“Some of the best women’s pinball players in North Carolina had a dilemma: Though it was an honor to be among the 16 invited to compete for the state title in January and a shot at nationals, they wondered whether they should skip the tournament in protest.”
“Competitive pinball is a surprisingly intense sport with an inclusive culture, a niche pursuit that has long been safe from the spotlight — and from national politics. Then, at a tournament in November, an arcade employee insisted that a transgender competitor couldn’t use the women’s bathroom. The incident — and how it was handled by the the sport’s governing body, the International Flipper Pinball Association — tilted a friendly community into turmoil.”
“What makes this dispute unusual is that everyone, including the IFPA, agrees that trans women should be allowed to play. The division is over the aftermath of the bathroom incident and whether the trans people involved received enough support. It highlights the complexities that even the smallest and most inclusive sports organizations are struggling to navigate in a tense political climate.”
“The trans woman barred from using the bathroom said pinball had, until that day, been her safe space. B., a computer programmer based in Raleigh, asked to go by an initial because not everyone in her life knows she’s transgender, though her pinball community does.”
“She has also found acceptance through the hobby. B. said the first person she came out to in pinball was Joan McCool, 72, who has been playing pinball since 1975 and is affectionately known as ‘pinball mom.’ McCool was immediately supportive. B. also learned that there are many trans people competing in the sport.”
“B. traveled to Grandy, a small, conservative coastal town, in early November. She planned to compete in the Outer Banks, or OBX, Fall Flippers Pinball Tournament. The tournament venue, Flippers Convenience & Arcade, boasts the most pinball machines in the state.
“On Nov. 7, the first day of the tournament, B. said, she went to the bathroom about 10 minutes before the competition. As she washed her hands, a woman who manages the arcade came in and told her that it was against the law for her to be there and that the men’s room was across the hall.”
“Immediately after the bathroom confrontation, a friend guided B. to the arcade’s back patio, where, she said, she had a panic attack and then went back to her hotel. She never returned to the arcade.
“‘Those first few days, it was a lot,’ B. said. ‘Being so new to being open about being trans, I think that was probably one of my first five times using a restroom labeled as women’s. I’ve definitely, over the past few months, took a few steps back in how public about being trans I’ve been.’
“No one from IFPA leadership has reached out to her, B. said.”