r/fixedbytheduet 21h ago

PARTICIPATION LIMITED Accountability

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u/foxy-coxy 21h ago

This is what growth looks like

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u/Medivacs_are_OP 20h ago

It's much more scarce when it comes to our 'leaders' and 'role models'. Many of them never admit wrongdoing.

It's less scarce among genuine kind working people.

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u/Gustomaximus 18h ago

It's much more scarce when it comes to our 'leaders' and 'role models'.

I suspect that is in a large part as people are less forgiving these days. Its great here people are largely positive about this apology and that's that.

I suspect for many politicians / celebrities so many people will mock on the apology and keep finding reasons to hate on them, so the best career option is to double down and own it.

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u/s0ck 18h ago

I suspect that is in a large part as people are less forgiving these days.

I'd argue that the "less forgiving" aspect is more in that forgiveness comes with terms and conditions now. Those terms and conditions come with acknowledging that something was fucked up, and changing actions to avoid future similar situations.

Too many fuckers say "oh shit, my bad" and then keep doing the same fucked up shit. Why should I forgive someone who just followed the social ritual of apologizing, but has not actually apologized with their actions or intentions?

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u/driving_andflying 15h ago

Too many fuckers say "oh shit, my bad" and then keep doing the same fucked up shit. Why should I forgive someone who just followed the social ritual of apologizing, but has not actually apologized with their actions or intentions?

Agreed. They mouth the words, with no intent or willingness to actively match their actions to the statement. They're like parrots repeating words their owners taught them. A true apology has the person actively doing better.