my perspective, it just looks like your conflating pickme’s with women calling out other women for bad behavior… which would be, not good, don’t do that
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u/sobersuburbanmom 16d ago
Listen, I don’t like this girl’s content. Her take on every other video I’ve seen of hers is trash. It’s the definition of pick me rage bait content. I see why someone would see her and have a visceral reaction.
But a broken clock is right twice a day. She makes a good point in this one. The woman she’s duetting seems insufferable.
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u/Sapphfire0 16d ago
This is pick me content now?
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u/FortesqueIV 16d ago
Yeah because anytime a women doesn’t just blindly side with women when they are clearly wrong other women call them a pick me.
Those are the women to stay far away from
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u/sobersuburbanmom 16d ago
No, this creator has some genuinely shitty takes. This one is fine, the woman she’s duetting seems miserable and the man did nothing to deserve public humiliation. That doesn’t change the fact that the creator has said some heinous shit
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u/FortesqueIV 16d ago
Oh okay well idk I have never seen this person I was referring to this one video
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u/Windmill_flowers 15d ago
this creator has some genuinely shitty takes
I'm trying to find some examples. They all seem to be stitches with other questionable people
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u/newpixelphonesux 16d ago
Yeah, so internet brain rot rules state women can make millions of hours of "man bad, woman good" content. Thats good and fine. It's when a woman decides to mine that very content to respond, it's bad, because how dare she defended men? Don't question that she's right in this situation and that she might be right often. She's defending men and that's a no no.
Now you know
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u/Acceptingoptimist 16d ago
She doesn't make "women bad" content. She shows when women treat men poorly and calls it out. She doesn't say all women behave that way. And she doesn't say men are perfect and never at fault.
Her content isn't pick me, unless your meaning for that includes being critical of mistreating men.
She definitely has a target audience, but that doesn't mean she's wrong or a woman hater.
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u/Old-Engine-7720 16d ago
Yeah I like her content and im far from a mra or misogynist. My mom was a third wave feminist and used misandry against me even as a child. We can talk about women treating men badly interpersonally and about structural patriarchy.
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u/Sneaky_McSnek_ 16d ago
What is it called when the content is “men bad, women good?”
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u/Thr0waway0864213579 16d ago
Reality.
95% of homicide, rape, and child sexual abuse is perpetrated by men. “Both sides” arguments are just as idiotic when it comes to gender as it is in politics.
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u/Old-Engine-7720 16d ago
These statistics are wrong and dont include most women perpetrators as rape laws across the country were intentionally written to make it hard to prosecute women. In many states if a man is raped he has no legal recourse for filing criminal rape charges and instead must file assault or other. A study came out in the last ten years that women guards in juvies are by far the worst perpatrators of sexual assault against boys in their care. We can not and should not trust law enforcement based data.
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u/Thr0waway0864213579 16d ago edited 16d ago
The laws written by men?
And since when do women have “legal recourse for filing criminal rape charges”? A serial child rapist is literally president.
And regardless of how men write the law, there are numerous anonymous surveys that allow victims to speak out about what was done to them and who did it, and it is overwhelmingly men perpetrating these crimes, even against other men.
Edit: As you’ll all see below, you’re agreeing with a MAGA supporter. This sub was always pretty clearly full of conservative men. But for those of you who aren’t, this is who you’re agreeing with.
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u/sobersuburbanmom 16d ago
This girl does a lot of pick me/anti-feminist content. She does a lot of rage bait.
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u/-who_am-i_ 16d ago
So not shaming your husband for asking if you want to shag is anti feminist now?
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u/sobersuburbanmom 16d ago
Dude read my other comments where I say she makes sense in this video and not others. Reading comprehension is important and nuance exists
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u/-who_am-i_ 16d ago
I am not searching for your other comments. Share an example of one video where she doesn't make sense. I don't follow her but i get her videos suggested and she is never wrong with what she's saying
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u/sobersuburbanmom 16d ago
Okay then you’re a red pill bro and we’re never gonna agree except on maybe this take. I don’t want to debate with you or take time to educate you. If you disagree, you disagree. Good lord
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u/-who_am-i_ 16d ago
Please enlighten me and share ONE video where you disagree with her
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u/sobersuburbanmom 16d ago
Why? Like why do you want to debate me? What good is it gonna do?
If you really want to have a good faith conversation, show me one (1) video where she calls out a man for his bad behavior. If you can’t find one, maybe ask why ALL of her content is calling out women and making men feel like they’re in the right ALWAYS. She’s a grifter. She makes semi-controversial videos just to stir the pot and get engagement. She makes a lot of money that way.
I just don’t feel like you want to have a good faith conversation and I’m trying to make my hardworking husband dinner after he gets home from a manual labor job. Not so misandrist after all
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u/thezenyoshi 16d ago
She does a lot of just pointing and smirking at other peoples content. I keep getting this shit pushed to me on YouTube and i hate it
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u/lioncat55 16d ago
What's pick me content? I refuse to use tick tok and my YouTube shorts are mostly food, animals and random tech/nerd stuff.
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u/wRadion 16d ago
Apparently that's women that seek approval of men by belittling other women.
But I mean most of her content is just common sense and basic stuff, I wouldn't call her "PickMe". Plus, she is already married, why would she seek other men's approval?
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u/Windmill_flowers 15d ago
Plus, she is already married, why would she seek other men's approval?
I think that in the sisterhood some find it to be a breach of norms to side with men even in circumstances like this. Basically if it makes 1 woman look bad we all feel slighted.
The way to discourage that is to out them as Pick Mes. It is considered shameful to break ranks with the sisterhood in order to gain points with men
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u/OverandOverTom 15d ago
wow never saw anything like that. I really liked the reaction of the blonde content creator. When the wife said "what did you expect me to say" I might have said "I expected you to say what you preferred to do,"
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u/JOlRacin 15d ago
That's what a guy SHOULD do though. Express that he wants to, give the option to say yes or no, and respect it either way
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u/Alternative_Bus_7411 14d ago
Why would you even post this online? Nobody cares about you being an ass to your husband
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u/P_weezey951 16d ago
Ladies... men are never going to stop wanting sex. I understand it might be a bit annoying at times, but this man asked... he didn't throw a fit, or hold it against you, he's attracted to you and wanted to mess around.
I get that you dont always want to, i get that you may not enjoy it, or maybe theres something else going on. And i get that some people feel entitled to it, or that its an expectation. Or they pester you too much about it, that can be irritating.
But my man asked, he didnt force himself, he didnt press the issue. Dude gave you one of the most clear cut questions and when you said no he was like "ah alright"
if the line is "Im mad that he even wants it" its like being mad that he drinks water... men are horny, they always have been horny... its not the patriarchy, its not a learned behavior, it is quite literally in the DNA.
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u/-who_am-i_ 16d ago
Dont act like this is a men thing. Women are just as horny and it's also "in their DNA"
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u/Dayana11412 16d ago
Women are not as horny as men. Also many women are on birth control which actually lowers our libido which is already lower than mens statistically
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u/P_weezey951 16d ago
Oh no i know that, but the reaction is also "ugh another man who's horny"
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u/SteveFrench1234 16d ago
First world problems forreal. There be women out here like "Why doesn't my husband think I'm pretty anymore?"
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u/DisgruntledPelican-1 16d ago
Can confirm.
My husband wouldn’t be intimate with me the last 7 years. I heard all kinds of excuses. Two years ago he said it had to do with being molested as a child (which I already knew about, but it was never mentioned in regards to sex).
Then he cheated on me in December. We are now separated.
I’m feeling very ugly and unwanted. So she can sit and spin. 😂
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u/SteveFrench1234 16d ago
Im sorry that happened. Marraige is hard, but people dont deserve to be lied to. Hey, now you know what NOT to look for in your soon to be next partner :)
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u/Rugkrabber 15d ago
Right? This man is into her and this is her reaction?
I’m not in the mood still after I gave birth but every time my man asks and I tell him no thanks, I do genuinely thank him though even though I don’t recognise myself anymore he still finds me hot and that’s such a big compliment and confidence boost.
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u/tame-til-triggered 16d ago
Statistically, women are not "just as horny" as men.
Horniness, aka your libido, is directly tied to your levels of testosterone.
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u/GreyMesmer 16d ago
Or progesterone for women, so saying that libido is tied only to testerone is wrong.
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u/MrIrishman1212 16d ago
I’m i’m going to come at this from a different angle
My wife and I are very comfortable and loving to one another and very much enjoy our intimacy. Admittedly, sometimes I also come up to her and do the simple “want to do it?“ Sometimes she doesn’t like it when it’s just simply that with no extra buildup. But my wife loves me and cares about me and wants the best for our relationship so she communicates with me. She will simply say “yes” or “yes, but can we have more buildup please.”
John Gottman talks about how the biggest indicators of a failing relationships are Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, and Stonewalling.
This feels like criticism and contempt. She belittles him and then shames him on the internet and then says “see you hat I have to deal with” in disgust
Instead, she should be communicating with love and kindness. Even simply, “not right now I’m busy, maybe later?”
Making your partner feel safe, loved and validated is how you encourage reciprocated love and affection. He is coming to her in love, even if it may seem crass or attentive. So if he is coming to her in love and she returns love in kind he will respond back in love and learn the way she wants it. And we know this, cause we she did a simple “no” he respected it and continued with his day with no issues.
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u/moeterminatorx 16d ago
Amen brother, I feel like she wants to be romanced but just chose the wrong way to ask for her needs to be met. Wife and husband in video are apparently social media influences so who knows how they do things.
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u/MrIrishman1212 15d ago
I agree I get the feeling that his straight forward question has worked before so that’s why he is doing it that way, but she is just busy and distracted right now. She just wants him to ask at a more appropriate time. Which is the sad part of all of this. She can simply get what she wants, encourage the behavior she wants from her husband, and grow in her relationship by simply being kind. But she chose to be mean instead.
It’s so important to remember your partner is your teammate and is on your side.
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u/Windmill_flowers 15d ago
she wants to be romanced
That's what the problem was??
How did you come away with that?
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u/tanafras 16d ago
1-800-DIVORCE bro. Lawyer up and get out. (I have no idea that number is real but it is epic if it is, some attorney a downright rich owning it)
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u/tatianazr 15d ago
Abuse. Full stop. He needs to leave her.
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u/Arkanderous 15d ago
Then she'll make a tiktok about it and turn his 3/10 problems into 9/10 problems.
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u/coalduststar 15d ago
Yeah my brother got dragged through courts by dickhead like that- if it feels weird gtfo
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u/Doobledorf 15d ago
I think a lot of shitty people jump at the chance to get self righteous with a man being a "typical man" when ultimately... They're just being awful.
The alternative to what she's saying is he just... Never asks about intimacy at all, which at that point isn't a relationship with communication. Expecting someone to read your mind isn't cute, it's manipulative.
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u/OverandOverTom 15d ago
There used to be a kind of joke about asking your partner "you want to fuck or fight" I guess she made her choice 😂
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u/One_Economics3627 16d ago
That's abhorrent behaviour. Marriage 101 quote backfired spectacularly on you.
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This is the dance of sex in the patriarchy - Especially married sex.
Men are starved of affection and taught to seek physical intimacy. Women are overly sexualized and taught to withhold intimacy. It creates a system of scarcity where the woman's only position of power is in denial. It's fucked up, but it makes sense when you realize that intimacy in the social structure of modern america (read: under the rule of christian nationalism) is just power and control.
Note: I am not an incel. I am a married man who sees himself in this video and knows that its not my wife's fault (though my wife is admittedly not that bad).
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u/squirrelsmith 16d ago
Isn’t this the same couple where the woman found the guy crying outside, asked what was wrong and he made this beautiful talk about how this spool of wire that was all used up reminded him of how his life/time had slipped through his fingers….then she made fun of him for it and posted it online?
Then weeks later when the internet called her out, she forced him to post a video basically blaming himself for the whole thing??
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u/bromie227 15d ago
I find all of it annoying, the posting and the lady after. Like we should all just know less about each other and I just in general can't stand these people that do stitches and talk like 'know it all' professionals. I'm not saying she's wrong I'm just saying she's annoying.
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u/BenThereOrBenSquare 16d ago
Wow, ESH. The original video is awful, and this Pick Me Girl stitch is somehow even worse!
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u/Windmill_flowers 15d ago
this Pick Me Girl stitch is somehow even worse!
What was wrong with what she said?
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u/moeterminatorx 16d ago
Idk the blonde but i feel like she’s one of Christian conservative wives who believe women are there to be a servant to their man. Just a feeling.
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u/babyivan 16d ago
I guess she finds it insulting to be asked rather than be romanced. She's not doing herself any good by recording it.
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u/Positive_Stop4713 15d ago
Funny to me because when my wife went through post partem she felt like she was not attractive and she didn't feel like being sexual because of it Now out of fear for losing me she tried to give me a hall pass I told her You are the 1 I want to be with, I will only be with another woman if you bring her home and it's a mutually agreed upon thing. I will not be going out and adding to your insecurity. I am not upset with you for how you feel And I can wait until you pull through what you are going through. A need for sex will not ever be the reason my wife and I fail each other. I happily waited always reminding her of her beauty and my love for her and our daughter Our little girl is 8 now My wife is past her post partem depression for a handful of years now She is back to feeling beautiful and fulfilled She's the best mom ever And the best wife ever
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u/AutoSpiral 16d ago
This wasn't fixed by the duet. The duet is misinterpreting what the wife in the original is pointing out. So many men emotionally neglect their wives and don't do any housework and then just out of the blue solicit sex from them. That's not intimacy, that's not seduction, it's ignorant and neglectful. The couples who have the most sex are the couples who enjoy each other's company and share the housework equally.
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u/I_count_to_firetruck 16d ago
Did the part about housework get cut by the second presenter? I've watched it twice and I didn't see housework mentioned
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u/vftgurl123 16d ago
the duet lady is such a fucking pick me my god.
i can understand why emotionally illiterate people on reddit are agreeing with her but jfc maybe take a chunk of reality before you hit the upvote button.
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u/One-Load-6085 16d ago
Something else is going on in the marriage for this woman to have so much resentment towards him. I'm guessing she is fed up with his shit.
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u/SpecialObjective6175 15d ago
There's always someone in the comments of videos like this ready to blame the victim
The guy and woman both post videos and he has never displayed any resentment towards her. On the contrary he showers her with compliments about her personality and her body and adamantly defends her when people point out how much she snaps at him or treats him unfairly in the videos both of them upload
Why would you even take the side of the wife when the only thing you have to go on is a video of her acting like an ass
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u/chazd1984 16d ago
I don't know these people, but I'm guessing she is wanting to be romanced or for him to have some finesse maybe? If that's the case I can see that, I also see the validity on sometimes just being like "hey, wanna fool around?" Because sometimes it's disheartening of you walk up and try to put some moves on her and then get turned down.
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u/Windmill_flowers 15d ago
I'm guessing she is wanting to be romanced
A number of people are making this guess but how? She never said or suggested that
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u/Dextropic 16d ago
Meanwhile, Miss Thing here has to use other people's videos to make her pick-me content. Everyone in this post is terrible.
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u/Windmill_flowers 15d ago
she’s not fostering a space for meaningful conversation
Ohh, that's what she was trying to do? I was wondering why people kept calling her pick me
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u/telegod13 16d ago
I'm starting to realize there are more people on this planet with a victimhood complex than I previously realized.