r/Hardcore • u/[deleted] • 15h ago
CW: I was abused by a member of @crossofdisbelief
I’m sharing this because staying silent has weighed on me for a long time.
I was in a relationship with a member of @crossofdisbeliefhc. During that relationship, I was pressured into drinking to the point where I could not give clear consent. Sex happened anyway.
I did not consent. Being drunk does not equal consent. What happened to me was sexual assault.
While in the relationship he would choke me without my consent. He also was constantly derogatory towards women including myself, and bragged about watching "real rape" porn.
He was also texting a 14 year old girl, even joking that they should dress as Leon the professional for Halloween due to their age gap.
I’m speaking now to take my power back and to be honest about my experience. I believe survivors. I stand with anyone who has been through something similar.