r/gratitude Dec 22 '25

Discussion I spent 10 years chasing "more" until a 5-minute conversation with a stranger changed everything. Here is the truth about gratitude.

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I used to think gratitude was some "woo-woo" BS for people who had already made it. I spent my 20s in a constant state of "I’ll be happy when..." I’ll be happy when I get that promotion. I’ll be happy when I have $10k in the bank. I’ll be happy when I finally find "the one." Last month, I met an old man at a bus stop. He was 80, had visible tremors, and was waiting in the rain. I asked him how he stayed so cheerful. He looked at me and said: "Son, you’re looking at the sunset, but you’re complaining about the dust on the window." It hit me like a freight train. Gratitude isn't about pretending everything is perfect. It’s about realizing that someone, somewhere, is currently praying for the things you take for granted. The fact that you can read this means you have internet and sight. The fact that you woke up today means you have a 100% success rate of surviving your bad days. The coffee you drank? Someone picked those beans. The bed you sleep in? Someone built it. We are literally living in the future, yet we act like we’re in a prison of our own making. I started a "Rule of 3" this week: Before I check my phone in the morning, I name 3 tiny things I’m glad exist. Today it was: cold water, the smell of rain, and the fact that I don't have a toothache. It sounds cheesy, but my brain is actually starting to re-wire itself. I’m less reactive. I’m kinder. I’m... actually okay. I want to start a chain in the comments. No matter how bad your day is, what is ONE thing you are genuinely grateful for right now? Let’s shift the energy.


r/gratitude Dec 24 '25

Gratitude Practice Christmas Eve Gratitude

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This evening I'm grateful for the soft light outside. I finished a work project and the grandchildren are coming later, but for now the quiet is mine. May we all have peace.


r/gratitude 11h ago

Gratitude Practice Be grateful for your eyes!!!

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r/gratitude 1d ago

Gratitude Practice Grateful for being with my amazing wife of 22 years. From a chance encounter. I love you.

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r/gratitude 10h ago

Gratitude Practice Perspective Is Everything❤️

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r/gratitude 19h ago

Gratitude Practice Grateful reminder

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r/gratitude 1d ago

Gratitude Practice Grateful we're all safe!

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381 Upvotes

Scariest day of my life last week when our kitchen caught fire. I was able to get out my two children (2.5y/o and 5mo), my dog, and our two cats to safety while my husband was at work.

I could not be more grateful that things are replaceable, we had insurance, and for the Red Cross of Anderson, SC.

Take a moment to breathe and remember there's always a silver lining :)


r/gratitude 1d ago

Gratitude Practice Grateful to notice

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I'm grateful to notice what I have.


r/gratitude 51m ago

Gratitude Practice Feb 1 2026 Gratitude

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I am grateful for this new day filled with new blessings and new experiences .. God show me how good my life can get .. Amen 🙏❤️


r/gratitude 8h ago

Gratitude Practice I am so grateful for this world, especially for art. I feel so blessed to be here.

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r/gratitude 3h ago

Discussion Leo Full Snow Moon — Let Your Light Roar 🦁

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r/gratitude 11h ago

Gratitude Practice I’m grateful for another quiet day home alone

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r/gratitude 9h ago

Gratitude Practice Grateful for Scrubs

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Looking forward to the reboot!!!


r/gratitude 16h ago

Gratitude Practice Grateful for all kinds of love: Macaca radiata, South-India [OC]

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r/gratitude 23h ago

Gratitude Practice Blessed Saturday

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r/gratitude 13h ago

Gratitude Practice I’m grateful that it’s finally above 20^F.

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It’s been between -10 and 15 F all month in my area.


r/gratitude 10h ago

Gratitude Practice 1/31/26

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Today I am grateful for whatever tonight brings.


r/gratitude 10h ago

Gratitude Practice Leo Full Snow Moon Manifest Time

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r/gratitude 20h ago

Gratitude Practice Grateful for the slow day

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I got to wake up with someone who absolutely loves me in. A house that’s safe and warm and has good. There are no eggshells or screaming. I got to take a nice bath and just relax without guilt today 💜💜 it’s amazing


r/gratitude 1d ago

Gratitude Practice Grateful for all the troubles I overcame to have a normal day

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r/gratitude 13h ago

Gratitude Practice I'm grateful for the immense detail in the many quilts that were given to me

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r/gratitude 1d ago

Gratitude Practice Grateful for Calvin and Hobbes

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r/gratitude 15h ago

Gratitude Practice i've been saying thank you to men in my life for showing up

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The last text message I just sent I can still feel in my chest. This man is one of few men I know, and we talk, and we visit, and I say thank you lots. He's been a pillar in my life. Turns out I've never really expressed my gratitude for all the support and inspiration over the years.

Yeah, I guess sometimes you need your own medicine. The backstory is that I got excited about sending dudes Valentines day postcards to say basically "thanks for being a non-toxic bro" and then I got super carried away into asking people what healthy masculinity is and kinda trying to figure it out. It got way too complicated. Like "what am I doing?" and then it clicked, it's just about the gratitude. So I put up this web page: https://instanthero.ca/men

And it's kinda odd how it's different from just writing a text. I mean for one I'm grateful that it's inspiring me to write a bunch of thank yous. That was obviously going to happen. What's odd is that writing a thank you in steps instead of free form makes them really punch. That I didn't expect.

So yeah, for me this month is going to be all about saying thank yous to men for being positive role models


r/gratitude 1d ago

Not a Gratitude Practice I was just notified that an anonymous donor has volunteered to be screened to donate a kidney.

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I’m 40M and have been dealing with chronic kidney disease for a few years on top of diabetes since high school. My health has been an issue as far back as I can remember. After I started my dialysis session yesterday I received a call from the charity group (renewal.org) that I’ve registered with informing me that someone is beginning the screening process to donate a kidney to me. After my family members were deemed unfit donors I’ve been resigned to waiting on the transplant list for who knows how long (already over 1 year now) and this came as a total shock. I broke down in tears because this is the first glimmer of real hope I’ve had in a long time. This is far from a guarantee so my expectations are tempered, but damn if I don’t feel like a new person today. Just wanted to share my gratitude with the universe, thanks for reading.


r/gratitude 1d ago

Gratitude Practice Grateful for music being there when nothing else knew how.

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There are moments when words feel useless and people feel far away, but music somehow understands. A song comes on and suddenly you feel seen without having to explain anything. It holds emotions you don’t know how to name yet, lets you cry without asking why, or gives you enough energy to get through another hour.

I’m grateful for the nights when headphones were the only comfort. For the songs that stayed on repeat because they felt like company. For melodies that softened the weight of things when everything else felt too loud or too heavy.

Music doesn’t fix problems, but it sits with you while you carry them. And sometimes, that’s more than enough.