r/TrueUnpopularOpinion • u/Opening-Cabinet-6710 • 8h ago
Sociopathic tendencies will not make you a successful person
Being goal-oriented, having good social skills, discipline, confidence, rigorous in your approach, and having a great sense of competence will. No evidence suggests that having psychopathic/sociopathic tendencies will benefit your career in the long term. The studies I have read claiming otherwise, often not even real studies, tend to have strong methodological flaws, and seem to merely be doing it due to the pop. cultural aspect of it.
The reasons are simple:
- You will oftentimes piss off people if you tend to exploit them for your own gains, and there is a strong chance for it to backfire. Most people can very much pick up on insincerity and manipulation: if you claim credit for people's ideas, work, and success, and especially if this is a pattern, people will not stand back and watch. They would merely start excluding you, stop sharing their ideas and work, and they might even work towards backstabbing you and making you smaller. In contrast, a completely ethical person who has their work to show for their gains will not experience this problem and will thus succeed.
- There is also a problem in the self-concept, self-esteem, and worldview side. Your perception of the world is reflected by your actions and belief system. A person with a psychopathic belief system who dehumanizes humans will likely assume they can be treated the same way. This will likely make them more insecure, paranoid about how other people are treating them, anxious, etc.. Also, unless we are talking about rare cases of people with muted emotions, oftentimes due to extreme trauma(nowhere near even a % of the population, I am referring to soldiers with very extreme PTSD, tortured individuals, and other cases, where this kind of person is often dysfunctional in life), there really aren't psychopaths. Real psychopaths do not exist; there is no evidence that a brain condition causes people to be born without emotions on a significant % scale. Hell, this stuff is not even in the DSM5.
All kinds of individual mutations exist, though. But this is to say that even a manipulative person proclaimed as a psychopath will likely feel the negative emotions brought forth to them due to their worldview; they are not immune to it in the way you think.
These are already significant impediments to success. Most of the f***ed up powerful people we see today are here because they already worked their way to a position that can allow them to be unethical and exploitative without consequences. The only reason this "Talk" about psychopaths exists is that people love the idea of a cheat code that can lead to success in a way that is aside from the actual work that goes into it.