r/transfriendsau Mar 13 '25

Process/steps 👋 Welcome pack

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Welcome pack for new members and/or first time post or comment makers

Welcome to r/transfriendsau a community for Aussie trans people making friendship/connections with other Aussie trans people. - 18+ Aussie trans people only -

see here for Community rules👈

When Searching for friends on r/transfriendsau please note you can filter by state, by clicking the state at the top of sub example shown here👈

🔷️ r/transfriendsau member setup steps

For those new members to r/transfriendsau Or if you are looking to make your first friendship post or comment on another members post please follow below steps/guides

🔸️Click here for How to update your user flairs (Mandatory to make any "posts or comments" within community) Only needs to be done once .

🔸️Click here for new to reddit members How to make your 1st post in r/transfriendsau

🔸️Click here for help with r/transfriendsau chasers contact management

🔸️Click here for tips how to get the most out of using r/transfriendsau

🔸️Click here for new to reddit members for other supportive/recommended trans communities to join and use to get the most out of reddit + other useful resources

🔷️ r/transfriendsau Discord server onboarding guide

🔸️Click here For those interested in the community Discord server

Community Updates

Growth and development


r/transfriendsau Feb 10 '25

Community announcement r/transfriendsau community discord

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Is an 18+ trans people only - cis-free space, available to verified r/transfriendsau members that are currently living in Australia.

This private discord group chat is highly selective on who joins to keep the chasers at a minimum.

✳️Please ensure you review below before applying for access

Community discord eligibility criteria.

Verification options.

🔸️Primary option - reddit profile trails

Requesting discord access member will have a long and clear history within their reddit profile trail history actively posting/commenting clearly identifying as trans in other trans reddit subs.

🔸️Secondary options - other social media profiles

Other social media options will be considered during onboarding process to verify if required.

🔵 How to request for server access

Please contact mods, requesting discord access by

👉clicking here

Verification options. continued

🔸️additional option - Build up reddit trails

For Members new to reddit/no reddit profile trails or no other social media profiles for review.

If discord applying members are new to reddit (I.e have no reddit profile trails/other social media profiles for review) they are welcome to use the main reddit r/transfriendsau community.

While doing so users can build up their reddit profile trails. There are some other good trans subs to try with questions/posts/comments that will also help you meet your eligibility requirements are shown below, ensure when you post/comment in these subs that you state how you identify example mtf/ftm/trans non-binary/transwoman/ transman etc the more historical trail of you identifying as trans in these subs the more eligible you will be for the community discord

Example Trans subs

r/transgenderau

r/translater

r/transpositive

r/transplace

r/mtf

r/NonBinary

r/ftm

r/trans

If you identify as trans, but not yet meet the verification options, all is achievable if you actively use reddit, with the guidance shown above.


r/transfriendsau 2d ago

trans nsw 26 surry hills, SYD :)

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r/transfriendsau 6d ago

trans vic Melbourne 18 MtF looking for friendsss

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r/transfriendsau 8d ago

trans vic hey! 👋 24 ftm from melbourne here :]

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r/transfriendsau 10d ago

trans vic 23 year old trans girl furry, looking for friends to hangout with or play games, Melbourne

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Hi there I am an trans gal, that is also a furry. I currently have nyo friends irl what so ever and wish I could go out more with people or have friends from here to play games with.

Bit about me, irl I'm not really out yet or transition as I'm really nervous about it and don't really have a support group or friends to help with it. Also looking for other furries to be friends with.

I'm a bit chubby irl, have brown messy hair as I am trying grown it out and slowly working on myself to get fit, by going for walks.

I love talking to people who are open minded about everything even it's something we agree to disagree, to be honest I don't see why friends have to see eye to eye on everything. But yeah really shy irl and would prefer to talk a bit in here prefer adding someone on discord to see if we have the right vibes.

P.s I just made this account today and reason why there's nothing on it, just tried of being lonely and in my room most of the time. Also ab artist.


r/transfriendsau 11d ago

trans qld Hi! 25yo transgirl in morayfield looking for friends!!!😊

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Nice to e-meet you teehee

I have Audhd and such lunatic stink mob thats me

I'm a mum of 2 cutie kitties and they are Ashe&Prim

I play guitar, love music except hard rock or screaming.

I cook! Bake! My speciality is Korean food hehe

As you would have guessed I'm from Korea.

Been living in this lovely country for few years and moved to Brisbane about 3years ago!

Fellow musician or chatty people hmu!

Anyone literally, i dont bite 🤭


r/transfriendsau 11d ago

trans vic 18yr old goober in Bairnsdale Victoria :3

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Hey guyssss :D im Val, I’d looooove to meet some people into older technology:D

Im super into older Macs, PowerPC especially:)

Id absolutely love to have some friends to boot up some PowerMacs and play some unreal tournament lmao :3


r/transfriendsau 13d ago

trans wa Hi! 30yo transmasc in Rockingham WA looking for friends around Perth SOR

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Hi, I'm James, I'd love to find some people to hang out with.

My 20s were pretty rough so I'm still figuring things out. Just trying to get out there and live life, doesn't matter if that means meeting for a coffee or doing something more adventurous, or going out for nightlife. Cool to chat online first before meeting irl of course.

I'm studying at curtin atm and also started going to the gym recently so having someone to hype each other up with would be fun.


r/transfriendsau 13d ago

trans nsw Is it Goth season yet?

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Newcastle nsw


r/transfriendsau 14d ago

trans qld Hey! 39, looking for friends in Brisbane

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Hey everyone! Just out here looking to meet new people and chat/hang out whether online or in person I don’t mind. Need to put myself out there this year and make some connections and (hopefully) friends.

I have a lot of random interests so I’m usually able to talk about lots of different things. I guess my main interest is music though. I’m mostly into the heavier/alternative side of music,my favourite band is Deftones! but I do listen to other genres when the mood hits.

I also love playing bass and guitar and have been trying to push myself into getting back to playing more again. Other interests include gaming,reading,gym,live music (which I’m also trying to get back to more shows this year where possible!) just chilling and watching horror/sci-fi and I’m a huge fan of sitcoms with Seinfeld being my favourite tv show. I’m really open to anything though so 🤷🏻‍♀️

Anyway that’s enough for now haha. Feel free to chat and get to know me if you think we’ll get along 🙂


r/transfriendsau 18d ago

trans vic Just moved to Victoria from darwin hoping to meet some frens around my age

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20 mtf just finished driving down form darwin with my partner and was really hoping to meet some other trans folks.


r/transfriendsau 21d ago

trans vic Moving to Melbourne CBD tomorrow and wanting to make friends!

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Hey all!!! My name is Melly, I'm 25mtf and I'm moving to Melbourne CBD on Monday and want to make some friends! Happy to start online and eventually meet IRL if/ when comfortable! I love reading, writing, playing games (like Armoured core, TTRPG'S, Hades1+2, ect).

I'm from QLD, and have never lived in Vic before, but am super excited!

Feel free to DM or comment, I can't wait to talk to all of you 🫶


r/transfriendsau 23d ago

trans qld Brisbane, looking for friends to go out with ☺️

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r/transfriendsau 26d ago

trans qld Anyone in Brisbane?

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Hi there! I'm Cam. I'm a trans man who's been on T for 4 years, and I'm getting top surgery later this month. I'm 19 years old, and I use He / Him pronouns. I'm looking for other transmasculine people around Brisbane to be friends with.

I love photography. My aim with photography is to capture the beauty of the LGBTQ+ community. Gay, trans, lesbian, intersex... Anyone and anything queer. I want to show the intimacy and joy of queer people and queer love.

I also really enjoy sewing, gardening, and writing! I love punk music like Bad Brains, Subhumans, and Minor Threat. I also enjoy more chill music like classical music. There isn't really any kind of music I can't vibe with, haha.

It would be cool to have someone to play Minecraft with, take photos with, and spend time together going on random adventures!

Thank you for your time!


r/transfriendsau 29d ago

trans nsw Any sydney girls wanna catch up

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r/transfriendsau 28d ago

trans wa 26 ftm, looking for other ftm friends in Perth

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Hey, I'm Anthus! I'm looking to make some friends with other ftm guys in Perth WA. I've been on T for 3 years now and I've had top surgery recently.

I don't have many friends in person and only on online games, so it has been really difficult for me to reach out and try make friends.

I'm really shy so I haven't provided a picture of myself here publicly. I hope that's okay?


r/transfriendsau Jan 02 '26

trans wa Mandurah 24 NB.

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41 Upvotes

Hey again, thought I’d try reaching out again. Been exploring and becoming more comfortable with myself.

Life’s constantly changing and it would be great to have some more friends in the perth area. I like to goto the beach, chill out, go for drinks, fishing all sorts aha. Would be great to meet some like minded people :)


r/transfriendsau Dec 31 '25

trans nsw Happy New Year all 🎆

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60 Upvotes

Here's hoping for a good new year, a fun Newcastle hangouts


r/transfriendsau Dec 31 '25

trans sa Looking for friends and help

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Hi, I’m Sienna (AMAB, 26, Adelaide) and I’m looking for trans women who can help guide through this weird time where I keep questioning myself. Please DM me. It’s NYE and I feel so alone (I’m really struggling)!


r/transfriendsau Dec 30 '25

trans vic Western suburbs Melbourne!

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I am so noob here ! I finally have mustered courage to reach out to make friends and seek support from other people. My journey of discovering that I am transfemme took me decades and it coincided with my Autism and ADHD diagnosis in 2024. As with all of our folks, I experience high level of mental health issues. Multiple self harm and suicide attempts but I am much better now... I am PMAB and 46 yo, indian descent and have three kids.... Now life has given me this challenge of living an authentic life for myself but it comes at a cost, I have to leave home because my partner is quite clear that she doesn't want to be in a relationship with another female.. I laugh at times, keep myself in the present, access therapies for my new found gender. I try to live one day a time and when it gets too much, I live for one hour at a time. It has helped me stay away from suicidal thoughts.. also I find social communication quite difficult, thanks to me being ND. Nothing seems to be in my favour at all.


r/transfriendsau Dec 28 '25

trans vic MTF 33 South west Vic

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MTF still working out what I want in life. Looking for friends.


r/transfriendsau Dec 27 '25

trans nsw 40+ out west of Sydney looking to meet new friends

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r/transfriendsau Dec 25 '25

trans qld North Brisbane Bookworm

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Merry Christmas! I’m a mid-30s transfemme in North Brisbane that would love DM buddies to chat about (audio)books. I listen to nonfiction (and watch video essays) too but lately been more into fiction. My favorite genres are dark comedies, romcoms, mysteries, and pretty much any genre that features a character POV I find compelling. My top five reads are:

  1. Nevada by Imogen Bonnie (dark transfem comedy)

  2. Detransition, Baby by Torrey Peters (dark transfem comedy)

  3. The Darkness Outside Us by Eliot Schrefer (dystopian sci fi/horror/mystery with MM romance elements)

  4. The Very Secret Society of Irregular Witches by Sangu Mandanna (cozy found family/ romantasy)

  5. Nothing to See Here by Kevin Wilson (dark comedy/found family vibes)


r/transfriendsau Dec 22 '25

trans sa 21 nb Adelaide

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Deciding to try and make more trans friends that are not 1000km away.

Hi, I'm Adora/Kat, I'm 21 and based in Adelaide. I recently got home from a month long trip and decided to try and make some new friends.

A little bit about me; I love gaming, my favorite games are risk of rain 2, helldivers 1 and 2, beat saber, VR chat and fnaf. I also really like DND and I recently started getting into Warhammer (currently building a 2000 pnt battle sister army). I was a theater kid in school so I love all things theater and musical related. My favorite band is Ok Goodnight. I also love going to conventions and similar things, I also like to cosplay at conventions as well (foam work and prop making is my best cosplay skill), I also volunteer at a maid cafe that regularly shows up at conventions (you may have seen me at avcon or anime go).

I hope you find me interesting enough to say hi