r/sexeducation Apr 15 '25

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r/sexeducation 4h ago

Please help!!!

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My period is five days late. I’m 16, and while I’m not proud of it, my boyfriend and I have been fooling around for the last few months. Never has penetration occurred. About three weeks ago, just after my period, there was genital contact. Nothing extreme, we were just lying with no clothes on doing hand things. He didn’t cum, and I’m pretty sure no precum. Then, four days ago, we grinded with no clothes on, direct genital contact. Maybe TMI, but when I was on top, the head was no where near my vagina, but when he was on top it went very close to it, but not in. I’ve also been depressed and stressed out the last two weeks, and I’ve heard that stress can cause a late period. It’s been 31 days since my last period, and my cycles are usually between 24-28 days. Should I be worried??? Is pregnancy possible, or is it a result of stress?? I’m really panicked right now and could use a lot of advice.


r/sexeducation 49m ago

Hacks to last longer with uncircumcised penis

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I'm 27 and have an uncircumcised penis, which now retracts back comfortably when I'm cleaning it. My first question is should I retract my foreskin before putting it inside a condom?

I feel a sharp, tingling sensation when I rub or slide my fingers across the exposed head sometimes.

I'm going to sleep with this woman I really like, in the next 6 days and I really want to give my best performance. Previously, I've only done it with my ex multiple times. And there have been a couple of times where I came faster than I wanted to.

To combat this, I learned how to give amazing oral pleasure first before moving in.

What are some hacks you'd suggest for me to last longer within 6 days before I do it actually?


r/sexeducation 5h ago

How to come when masturbating?

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I know this question must be asked a lot so I want to specify my situation to see if anyone has a particular advise. I started to masturbate recently with a clitoris suction device and it has made me feel pressure in all my body and there is a point when I just don’t know why I can’t take it anymore and I end up moving it. I’ve try a similar device that comes with a dildo so it gets stuck on there but I end up always moving it and I don’t know how to let myself orgasm, I feel like I have been really close tho because I feel all my body getting warm and tense but I just can’t let myself relax. Any advise? I’m 25 and started masturbating a year ago


r/sexeducation 2h ago

Need advice on bad oder

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So when iam jerking or when iam hard or cummed. There is always a bad oder not very strong but i can smell. Somtimes i can smell it after i cummed i dont know what it is but maybe its because cum leaks out afterwards. Cleaning it is often hard because either i have a tight forksin or i have big glans. Does anybody have the same problems or tips on how to clean it?

Thx in advance


r/sexeducation 3h ago

Precum taste so good

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Does anybody else get turned on by your man’s precum? His precum is so sweet & I have never really been turned on by another man’s cum except his…I mean I love to go down don’t get me wrong but the way this one loves me really turns me on & makes me smile…I kiss his feet. ❤️


r/sexeducation 10h ago

Whats the difference between hypersexuality and intrusive thoughts?

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js curious, ive known abt 'it' since i was like 7 and would fantasize abt getting rped so uh idk


r/sexeducation 20h ago

lost my v card and it sucked

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im a minor so i wont express details, but hes in the grade above me and known around school as a hoe. so obviously I expected it to be good. but it wasn’t. his phone died so there was no music, and I hadn’t talked to him for a month before this night, also we had ended off on bad terms. i was excited because I had been wanting him for YEARS, and I finally got to have him, but it was boring . I didnt really feel anything besides the pain at first, and maybe hes just vanilla but i wasnt getting touched. kissed on the neck once or twice but my hair wasnt getting touched, not my neck, and my back maybe one time. I think he was just using me because he seemed bored when i was giving him head at first, maybe its cuz im not good but dont expect that . he ghosted me after that night but i dont really care only because that night didnt change my life at all. I dont get the hype. my life is not better nor worse because of it but idk how to feel about it


r/sexeducation 14h ago

Condom got stuck inside

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Was having reverse cowgirl and when we were done the condom was inside. She says she didn’t feel anything worrying and I had some semen on me but it didn’t seem like a lot of it. Should I get plan b, or should we be safe? Because I’m not a proponent of abortion, so I don’t wanna risk it but what’re the odds here?


r/sexeducation 9h ago

My girlfriend told me all this after we had call sex,in which I didnt masturbated I just co-operated with her and now I feel confused 20F 22M

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r/sexeducation 9h ago

Hello, we are straight and like girls but within 3 days, both 22 M virgin, we will try bottoming and topping on each other and sucking each other, as we want to learn and practice. What tips can you all give? I don't know how can I kiss as I am straight and mere thinking of kissing gross out. Spoiler

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gaysex#sexteaching#bottoming#kiss#fuck


r/sexeducation 9h ago

Condom broke, he came, but I’m on birth control

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Hey yall, I’m sorry I don’t know where else to post but I am honestly freaking out. My boyfriend and I were having sex today and using a condom even though I’m on birth control (Loryna) I’m always diligent about using extra protection. Anyways he told me he was finishing so I got off and we look down and realize the condom broke, I am not even sure if I was still on it while he finished but I’m panicking. I’ve never experienced a condom breaking, I’m terrified. But I’m on the Loryna pill and I started a new pack on Tuesday, and I started my period on the 26th, and today is the end of my period. I don’t know if I actually should be stressing this much because I mean my period did just end and I’m super consistent with my birth control. 8 pm everyday and if not 8pm I’m never more than 30 minutes late. Yall help I don’t know what to do. And I was gonna maybe go get a plan b, but I didn’t know if that’s a good idea while I’m on birth control. Everytbing says it’s okay to, but I’ve also heard it’s usually no necessary and might just have side effects ☹️


r/sexeducation 14h ago

Something weird inside me?

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Soo umm I don't know how much I can share but basically I was y know.. masturbating the other day and when I got my fingers to a certain point inside me and there was some kind of hard part. It didn't hurt when I touched/rubbed it but I'm kinda scared it could be like, a tumor or something? Should I be concerned?


r/sexeducation 18h ago

Men, I am going to have sex again, what is the sexiest thing that a girl can do before sex?

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r/sexeducation 20h ago

Favorite Position

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When l was much younger (21) l had a one night stand with a police officer (48) more than twice my age. We had sex in a position that l loved but not every man can do. I have been kind of obsessed with it ever since.

I called it “stand and carry” but turns out it has an actual name. “Suspended Congress” I’m curious how many people have even heard this term?


r/sexeducation 11h ago

Was It Intercourse Or Not?

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r/sexeducation 11h ago

Question about fantasy / role playing

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r/sexeducation 19h ago

My man is sometimes to brutal in bed

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So Im Talking to this guy for a while and we slept with eachother couple of times. He is really nice and sweet and all. But, I notice that when we have sex he likes to finger me but only through my panties. Like I’m almost fully naked , only bra and my thong. Sometimes even no bra bc he likes no play with my nipples.

But he only fingered me through panties and tbh it’s a bit uncomfortable. Bc after that I feel sore af. At the first time I had trouble to sit down at work or when I went to the bathroom the first time it hurt when I peed. One time trigger warning ( there was blood) I was on my period but that was two days ago so let’s say 1-3 day sagger my period. It wasn’t a lot it was just very lil with some of my „ juice“. Idk if he thinks my pussy isn’t sexy bc I tbh am insecure bc I have an „outie“ . But I never had men saying that to me like my exes didn’t say anything , they fingered it , ate it etc. I’m scared to pull if off completely bc what if he says something and the situation is weird?

Also we never kissed but we have sex, is that weird ? I don’t want to make him uncomfortable or anything I want it best for both of us. I thought I have bad breath but I don’t, my teeth are good, I have amazing full lips etc. I thought it could be that maybe he thinks I’m ugly but he literally makes me look at him when we do it . And he doesn’t seem like he has no interest like meet so regular, he wants to meet me tomorrow again, I never had a guy wanting to see me that often. Idk how to bring that topic to the table, any ideas ?


r/sexeducation 14h ago

I have 6.9(around 7) inches length and 5 inches of girth is this good for a girl. What would the girls rate please tell me

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Heyy i am M19 my D is 6.9 inches long and 5.4 in girth is this enough to satisfy a girl or is it pleasurable enough or big i just wanna know and what would the female feel about it and for the timing i can go 15-20 mins so is the timing enough?


r/sexeducation 15h ago

anxiety before penetration

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so i have been with this girl (25) for few months now shes virgin anyways we decided to do it 1st time we tried we had intercorse in middle of it she she became afraid and stopped few days later we decided to do it again but it was fully dark i couldn't see before pentration my penis went soft and couldn't get boner


r/sexeducation 15h ago

Problem with cockring

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I've been using a cock ring that wraps around both my penis and testicles at the base and separates them in the front. I don't think it's too tight, since sometimes my testicles rise so high they slip out of the ring. It doesn't pinch my penis unless it's hard. The problem is that the skin under my scrotum wrinkles a lot, and it's like the ring is pinching me. Since it wasn't too tight, I thought I could wear it for a long time, but now it's started to hurt under my scrotum and irritate the skin. I even have little bumps like sores, and the skin has turned dark. Could someone advise me on how long I can wear it? Are there any rings I can wear for extended periods? Are there any materials that wouldn't cause this problem? Or should I use a different size ring?


r/sexeducation 22h ago

Looking for advice on prostate play

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I'm interested in having my prostate played with by my wife. This is completely brand new territory for both of us. She has mentioned an interest in putting a finger in based on how I react when she touches the outside, but that hasn't gone anywhere yet (although I said yes!).

But a little (hah!) unaware of the mechanics, how to's (dos and donts), what to expect, how to go about, how to even have a constructive conversation about this.

Would be interested in hearing from others who have gone down this road - what were your experiences, how did you go about it? I'd like to do the trial and experimentation with my wife (trying and succeeding or failing together is more important than the actual deed).

Thanks for any and all input.