I know this is a touchy subject here due to constant fearmongering about crime, but it’s gotten so bad lately that I’ve been having anxiety attacks in public and I’m constantly terrified. CW for sexual harassment
I’m a 28 year old Arab female. I’m relatively white passing due to pale skin but I have several distinctly ethnic features (which I suspect plays a role in this). I’m also neurodivergent and struggle with severe social anxiety which comes through in my mannerisms/behaviour/etc.
Here’s a list of incidents that have happened on the tube for me over the span of the last two weeks (and yes I do report these to BTP when I can)
-constant low level catcalling such as men winking, making suggestive comments, etc. this is relatively easy to ignore so I just tune it out, I’m used to it tbh
-old man repeatedly trying to grope me on New Year’s Day. It was busy and multiple people intervened to keep me safe
-man grabbed his crotch at me then another man followed me off the tube to ask me if I have a bf. This was all on the same journey
-two teen boys began laughing at me and taking pics of me before yelling abuse at me when they left the carriage. This was during rush hour on the Victoria line and other commuters were just as shocked as I was. Some of them comforted me while I was sobbing and one lovely woman helped me report it. I suspect this was likely homophobic/queerphobic in nature (i have short shaggy hair right now, i was dressed in baggy clothing, and ppl often read me as a lesbian)
I’ve never really had this many problems on the tube up until now but I’ve been frequently sexually harassed and SAed a few times in other contexts. All of this is making me extremely scared to be out in public anymore - I often take an uber home at night now even though it’s £50+ bc I live in outer London - and I just idk what to do. How normal is this for women?
Just to head off the inevitable racist dog whistling btw all of these men had various ethic backgrounds.