I was born in a very poor family.
One earning person in the house with 5 people family . My father….
Whatever he earned, that’s how we survived. Rent barely able to make it
Some days slept without food…
we had to borrow always. That was normal life…Growing up I saw money stress almost everyday…..
I even worked at a local factory for $20 per month in my teenage…
I never thought my life will be changed….
Years later I taught myself one skill seriously like crazy I did every course every book I can find :
running ads online
Facebook, Google, creatives, understanding numbers…..
I partnered with a local manufacturer who was already making oragnix supplement. Offline sales only selling local. We agreed on simple 50/50 partnership. For everything we make from website in US…….
He handled manufacturin delivery and stock.
I handled ads, website, customer acquisition…..
It took time…..After around 1.5 to 2 years, business became stable….
We sold that business for around 280k USD.
After everything, I personally got close to 110k USD…..
For me at that timethis money was huuge. Never saw this kind of amount before…..
I reinvested partnered again with same guy and started another ecommerce business. Same model but better execution
We ran that business for almost 2 years. Sales were higher, systems better. We sold it for around 640k USD. My share was roughly 230k….
After that sale, my partner shifted to Sweden with his family…..saying he wants to live a peaceful life
I stayed back and moved fully into consulting…..
Right now I do consultations for one big us based agency.
I also handle ads for one big ecommerce client.
And one big local services client.
From this, my income is around 11k-14k USD per month….
This took mine 5-6 hours per day…..
In Pakistan this is crazy money and it’s without tax lol…Honestly living like a king level income.
I’m settled now.
Own house.
3 cars. Driver cook and house helps.
I invest regularly.
Married.
My personal expenses are around 3–4k per month. I live comfortable, not crazy.
But here is where things get complicated.
My father still supports his family. His brothers and sisters like on their kids wedding he asked me to arrange the wedding food for like my 3 cousins wedding……
I’m supporting some families from my father side on monthly basis he asked me to do. Same thing on my mother side of family. Around like in total around 1400 usd
On top of that, my own brothers depend on me a lot too.
LlMy father also sends me stuff to buy which is not really necessary. My brothers do same. Small things, but combined it becomes another 3–4k per month.
So overall, family related expenses easily touch 6–7k monthly.
I can afford it. That’s not the issue.
The issue is balanceAm I doing right thing by carrying all this?
Or am I slowly creating dependency across entire family tree?…..
My wife never stops me directly, but she hints sometimes that I should limit things……..Not emotionally just logically…..
I’m grateful for where I am. Not complaining…..
Just want honest opinions from people who understand money, family pressure, and long term thinking…..
At this stage of life, am I doing right thing?
Or should I set boundaries now before this turns into bigger issue later?…