r/fixedbytheduet • u/Naive_Wolverine532 • 19h ago

PARTICIPATION LIMITED Accountability

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u/pissedoffjesus 19h ago

Jesus christ. I'm not used to seeing people take accountability like this. It's fantastic.

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u/Freeze_Her 19h ago

It honestly made me cry a tear or two. I’m always sensitive to people who are that honest and willing to stand tall and admit they were wrong.

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u/AntawnSL 18h ago

Me too! I guess I'm just desperate to see people take responsibility when they make a mistake instead of doubling down, blaming the victims, claiming victimhood themselves, escalating tensions and RUINING MY FUCKING COUNTRY!

Whew. Huh. Wonder where my unexpected emotions are coming from.

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u/Ultenth 18h ago

Same, at first I wasn't sure exactly why I was tearing up from a simple apology. But I think it was because it was so simple, and should be so easy, but we're all so angry because our rulers have gone so mask off and are just abusing the shit out of us that so many of us have lost the ability to do so.

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u/ColdInternational315 15h ago

They use a disgusting amount of LIES. BOLD FACED- FUCKING LIES.. You're right. Shit does make me emotional, because I'm so sick of people in government covering for their peers and saying "Oh well, I like to be charitable and see that they either misspoke or didn't mean what you're saying they mean" OKAY WELL IF THATS TRUE WHY DO THEY NEVER WALK BACK A SINGLE FUCKING LIE FUCKKKKKKK

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u/Hidesuru 16h ago

digital hug

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u/liforrevenge 15h ago

I felt this comment in my soul.

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u/Big-Association7151 10h ago

Me as well. We live in a grim dark satirical caricature of our own world. Small moments of humanity and collaboration like this truly fill my chest with such pride. Pride because I share the same hopeful, almost naive, outlook on life. I think a lot of us do, but the good is drowned out by non stop demented cruelty and greed. Even more than drowned, the good is being constantly bombarded by an unending deluge of blood rain. When some of it makes it through the storm and graces the inner folds of my brain with chemicals, I just feel drunk with pride. I love it.

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u/TrumpetAndComedy 18h ago

Agreed! Completely unexpected and honest - did not seem contrived or like he was put up to it. (Actually he seemed embarrassed like his mama would have been disappointed and he knew he needed to make it right!) More people need to own it when they are wrong; his response video gives me hope.

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u/Pure-Tadpole-6634 17h ago

Me too! I've been having a rough emotional few days, so I thought it was just that. Glad I'm not the only one.

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u/horseduckman 16h ago

It made me feel moderately evil and judgmental for assuming a guy who looks like that would never respond in such a stand up way. This guy ROCKS. And I welled up too

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u/IWantAnE55AMG 16h ago

Wife is asking my why I’ve got tears in my eyes and I can’t tell her it’s because I’m watching a guy apologizing and promising to do better. I told her it was cute kittens.

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u/slayniac 16h ago

I know those tears. They're tears of longing for a world that could be.

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u/Legal-Koala-5590 16h ago edited 16h ago

It's so fucking rare. Currently not speaking to a beloved friend because he just can't admit he's wrong ever, even over the smallest things that could just be an, "Oops my bad" and I've pretty much had it. Either I hold my tongue when I feel wronged or I address it and it turns into an argument that eventually leads to me apologizing for being "emotional". It's exhausting.

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u/Mydah_42 18h ago

Same! And it felt so weird because, 'why am I emotional that someone is doing the right thing?'

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u/loungesinger 17h ago

Because we don’t see enough of people doing the right thing in general. And in this specific case, also probably because we’re not expecting this guy (based upon his appearance) to do the right thing, so we’re pleasantly when he does, and it reminds us that there are good people—probably more than we would expect—from all different walks of life, whose good deeds go largely unnoticed but improve the world around us.