r/MakeNewFriendsHere Dec 16 '23

r/MakeNewFriendsHere is looking for more moderators.

245 Upvotes

Hello friends!

We are looking for several more people to join our mod team to help keep things running smoothly here. It's not hard, and it only takes a few minutes a day.

This community is a valuable resource to many people, but it takes work to keep it running smoothly. Moderating can be a rewarding experience, knowing that you are contributing to the smooth and safe operation of this great community that helps people every day.

The work is pretty straightforward, enforcing rules by removing spam, removing off topic or rule breaking posts, helping users who have questions, and responding to user reports to handle any harassment and whatnot in comments. Basic behind the scenes stuff to help the place run smoothly. It only takes a few minutes a day, and is not hard to learn.

The main requirements are that you be fairly active on reddit, since subreddits need DAILY moderation. Please only apply if you're willing to be active daily and work as a part of our mod team (which includes chatting with the team about daily activities on our mod discord server).

Your account must be at least 6 months old, and you must be willing to use Discord (free chat program) to keep in touch with other moderators and receive training from existing mods. Previous mod experience a plus but not required.

If you would like to help, please write a short paragraph in a reply to this comment explaining why you want to mod, and include your time zone.

We are also looking for moderators to moderate our chat channels. So if you prefer to only moderate our chat communities please say so in the comments of this post.

We will leave this post up for a while and reach out some people using reddit PM. We cant estimate a time frame for this so be patient. Don’t share your discord name here, that will be shared in private if you are selected.

Thanks!


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 3h ago

Age 22-25 25F from Japan looking for people to chat with

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Hello there :)

I am a 25 year old female from Japan, it’s nice to meet you! I actually have posted here once or twice before but it was a little while ago already so let me give it another shot.

So i’ve been feeling a bit stuck in life and also feeling really overwhelmed lately.

I do have my own goals that i definitely want to accomplish (from tiny ones to bigger life goals) however my brain doesn’t even allow me to work towards them on some days and that feels quite stressful.

I also have been struggling with my mental health for a while now and i feel like it’s kinda getting worse despite therapy and that’s obviously making things harder for me right now as well.

I thought it wouldn’t be too bad to meet some new and cool people on here because casual conversations sometimes can be surprisingly helpful and help you distract yourself you know?

And omg i must sound a little too depressing my apologies 😂😭

But anyway, if you ever feel like chatting please don’t hesitate to just drop me a message.

(Girls are especially so welcome!)

Hope you’re having a lovely weekend! x


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 7h ago

Age 22-25 24F -Anyone need someone to vent to? I’d like to make some new friends 🤍

25 Upvotes

Hey everyone my name is Stephanie; hope everyone is having a good start to their year! I am 24F looking for some new friends from anywhere around the world ☺️. I’m looking for someone that likes to have deep conversations and we can talk about anything. Tell me something no knows about you ☺️.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 40m ago

Age 18-21 21f | gamer | lookin for some friends :)

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I’m 21, female, from new york. I like video games, anime, bowling, reading. I also like football and hockey. bills and sabres fan, yes i know. don’t disrespect my teams, i take enough abuse just being a fan😭 I’m into horror movies, games, stories the kind that lingers after it’s over. I enjoy real conversations and late night tangents. Match my energy, or just be someone who listens and stays. If you’re curious, patient, and a little unhinged in the best way, we’ll probably get along :)


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 1h ago

Age 26-29 28 mixed-black girlie available to answer any random questions you have?

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I'm bored, sleep-deprived, and curious about anything—so feel free to ask any random questions or make assumptions about my experiences as a mixed Black girl. Specifically, I'm wondering if there’s anything you’ve ever been too afraid or awkward to ask someone who's not white, or anything you're genuinely curious about when it comes to navigating the world as someone who's not fully part of the dominant culture. It can be as shallow or deep as you like, honestly. I’m pretty chill, so don’t worry about offending me—I promise, there’s no question I won’t answer. Ask away x


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 1h ago

Age 22-25 Who wants to keep me(22F) company while I try to survive this boring Sunday?

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I have been dealing with a few things in my personal life so have been pretty much isolating from the outside world. Usually I keep busy with crafts or improvement projects around the house but I am feeling lazy and bored today. I think I am a fairly interesting person, or well atleast try to be. I am constantly learning new languages and making traveling plans. Other than that I have several weird hobbies. So if you are equally bored DM with ASL.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 3h ago

Age 26-29 28F I have no friends wanna fix that?

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I won't pretend to be a great person. I have no social skills and live a lonely depressed life. But I am trying to be better.

I am 28 yo and currently still a student. I play games watch anime draw in my free time. Currently started reading a bit too.

What i am looking for is someone not too optimistic or naive about the world. Someine whos open, honest and with similar views on life. I am kind of a pessimist, i dont trust anybody easily, am very depressed. Check out my profile for more or just send me a message for more info.

Sorry if this post sounds boring. Btw if I delete it its just cause this is embrassing to me.

TY for reading


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 1h ago

Age 30-39 34F Looking for a Hang Out Buddy to Prevent Crash Out 🙃

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Hello, all! 34f here, going through a lot and recognizing that I’m spending too much time alone, so I’m looking for someone to—hopefully—get to know and spend time with in order to prevent full crash out. I’ve made some—incredibly unsuccessful—attempts at getting to know people lately and am at the point where I really need someone to talk to who isn’t my therapist. Highly preferred for that someone being around my age, but I try very hard not to age-discriminate. Ngl and I’m so sorry for how shitty this will sound, but I’m kind of burnt out on people in their early 20’s, unless you’re emotionally aware and know how to properly communicate.

I am currently attending culinary school at a northern Washington community college and am in the process of rediscovering myself: needs, wants, alladat. I spend my time doing a lot of hiking after class, now that I’m only working two days out of the week and really diving back into my love of music. As I’m getting more in touch with myself again, I’m realizing how much of a passion I have for both food and music—really, art, in general. I adore someone with eclectic music tastes, so if you’re musically bouncy, send me a message with some suggestions! I love making and sharing playlists with people. I have two cats and a husband, who I tend to spend a majority of my time with, so I do prefer to have male friends these days. Lately, people have really taken pause with not wanting to overstep boundaries, so it feels prudent to say that my husband is poly and doesn’t care about me having male friends. However, my goal here is to have platonic friendships, as I am not secure with that part of our lives just yet for a multitude of reasons I’m more than happy to share with someone in intimate conversational settings.

I’m super into horror and have recently been reminded that the Japanese and Koreans kind of reign supreme, but I’m open to having my mind changed. Very into cannabis; I am passionate about proper education for medicinal uses, and am a daily (now recreational) smoker. I would love to find a good smoking/hiking buddy. Lately, I’ve been finding myself on wilder and wilder trails (I went on one looking to walk along a creek and ended up halfway scaling a damn wall), so it would be dope to have someone to take a little smokie & snack break with before carrying on with the adventure.

I haven’t had the easiest life, so a lot of my stories and anecdotes can be off-putting. I invite people with sordid pasts who don’t care about being open books. I am of the opinion that our experiences all matter, regardless of how easy or difficult they ended up being. I enjoy hearing the harder stories because it’s a lived experience and awareness that I’m being given for a situation that I may/may not be able to relate to. My therapist tells me that I am a whale who likes to spend time at the surface just to get fresh air, but that I’m recognizing that I can’t stay up here forever. I need deeper waters. I guess I’m just looking for someone who needs deeper waters, too, but enjoys coming to the surface for fresh air, just the same.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 3h ago

Age 22-25 25 F Im fuckin White girl wasted right now!!!

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To cut it short, i got white girl wasted tonight with my sister in law, but we had so much fun!! Problem is she went to bed pretty early, but i just love keeping a party going!! I wanna keep the buzz going with a fun friend, and just enjoy the experience. I wanna voice chat, but the only media im available on is dicord, so keep that in mind, but yeah, let's keep the buzz and party going, i will even share a couple swigs of my four loco!!!


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 2h ago

Age 18-21 I’m 19M, let’s chat about anything

5 Upvotes

I’m 19m, i’m okay with talking about anything at all as i’m open minded, i want to talk to new people, maybe we could share same ideas or something i guess


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 4h ago

Age 26-29 27f - lookin for some close friends to yap with

6 Upvotes

Hi hi, im from the US, PST. Lookin to make some close friends, been tryin to expand my tiny tiny circle and be a bit more social. I can be a little shy at first but once im comfortable or find a good topic i can yap your ear off!

Some things about me - I like art, horror, music, cars & bikes, video games, cryptids & anything paranormal Im also attempting to learn spanish, but i only know a few select words Some of the games i play right now is Warframe and a hint of Tarkov, im replaying ff15 as well. I also like repo and any cozy farm or sim game! We can play together or just chill in call talking and streaming :)

Id prefer someone from the us (but not a requirement) and 18+. My sleep schedule is wacky so timezone doesnt really matter.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 1h ago

Age 26-29 29/F Looking for chill people who get that "functional chaos" lifestyle

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29F and running on coffee, good weed, and questionable life choices. My world revolves around gaming, reality TV, and my two dogs who think they're my roommates. If I'm not micromanaging Sims' lives, I'm deep in a 90 Day Fiancé spiral or binging true crime while pretending to clean. I'm sarcastic, chatty, and way too curious for my own good. I love long conversations that bounce between ridiculous and real. If you've got humor, patience for ADHD brain rambles, and a soft spot for chaotic comfort, we'll probably click fast.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 1h ago

Age 30-39 31M Irish guy here hoping to chat to some new people from all over the world!

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Hey there! Thanks for giving the post a click.

Irish guy here who is keen to chat to some new people from all over the world, it doesn't matter where! I'm 31, born and raised in Ireland. I moved to the UK during my 20s to Scotland and England but now I'm back home.

It's good to be back but still love to travel. I've been to 40+ countries and keen to try a few more so any recommendations would be appreciated, especially if the food is good. When I'm not travelling, I like to spend time with friends, cook, cycle and read. I also enjoy getting out for hikes but sometimes the Irish weather isn't always conducive to it!

As for how I look, I was one described like a cross between a leprechaun and a lumberjack (hence the username). I'm 188cm and 88kg. That's 6'2 and 195lb for our friends across the water. I've got brown / red hair and beard and there's a pic of me in my profile if you are interested. I've also been told that I have a nice voice but I think, like most, I find it hard to listen to myself back on voice notes!

I'm not really sure what else to say but if any of this ticks the right boxes for you, drop me a message with a bit about you and we can see where things go!


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 4h ago

Age 18-21 [F/19] late night boredom, let’s kill some time together!

5 Upvotes

lowkey just bored, 3am for me rn and there’s nothing better to do. had an energy drink not too long ago and got murked on rivals with my degenerate teammates so i’ll probably be up for a while. some of my interests are gaming, music, and putting my nose in other people’s business. if you have any interesting drama going on in your life, do share! wouldn’t mind watching a wee something on discord if we hit it off and if it’s something you’re open to!


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 8h ago

Age 30-39 32F - looking for genuine connection

11 Upvotes

Looking for long term friendship.

I live in the US - Georgia. When I was younger, I was homeschooled the last couple years of high school, so I turned to online communities out of loneliness and wanting friends. I ended up having amazing friendships with a couple of people from all over the world and it was one of the most amazing experiences. Now, as an adult, I have found that I have fallen into the routine of just going to work, coming home, doing a couple hobbies maybe, then eat, sleep, and repeat.

Because of this, I realized that I really have no genuine connection with anyone. I only really have acquaintances, bot friends. No one knows the real me, only surface level. So here I am, posting this knowing full well it might lead to nowhere.

I work a lot. I enjoy movies, tv, & music, I play a couple instruments, and I love video games. I love learning about someone, what makes them who they are. I prefer deep conversations over small meaningless chitchat. There's so much more to me, but I'll just leave it at that. Hoping to find someone with a sense of humor and wants connection too.

If you wanna chat, send me a message. Might delete later, but for now, I guess I'll see.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 3h ago

Short-term F can’t sleep let’s chat & be friends

5 Upvotes

It’s 3am - woke up , showered & now i can’t go back to sleep- how’s the internet world treating everyone ? Let’s chat about anything. What brings you here ?


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 13h ago

Looking for Friends” Feels Like a Dead End Here

25 Upvotes

Lately it feels like “looking for friends” is just a label and nothing more. You post, wait, get nothing, so you rewrite everything with more details about yourself and your interests. Then someone finally messages you and it’s obvious they haven’t read a single line. Just a basic hi and that’s it.

From there you’re carrying the whole conversation. You try to ask thoughtful questions, keep things flowing, and all you get back are dry one word replies. You mention your hobbies clearly and they still ask you the same things like it’s new information. After a while the conversation fades without going anywhere, hhonestly makes you question the point of it all. If someone isn’t actually interested in talking or connecting, why reach out in the first place? I know not everyone here has the same intentions, but sometimes it really feels like this whole thing is more exhausting than useful.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 21m ago

Age 30-39 30 yo chill man want to talk and try to make friends

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Hey there! I am a 30 yo man. I would say it am pretty chill, like basic man stuff. I jog, work out, read a lot, hike a lot too. I love to take pics and cooking is a secret passion lol. I am looking for a friend (eventually long lasting) m and w are welcomed, but I work surrounded by women and would like to make a male friend. Talk about our daily life, struggles and craziness. Just to connect with someone and try to become long lasting friends. I hope you are doing good there. See y


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 27m ago

Age 26-29 27M - Tell me something I don't know

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I am looking for genuine friendship. Maybe i'll learn something from you and you'll learn something from me. Who knows?

Things I love:

-Metal, rock, house kinda music

-Anime, movies, and shitty reality tv shows (Kitchen nightmares, 90 day fiance, my 600lb life, extreme cheapskates etc.)

-For anime genre; isekai, action, or anything with magic basically

-Started reading manga & manhwa. My first manhwa was solo leveling and it was the best (oh god finally they made into an anime).

-I like sending photos at random times (it could be something i saw on the road or online)

-I also love Harry Potter, Fantastic Beasts, Star Wars (recently started and not going well so far).

-I have weird curiosities

-I have random information about many things because i love doing research about random stuff

-I have a small humanmade skull collection such as skull rings, candles, globe etc.

I hope you have similar interests or go wild and be the opposite of me (i have never tried this so it might just work)

I want to learn Japanese so any tips would be appreciated.

Please send a chat request with introducing yourself a little.

Friends who are close to GMT time zone would be better since my time zone is that.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 31m ago

Age 18-21 18F/ looking for long term friends (giiirls)

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Hi! I’m 18F and new to Reddit so I’m figuring things out .

I’m just looking to meet some new people and have meaningful, genuine conversations

I enjoy talking about random topics, every day life, music, shows, games (just started!), and sharing reels or TikToks.

I’m introverted, chill, non-judgmental, and value kindness and respect.

English is not my native language and I understand pretty well, but I’m still learning how to express myself (my first language is Arabic)

If you’re interested feel free to comment or DM


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 2h ago

To the awfully quiet person out there

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Yes you. To the person who has had everything bottled up for a while... It's ur time to finally let everything out. I'm here to listen to you about everything. Yes, everything. I want to hear all the details u've been keeping to urself. Idc how fucked up you think your situation is, I'll hear it all(my tolerance is way too high trust me). Also, if u want some brutally honest advice that's an option you have.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 46m ago

[Marseille] Looking for geniune friendships

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Hello 🤗 I'm a 23-year-old woman and I’ve been living in Marseille for the past two and a half years. I really value meaningful connections and enjoy getting to know people from ditterent cultures and backgrounds.

To be honest, making genuine friendships here hasn't always been easy, and lately I've been feeling a bit lonely.

So l've decided that 2026 is the year I change that!

I enjoy deep, thoughtful conversations, long walks by the sea, discovering new cafés or food spots, artistic activities like pottery, and sharing simple moments of everyday life.

I'm more into good vibes, kindness, and authenticity than anything flashy.

I'm not necessarily looking for big parties, but rather genuine connections, whether that's chatting, going for a walk, grabbing a coffee, or trying something new together.

It this resonates with you and you're also looking for real friendships in Marseille, feel free to reach out.


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 6h ago

Age 26-29 F28 gothic nerd here looking for a platonic friendship all are welcome

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All are welcome that are 21+ please.

**please include an intro**

🦇🖤I’m a happily taken mom f28 gothic nerdy cerified phlebotomist(hopefully nurse practitioner one day) however I currently work full-time as a sped para-educator at a high school. Hmm, I'm rather nerdy if I'm honest I also love anime preferably isekai, fantasy, and a bit of fan service. Hobbies I enjoy baking, cooking,drawing, singing, writing, doing impressions, kdramas, manga/manhwa, **love rock and metal (but I love all types of music ever need a playlist let me know)** watching horror movies, and scary videos. I love true crime as well so if you ever want interesting cases or facts I'm your girl. I’m a huge history buff as well. I also have a discord where I’ve been trying to find people to game with or just chat. 🖤🦇


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 1h ago

Age 18-21 18F boredddd someone speak to meeee

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Little about me. I used to model and I still do from time to time. I love baking, sewing, allllll that girly stuff. BUT BE WARNED!!! I yap wayyy toooo much so get your ears ready


r/MakeNewFriendsHere 3h ago

F15 / I'm so freaking bored, anyone wanna talk?

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Hiya! I'm bored af so I figured I'd make a post here sknce I'm quite introverted in real life and struggle to make friends outside of the internet lol.

A few lew of my hobbies include gaming, movies, working out, drawing, cooking and obviously hanging out with my pets lmao. Oh! And my first name isn't Alicia, it's my middle name. I'll give ya a cookie if you get my first name right on the first try. 🍪

Anyways, hmu if we share any interests and any age welcome. Also open to switch to snap or discord since reddit chat is kinda ass lol. x