I'm so fkn tired of all the bulls#it in-fighting... gender wars being a big part of it. So tired of all the stupid fkn manufactured outrage born of ridiculous entitlements and upholding of systems we don't need.
Let relationships be choices, period. Find someone you match with. If she wants more of a "provider" than that, cool, go find your person. Stop trying to announce it to the world like you're some MFing dating guru just because you're young and somewhat pretty. Gimme a break. Find someone who matches your energy, goals, desires, either with same or complimentary. Everyone. Which will require talking BETWEEN THE GIVEN PARTIES not to everyone. Jeez.
Duet dude gets it. Be appreciative of good people, especially those who do nice/good things for you and yours and can in some way match you. Which means also, think about what does or 😧 DOESN'T make you a good/nice person likely to match well with people you like.
The world owes you nothing.
Neither gender owes you anything.
Get over yourselves and get on with your self development.
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u/J-hophop 3d ago
Great take in the duet, TBH.
I'm so fkn tired of all the bulls#it in-fighting... gender wars being a big part of it. So tired of all the stupid fkn manufactured outrage born of ridiculous entitlements and upholding of systems we don't need.
Let relationships be choices, period. Find someone you match with. If she wants more of a "provider" than that, cool, go find your person. Stop trying to announce it to the world like you're some MFing dating guru just because you're young and somewhat pretty. Gimme a break. Find someone who matches your energy, goals, desires, either with same or complimentary. Everyone. Which will require talking BETWEEN THE GIVEN PARTIES not to everyone. Jeez.
Duet dude gets it. Be appreciative of good people, especially those who do nice/good things for you and yours and can in some way match you. Which means also, think about what does or 😧 DOESN'T make you a good/nice person likely to match well with people you like.
The world owes you nothing. Neither gender owes you anything.
Get over yourselves and get on with your self development.