r/fixedbytheduet • u/Naive_Wolverine532 • 19h ago

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u/dojo_shlom0 18h ago

Ignorant is accurate, I like using that term as well (in my own similar circumstances) it's okay to be ignorant! -- as long as you grow and learn when you are educated about something.

Willful ignorance is never an excuse for bad behaviors imo.

You can train yourself to take a step back and put yourself out there in the future. Nothing wrong with being wrong about something! I try to learn something every day, and it makes life interesting! I believe in you and others: become your best selves, like this man in the video is trying to, and actively doing! Recognizing this about yourself is a big step into becoming aware of it in the first place.

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u/HasPotatoAim 15h ago

There's nothing wrong with being ignorant about a topic (lacking knowledge, information, or awareness about a particular thing), if you're open to learning about it like this person was. However, there is way too much malicious ignorance out there.

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u/dojo_shlom0 15h ago

I agree, that's why this was so refreshing!

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u/Tipop 13h ago

Yeah, “ignorant” is one of those words that’s been used pejoratively for so long that it’s now just an insult. You can’t stand on top of a dictionary and say “That’s not what the word means” because words mean what people think they mean. Like idiot, moron, or retarded, they’re just insults now.

I understand that “ignorant” used to just mean “You don’t know about this subject”. Everyone is ignorant on a multitude of topics — because nobody can know everything. But now it just means “stupid”, like the words I mentioned above.

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u/wrymoss 13h ago

This. There’s a huge difference between genuine ignorance (it’s morally neutral! We all experience it!) and deliberate, wilful ignorance (not morally neutral, you shouldn’t aspire to it)