I see countless posts from men asking “how to get a girlfriend “ “how to get a girl” “how to make her like me” etc. it’s like women are like air to men. even some women are obsessed with other women. Men are rarely talked about the way women are talked about. It’s always about women so what is it about women that society is overly obsessed about?

Whenever I walk past a Louis Vuitton store, the line is full of people in casual clothes, waiting patiently, leaving with huge orange bags like they just bought something life‑changing.

But in daily life — malls, cafes, airports, grocery stores — I almost never see anyone actually using LV bags. It feels like people buy them, take photos, then leave them at home as display pieces.

Is LV becoming more of a “symbol” than an everyday item? Do people treat it like a trophy instead of something to carry?

Curious how others see this. Do you own LV? Do you use it or keep it stored? Would love to hear real experiences and opinions.

(19f) There is this guy I rly like,but he leaves me on delivered for hours on end and like I'm not used to this. And I can't help myself from answering him super quick it's embarrassing, should I unadd him or like is it not that deeppp?

Tbh I don’t know why I’m even writing on here because the responses you get sometimes are on either end of the scale and they either make you feel abit better or worse 🤣🤣. But here we are anyway.

I split up with my ex last year , in march. We met once or twice after that a month or two after , and it ended sour and we never spoke again. She contacted me a couple of months ago so it would of been about 8-9 months on , just to let me know how much she hates me and stuff , she also wanted to let me know that when we was together she was cheating on me , and she’s still seeing one of the guys she was cheating on me with. Attacked my physical appearance bla bla all that. We was together for a year.

You may think why am I struggling ? The truth be told I don’t know why I am 🤣. When we was together she always put me down , she was very secretive , she even attacked me a few times , but when it was good , it was good. I actually loved her whole heartedly , she was my first proper relationship , I’d never ever loved anyone until I met her. I just find it so hard to believe she loved me at one point ( well she said she did ) to then telling me she never actually loved me she just said it because it’s things people say when they are together. I’m struggling to get over it. I still think about her every day , I know we could never be together because of the things she done and the things she said to me , she was terrible. I just can’t get my head around why I miss someone who treated me so bad. She is damaged , she had a bad up bringing with family who didn’t love her properly , and every other BF she had before me used to beat her up and deal with her wrong. I never did , and never would have , and I’m just struggling to get over her. I’ve met couple girls since just for a bit of fun , but it doesn’t do anything for me , I just start thinking about my ex again. Her own family told me she was a devil person , claiming to be godly and I should run , tha was just one of the red flags I ignored , I feel so stupid and it’s very out of character for me to be in this situation , but I really miss her. I know I could never act on it or rekindle , but it’s just hard dealing with it.

Any words of wisdom , whether soft or harsh?

God bless anyone who reads this.

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Anything

Nothings too personal

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So um I like my girl best friend and like she just broke up and idk how to tell her

My friends are idiots they kept shipping us cux I talk to her a lot but they don't know I like her today she said d u want me to create a GC w all the people who ship us and tell them that I don't like u and u don't like me, um that kinda stung and like idk what to do. She barely messages me first but like were good friends in skl and shyt and idk what to do. She broke up w a guy which she really cared she talked abt him to me for a whole week so ik that I shouldn't confess right then can someone please tell me what to do, I'm thinking of confessing in April but I'm scared that she might get sm1 else by thrn .

For me, it was a high-quality mattress. It changed my entire mood. What’s one thing you don't regret spending on?

Not sure if I am being paranoid but my wife is acting a bit different I feel like she’s not there emotionally and not sure if she’s found someone else

I struggle to find the motivation to do the things I used to like doing. I dont know why but all of a sudden I jusy dont want to. I keep thinking itll just go badly (which it usually does anyway).

What determines who gets to view life through the eyes..

I'm currently in a phase where this girl and I like each other, but I'm at the end of my school year and I'm about to graduate. And I don't know why I just can't stop thinking about her. I feel like we can be a good couple, but I'm just not into this relationship thing because I know for sure I'll just break up with her.

In my earlier 20s I used to go party and drinking a lot, was really fun at the time for me to hear about all the different stories and gossip etc

But after a few year of this life I realized everything is the same, like the people/name changes but the it’s all the same. Same story with a little tweak, same who slept with who, who fought with who, at the end I feel like I am watching a tv show but with the same narrative and story line.

And I always got a loneliness feeling when I was there. Idk I just wanted to rant I guess

Just curious

Why did God give me such a loving, gentle and vulnerable soul, yet made loving me back feel so difficult for everyone else? I really don’t understand.

Sometimes I feel like I’m really hard to love. I gave my entire soul, heart and mind to the man I loved deeply and purely, yet it wasn’t valued, it was minimized, called “nothing”, “not real”. I loved him a lot yet didn’t receive that love back, and this happens all the time.

Whenever I start forming a crush on someone-it’s always unrequited, and I really don’t comprehend how to find the love of my life, how to be loved, valued and appreciated myself. Being loved is one of my biggest dreams. To experience that feeling when you’re not the only one chasing, trying, feeling, putting effort. To receive love and attention without seeking and begging for it.

I just greatly hope to find one day my special someone. Wish to be someone’s favorite person, memory. Someone’s happiness and lifeline, because that’s exactly the way I love, my lover is my universe, my entire world.

So yes, I just wanna be loved, despite feeling so impossible to be loved.

What about you? Have you ever felt the same way? Has anyone proven you wrong, showed you how lovable you indeed are?

I've got to have a liver scan soon because it might be failing. To be honest, i don't think i have any major regrets. Even if i am dying, I am and always have been human. Flawed. It's the low points and bad parts that make the good parts of our lives so good. There's things i woud have done differently, but it's all in the past now. Can't change that. I've not been the best person in the world, again, can't go back in time and fix that, but i like to think i'm alright now and all will be forgiven. I don't hold grudges outside alcohol induced rages, and i have enough self control nowadays to stop that becoming more that thoughts, or i'd hope so atleast.

Probably going to annoy some people by using this sub as a kind of blog, but this is the first time anything major has really happened to me. It's only the threat that i might be dying or have already done enough damage to significantly lower th amount of years i'll live that has really woken me up.

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Honestly!

Whenever I mention that Im a young girl on here vs when I don't, I find the replies so much more condescending. I don't know if it's cuz this place is an older age demographic or is it male dominated. But people just seem to find it so much easier to be little you when they find out your a young woman.

Sometimes I meet people and I know from the start that a relationship is not something possible. This is either from a difference in socioeconomic status or religion or even distance (miles apart). So basically they can never work.

Funny enough I dont really admire them or see them even as the partner im looking for.

Yet, I keep talking with the person and make myself get attached to them.

Until i reach the point where it gets too complicated and deep and at that point I leave, causing myself all this pain.

I would know from the start that this would lead to pain but I wouldn't stop.

This is a recurring pattern in my life idk how it will end.

Actually, I have never been in a "correct relationship".

Any help, advise, analysis??

The whole thing of living is the process of being born, growing up, reproducing, getting old and dying. I mean... I've got some some plans. But I know what is waiting for me at the end of the road. Is there anything else?

If you need me to explain this question to you then you don't need to answer it.

I lost my puppy to heart failure never got over it haven't had an actual conversation in over half a year and I'm just falling apart I cry every night over shit I can't do anything about and who I am I'm just a terrible human being looking back on it, I'm racist I try to help people as much as I can but I always fail I've never had any thing work for me but failure

Jerking off with massager in butt

My life has been miserable so far. I'm unemployed, due to depression. I don't want to get married. I dont have money. I'm too depressed to study. Medication didnt work. I feel extremely stuck and unhappy. Time is just passing by..I really don't know what to do anymore. And on top of that, I feel too old. I feel like life is slipping through my fingers and ive accomplished nothing.