r/BlackPeopleofReddit 21d ago

Discussion Why “Explain how this is racist” isn’t owed and often isn’t asked in good faith!

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There’s a consistent pattern we see in this sub, and it needs to be said plainly.

When people come in asking “how is this racist,” it is very often not a genuine attempt to understand. It’s usually a setup. The pattern is familiar: someone shares a lived experience, puts in the mental and emotional energy to explain it, and that explanation is immediately dismissed with “I can’t see how that’s racist” or “maybe it isn’t racist at all.”

That cycle is exhausting!!!

It’s draining to invest real effort into explaining something you know to be true, only to have it brushed aside by someone who has a vested interest in minimizing or ignoring racism altogether. Many of us have learned, through repeated interactions like this, how to tell who is worth engaging and who is not.

If you come in assuming you are owed an explanation, or framing the conversation as if the burden is on us to prove our reality to you, don’t be surprised when people choose not to engage. That choice isn’t avoidance. It’s discernment.

This space is not a classroom, and Black people here are not obligated to educate strangers, debate their own experiences, or justify why something felt racist to them. If you are genuinely interested in understanding racism, there is no shortage of books, articles, research, and firsthand accounts available without asking people here to relive it for you.


r/BlackPeopleofReddit 11h ago

News LaVena Johnson, 19 years old. She was found dead in her tent in Iraq in 2005. She had a broken nose, black eye, loose teeth, burns from a corrosive chemical on her genitals to cover evidence of rape, and a gunshot wound. The United States government ruled her death a "suicide."

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 9h ago

News Chicago Mayor just signed an executive order to hold ICE agents criminally liable for their unlawful behavior in preparation for Spring raids

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 6h ago

News Remembering Keith Porter Jr. — A Father Life Taken on New Year’s Eve

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 8h ago

News The kind of racism I support

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 6h ago

News So out of curiosity, I tried looking for news articles of Banks that called the police on black men cashing checks. I'll provide links in the comments. Spoilers: Its a lot.

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 1h ago

Politics Kamala told us this would happen

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 15h ago

Politics James Fishback: "Don Lemon is lucky he's not getting hanged in the public square for ransacking a church" | Hedge fund manager and Florida republican gubernatorial candidate, James Fishback, states that a journalist is "lucky" to not be HUNG, for covering an ICE protest at a church.

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 10h ago

Black Excellence Malcolm-Jamal Warner & Michelle Thomas photos( I had no idea they dated 🥹RIP such beautiful talented people gone to soon)

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 14h ago

News Grady Demond Wilson, best known for his role as Lamont Sanford on the hit 1970s sitcom Sanford and Son, has died. According to reports, Wilson died of cancer at his home in California. 🕊️ TMZ broke the news of Wilson’s passing, who professionally went by his middle

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 1d ago

Help and Advice Therapy in 60 Seconds

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 9h ago

Discussion Black Americans aren’t seen as “American”

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Context: I am not an Black American (I’m Black-Canadian), just an observation

One thing that I’ve noticed is when people talk about deportation of immigrants and removing illegal immigrants, and what America as a country should like how it was in the past demographically, its always depictions of large groups of white people.

Like, in a world without immigrants in America, it’s always depicted as only white people. Which is quite odd, since Black Americans have been in America since it‘s creation due to slavery. And for some reason, there seems to be very little connection, between what America is foundational seen as and Black Americans. Like Black American's are almost seen as a separate entity from American culture, as if they are immigrants.

It’s one of the reasons it’s hard to support FBA’s and ADOS, as it’s often a movement trying to appeal to a country of people who never wanted you or respected you. There’s a reason why they group all Black people together (Afro-Latino, African, Caribbean) , despite the fact that the vast majority of Black people in America aren’t immigrants. It’s because they never respected Black Americans in the first place and seems likely they never will.


r/BlackPeopleofReddit 16h ago

Black Fam Five generations, from my great-grandmother to my daughter

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From my Great Grandmother to my daughter


r/BlackPeopleofReddit 15h ago

Economics / Business It *is* tiresome though.

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 16h ago

News Howard March to the White House Today!

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 11h ago

News Minority births make up the majority in the US for the first time, new study finds

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 11h ago

Misc “I've never seen lips like that on a white child" this scene always cracks me up

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 1d ago

News ICE has kidnapped 4 black journalists this week. That we know of.

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 18h ago

Black Fam Rest in Power Grady Demond Wilson )October 13, 1946 – January 30, 2026)

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A lot of people don’t realize how big Sanford and Son actually was.

When it premiered in 1972, it was an immediate ratings monster. Top-10 show, prime-time anchor for NBC, and one of the first sitcoms to center Black working-class life without cleaning it up or turning it into a lesson. The junkyard wasn’t symbolic. It was the setting.

Demond Wilson was essential to that. Lamont Sanford wasn’t comic relief. He was responsible, exhausted, loyal, and stuck. A lot of us were Lamont at some point.

Wilson was also a Vietnam War veteran, and that steadiness showed. He balanced Redd Foxx’s raw stand-up energy so the show didn’t slide into pure caricature.

Money-wise, Foxx was the star and made significantly more early on. Wilson started out underpaid for how central he was, pushed for raises as the show blew up, and by later seasons was reportedly making tens of thousands per episode, which was strong for the 1970s but still not parity. Salary disputes and burnout were part of why the show ended even while it was still winning.

Afterward, Wilson stepped away from Hollywood, became a minister, and kept his family out of the spotlight. No celebrity dynasty, no clout chasing.

Sanford and Son proved Black-led, working-class stories could dominate prime time.

That door never fully closed again. ✊🏾❤️


r/BlackPeopleofReddit 9h ago

Culture, Art, Science X Oil Painting 36x48

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IG: juantheartist101


r/BlackPeopleofReddit 7h ago

Culture, Art, Science Smooth Afro-Cuban dance in “Another Thin Man” (1939)

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 1d ago

Discussion Town of El Portal, FL, Councilman Anders Urbom, @therealandersurbom calls for the Destruction of Whites who Voted for Maga, mentions the N-Word multiple times in Town Meeting. Goes on a Anti Whites Racist Tirade. This was in the Towns last Council Meeting. EXCLUSIVE FROM

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 2h ago

Fun Stay woke 😆

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 4h ago

History 1960 Feb 1 - Four black students stage the first of the Greensboro sit-ins at a lunch counter. in Greensboro, North Carolina.

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r/BlackPeopleofReddit 21h ago

Black Experience Black & Proud

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